I'm a Sag sun/Cancer rising/Taurus moon, he is a Gem sun/Gem rising/ Virgo moon. We started dating nine years ago and it was really great for nine months or so and then it turned in to the emotional rollercoaster that it is. I moved across the country to be with him while he was in the military and he cheated with girls online. We broke it off and I was ready to come back home and we found out we were having a baby. We have a beautiful four year old girl. He's been home for good not since Oct. Throughout these nine years of on and off crap, mostly him telling me he doesn't want me and that he doesn't want to be with me, he's had five different girlfriends, I've had no other relationships. Every time one fails he runs back to me and we become FWB and I get emotionally attached and he breaks me heart all over. When he is good, things are SO great and we are so spot on together. When his bad twin crops up, he can be ruthless. Back in Oct. when he was with his last fling, he changed up his MO. Whenever we'd do the FWB thing before I'd ask if it was just sex so I could KNOW and put up the appropriate barriers and he'd ALWAYS say "It is NEVER JUST sex with you." And kiss me. In Oct, he was dating a girl online and I told him that this was it, he needed to make a choice, He needed to tell me for sure if he had feelings for me or not because I did have feelings for him and I wanted to make it work. He then told me that he stopped loving me a 'really long time ago' and that it was just sex for him the whole time. I was shattered, but picked up the pieces. The two of them broke up and we got into a really good ebb and flow with coparenting and being friends. We did the FWB thing for a little while and that was good to and we discussed at length that it was just sex and that it was completely expected that we'd move on... well... I did. A week ago I got into my first relationship besides him in nine years. I've been pretty respectful, haven't gone in depth with it and I gave him the heads up that it was headed in a relationship direction before it happened, a courtesy he's never given me. He recently added me back to social media and has since deleted me since I started my relationship.... I don't know WHAT his deal is, he was good for the first few days and now he's being cold, won't even have a conversation with me, when I asked him about our Father's day plans he responded that he 'doesn't even fucking care anymore'. WHAT THE ACTUAL CRAP?! He is the one who would
