Whereabouts of the Gemini...

When people wonder where you are, and where you've been. Just say:

"I might not come when you call, but, I'm always on time"

Oh, wait! There's no such thing as time, right? Just a mechanical illusion based on human mortality, isn't it? I mean, Pope Greg couldn't get it right either, thus, the "Error in time". Okay, I'm dwukn! 😄


~GM

Posted by LibraLuv
GM, where you at?
Gm, where you going?
GM, where you been?
GM, what you doing?
GM, what time you leaving?
GM, what time you coming back?

hehehehehehehehehehe.....

*passes GM my cup*

May I have some please? 😄

You may, Milady! I may not come when you call, but I'm always on time. 😉

Precisely! And that drink been long gone! Speed, you never saw it leave your hand. 😉

how long will it take until you do call? a few days...a week....2? just curious

^^^That's the wrong question. Think.

Posted by slickcat
how long will it take until you do call? a few days...a week....2? just curious

I once waited 22 years. I know that's not the answer you wanted but yeah I loved someone and walked away for 22 years, no contact whatsoever. In fact I just did it again with the same man. It hurt a bit at first/still kinda does but I will get over it.

Posted by Norcalman67
Walked away emotionally then physically 27 years ago. We reconnected six months ago, and...on both of our parts there is no looking back. Wedding in under 4 weeks.

Congratulations Norcalman! My ex said he hopes I don't wait another 20 years, worries we wont be together until we are both toothless eating pudding in a nursing home.

Hummmm, GeminiMind you seem to have all of the answers to everything...

All Gemini's have all of the answers to everything... Didn't you get the memo? 😉

Must admit you're a very intriguing individual...you seem to be very intelligent. You actually remind me of someone I know...and guess what he's a GEMINI too!!! I've been reading some of these posts and some seem to be on point, but others...not too much. The particular gemini I'm referring to is someone I was "seeing". He to pulled the David Blane act on me and I didn't think too much of it because I figured hey...we're just kicking it. But then he drops other bombs on me...As I've been reading here that geminis don't like to discuss they're feelings and get all mushy if you will, but that was just the opposite...he's the one that brought up the relationship topic, exclaiming that he's looking longing for true love. Really? I didn't really respond...I just listened. Mind you this is our second date. After we see each other he always David Blane's me and I hear from him again. I never ask where he's been or whatever, I just take it in stride. On about the 4th date he asked to move in with me. From what I'm reading here, that doesn't seem like typical gemini behavior. Just wondering...

GM you're funny...yeah I got it...I just put it in the paper shredder afterwards...:-)

Gemini's not discussing their feelings is the all-time great misconceptions. We just know how to express our feeling in a way that makes it sound scientific for lack of a better word. It really upsets water signs who aren't as communicative as a Gemini. Alas, we are all human beings, so we all have emotions. For me, I'm not asking anyone to move in, nor would I have ever. You're right, that doesn't seem like your typical Gem. But, I don't know you, so maybe you've got some magical super Coochie or something. *shrugs*

What sign are you, RT?

LMAO...You're a silly billy...I'm a VIRGO...

Ah, Virgo. My mother is one of them too. Gemini and Virgo share the same planet of Mercury. But, that's about it. I can talk to Virgo's for long periods of time. But, I've found them to be overly critical at times. But, when Earth meets Air, the Earth is transformed. My biz partner is a Virgo married to a Gemini. Interesting to witness them, and funny at the same time. But, we Gems have a knack for "shock" value. How do you feel about him? Have you two used the "L" word?

Noooooo! Not at all. I like him a lot though. It bugs me out because we hardly ever see each other or talk so I just considered him to just be a friend even though I have these feelings. I don't put any pressure on the situation. I don't sweat him, I just let him be. I don't even think he knows the extent to how I feel and I don't plan on telling him either. I mean, I have my own life/interests...but yes I do wonder why he leaves for periods of time, and comes back. I thought hey...maybe he's just not that into me but the last time I saw him, he brings up moving in with me again. From what I know about geminis...I thought he would have changed his mind about that.

Gemini's are the classic hunter/gatherer's of the zodiac. When we're gone, it's usually because we're doing such things. Notice how when he returns that he will have some new and fascinating information to share. That's how you'll know. For me, if I "share" information of what I've learned with a woman, it means that I truly care deeply. If I don't, you'll know it, and I'm just there for the "Magical Super Coochie". 😛 The key to being with a Gemini is to NEVER EVER bore them! Virgos, with there conservative, things have to be a certain way attitude towards life can be taxing on a Gemini demeanor. I moved out of my mother's house when I was 18 and never looked back because of that. So, watch it, MSC! You Virgos go nuts when you are faced with the reality that the world isn't a exact science, and to learn flexibility. 😉

Oh,and thank you for the comps, sweets! It's much appreciated. 😄

No prob...You're right though. Sometimes we do tend to strive for "perfection" and have an unrealistic sense of reality, but I am actually learning how to be more flexible and realize that there is no such thing as perfect. He also told me I needed to "lighten up" because sometimes I can come off as being mean, but I'm really not. Everytime we do get together we talk a lot..unless we're watching tv, but even then we talk about what's going on in the movie. We talk about everything. I'm conservative with certain things. The way the horoscopes make virgos out to be is such BS. Most of that crap is not true. I mean I'm neat and all...but hell I don't organize my freakin socks in the draw...are you kidding me? I'm not your typical virgo...

Actually all of my Virgo friends had to either marry or date people that would be neat for them. Because you guys can be messy as hell. However, everything in the natural universe is "Perfect", just not meant to be mechanical and calculated. But, a Virgo woman is totally different then the men. I mean, Virgo women can be strong. Whereas the men I find weak and BORING as hell. Way too conservative and petty for me. But, we speak the same language (Mercury) so I can take them in miniscule doses. Just my experience with them. If anything, Virgo peeps have a hard time with emotion. They tend to pretend that they don't exist, at all. Which makes them come off as fastidious, snooty, fake MoFo's. I don't find all of that true. Fastidious? Hell yeah!! But, I know my mother has some deep emotions, which when they come out, they come out with a big ass bang. All of my male Virgo friends have really bad stomach problems from suppressing their feelings to a point that it gives them ulcers. My business partner literally counts and measures his footsteps when he walks. Like I can't see that he's doing it. HaHaHa! That's typical Virgo dudes. I liken Virgo's to the "Tin Man" if that makes any sense. You need to be around a Gemini so we can lube your stiff assess up!! HaHaHaHa!!

Posted by Norcalman67
Walked away emotionally then physically 27 years ago. We reconnected six months ago, and...on both of our parts there is no looking back. Wedding in under 4 weeks.

Congrats Norcalman!! Gemini girl?

Okay granted I'm fastidious to an extent. I'm not that hard to please but I do like details. That's how I get my answers. LMAO @ the "tin man" ok well then gemini's are like the teacher in charlie brown...HA!!! wom, wom, wom, wom,wom. Full of talk but sometimes it can come off to me as jibberish. You guys are fickle pickles. You talk a good one, but seldom deliver and that irritates the shit out of me. Inconsistant. I believe that is why we bump heads so much. But otherwise...you guys are cool with me. Trust he gave me a good oil change...but sometimes you guys need to slow down a bit before your engine blows!!! LMAO!!!! 😉

Sorry sweets, but Gems are the ONLY sign that practices what they preach. Not only that, guess what sign it was that invented the internet that allows you to voice your opinion. Do a little bit more research, you'll find that Gemini's are the engines behind all great things. It's true! 😉 We secretly rule the entire world, do some research if you want the truth. If not, eh. However, if you here Charlie Brown's teacher when a Gem talks to you, then it is you madam that has missed something. Remember, if you don't understand, then you can't get the knowledge. 😉 There is something to understand when a Gemini tells you something. Sho nuff!! I need to grasp the definition of "fickle", because I'm not sure that applies to a Gemini. We are constant, to a fault. We bore easily and tire from rigid know-it-all's. People who aren't paying attention and who have their heads up their assess would say that we are fickle, and that we are all talk. But, man, I've run circles around many a fool who played me that way. Trust me, I love when I'm underestimated. How do you think we secretly run the show? Playing aloof, fickle, stupid, jovial, etc. etc. etc. For me, I'm just waiting for that one knucklehead to slip and put me in a box. It's over for them at that point. Thus the surprise on their faces! Oh how I love that look!! HaHa!!

Now, I'm not saying that you fit into any of these categories, slim. But, I'm just trying to help you understand that is how a Gemini really is. If I don't deliver on a promise, trust me.........YOU ARE NOT WORTH THE EFFORT!!! That's the honest to god truth! You will hear things like: "Wow! Really 'GM'? He's always been down for me!" and blah blah blah! Because the people that are worthy of my deliverance get the best of me. The rest can kiss my Black Ass!! Sorry, it's true.

Slow down— See, this is where the Earth meets the Air. There's no such thing as speed to a Gemini. It just IS!!! To a sign that measures such things, it would drive you crazy. But to us, it's a superpower!! Yet to meet a sign that can keep up. All you can do is just sit back and enjoy the ride. Or, the alternative: Make a post about a Gemini. Many do, look around. But, you don't find us making post about other signs, do you, hmmmm?? Exactly! That's not what we do. We embrace it ALL!!! Roll with it, transform it, and give it back to the person. Trust me, they are better people after being in our company. Those who don't get it? Fuck em!! 😄

RT, I do commend you for trying to find knowledge however. Most people on these boards fall into the "stupid" trap and get their info from the internet, Youtube, and other sources of bullshit. But, if you want the TRUTH about something? Go to the source, which you did. Most do not. Most people that bash Gemini's fell into the "Not worthy" category, so they most likely got what they deserved. YOU, on the other hand, have found a guy that want's to make something real with you? Maybe he needs a person that he can have an actual intelligent conversation with, and you obviously provide that mental stimulation. *shrugs* OR, you still have the "Magical Super Coochie". But, we Gem men can magically tell what your MSC likes, right? 😉 Yeah, not deliver my ass. Seems like he's delivering like a mothafucka!! But, if you care about him as you say you do, then... be a doll, and help a brotha out with his idiosyncrasies. If you feel that he's in those categories that you stated, then, wouldn't the "honorable" thing to do is to be the Earth sign that you are, and show him? You will get something more valuable in return, I promise you. But, if he's a Gemini worth his mustard, then He's way ahead, and already knows this. It's just a matter of time before he chooses what junction, based on YOUR honor, or dis-honor.

Wow...you really went to town on me!!!!! lol. I say Charlie Brown teacher because he can talk to me for hours about things, and some things he says he doesn't do. That's what I meant...not that he's a blabber mouth. I believe he probably means what he says, but gets caught up, which makes me believe that you guys are all talk. Maybe you're not, that's what I'm trying to learn. See I'm very FLEXIBLE. Seems like you're saying gemini's are the illest and that you're better than the rest. I'm just saying. Seems like you're saying no one can measure up? Really? You're secretly running the show? Yeah ok. You don't have to post anything about any other sign because you BELIEVE you know them already so what's the point. I'm not at all bashing you guys...I'm very in awe of gemini's and think they're interesting. That is why I would like to find out more. I thought too that I found someone that want's to make something real, but when we get close he disappears. I would like to show him how I feel but I am also afraid and I can assure you I DO NOT HAVE MY HEAD UP MY ASS!!!! I HAVE AN OPEN MIND!!! I always thought if a man doesn't spend time with you he is not into you, so that is what I have concluded in my mind about him, so that's why I don't sweat it. There is no way in hell I'll pursue someone that is not into me...I'll BE DAMNED, you know so that's why I fell back because I felt as if he didn't like me. BTW, how do you know I'm slim? & LMAO @ MSC!!!! HA!

See, speed. 😛 That's the power of speed. Speed of mind, speed of action, speed of solution.....well that's all I got for now. But, you get the picture. And yeah, sometimes we do get "caught up". I know I do, because we carry a great burden, and it just doesn't seem like there's enough room to fulfill everyone and everything. If he's asking you to live together, I'd say that's a pretty strong indicator that it's more substantive than you might realize. Don't judge him, help him. Watch what you get in return. Cause and effect. Gemini's are very appreciative, unlike YOUR opposite on the zodiac wheel. But, I get what you're saying about the "talk" thing. Patrick Henry said "Give me liberty or give me death!" He was a Gemini. Those words that he spoke is the reason why we even have the opportunity to have this dialog in the first place. Tim Burners-Lee created the tool that allows us to spread our thoughts throughout the world. The list is infinite. As Marilyn Monroe so eloquently put it: "If you can't handle me at my best, you for damn sho don't deserve me at my best!" Okay, I'm paraphrasing, but, you get my drift.

How do I know you're slim? The same way that all Gems know things....we just know. 😛

Nice...so I guess he knows I have feelings for him too huh...Well I appreciate the advice. It's very rare to find someone to keep it real on a blog...lol. But nah, I do APPRECIATE the conversation...it was peace. Hope to talk to you again. Have a great night & let the bed bugs bite!!!!! It's sexy...

Oh and BTW GM...I know how you know I'm slim...

How, Suga Plum?

You would like to know wouldn't you...I JUST KNOW...HA!!!

Then I'm sure you know the look on my face right now.

MmmmHmmm...That "shock" value...

Uh, no. Kinda like when you hear a corny joke. 😛

LOL...Exactly...

I call it a "Smirl". A smile and a smirk. Coupled with a Pffft. 😄

What in the world is a Pffft? You lost me...

Just wanted to make you try and imitate it. 😉 I can seeeeee yooooou!!

Yeah ok...no, I did not try and imitate it. I imagined exactly what a "smirl" was, and it didn't resonate with me. You can see me? What am I wearing?

Looking at the neck up, sorry. 😉 You do own some nice suits though.

NOT...There are no suits in my wardrobe. I don't like them. Looking at the neck up? You would not be able to tell if someone was slim from that angle sweety...but it's flattering how you THINK you know...

Now I know what you DON'T have in your wardrobe. 😉 All a part of a plan to find that out, MSC. HaHa! Oh man, I crack myself up! HaHa!! But seriously, I don't care about what you're wearing, or if you tall, skinny, or look like Jabba the Hut. I'm focused on what you say, not what you're wearing. Hell, if you sitting right here fixing me some vittles, I still wouldn't know what the hell you were wearing, or looked like for that matter. I'm a Gemini, remember?

Don't change the subject. What's the deal with the guy that you are just "Kickin" it with?

Yeah I do remember...why not just come out and ask me instead of being all extra? I love it though...Well I did something out of the ordinary and took the iniative to text him this morning...he texted me back an hour ago. Really? I guess time really doesn't exist to you guys. I sent him a general, casual "what's up". He texts back with something bizarre and I'm not going to dignify it with a response. It's things like that which makes me believe he doesn't want me as much as I want him.

Maybe he's drunk. But, you're doing it again. Thinking things has to be a "certain" way. No, time does not exist, period. It is a mechanical implementation to get people to worship the Sun. It works, and it's clever. Once people wake up to that fact they go crazy. Good! Should've been paying attention to what's important and not trying to put shit in a box.

But you on the other hand sound like a Virgo woman I hung out with once or twice. She bored me to tears! How? With "expectations". See, all Gemini's know that a watched phone never rings, so to speak. But, Virgos have an extremely hard time with their emotions. I mean letting people know that they have them. It's good that you took the initiative, but, did you at least tell him how you feel? FEEL?? FEEL— Or did you have an "expectation"? How'd that work out for you? It NEVER does. Expectations lead to disappointments, which lead to physical ailments, alcohol, drugs, bad relationships, etc. You'd be hard pressed, Milady to find a Gemini that tends to get 'disappointed' with anything. We just chalk it up as experience, and keep pushin. Try.......GOING WITH THE FLOW!

If a woman sent me a "general", "casual", "whats up". Who the hell knows what kind of bat shit crazy response I might give! C'mon girl, what ya scurred of? Yourself? Getting hurt? Hurting yourself? Or, is it that Virgo delicateness that's afraid to show that you are a sensitive, emotional bunch that has been burnt once and put walls up around you. That's a prison you know? I watched my mother, my close friend, and my business partner do that unnecessary shit for years. I could tell you how it ends. But, do you really want to know? Call dude and tell him that you have those feelings for a brother. What's the worst that could happen? You will at least know what the deal is. Let's go!


Oh, and by the way: "Slim" is a word that's exclusive to women regardless of size that's spoken by Black Men who live in the "Chi". 😉 Guess what? I'm a Black Man that lives in the Chi. It was fun though! But, "MSC" is more fitting, for more than one reason. 😛

See, don't put me in the category with "other virgos" because there is nobody out there like me, there's only one me and I cannot be cloned. How do you get bored with expectations? Everybody expects things in life. You mean to tell me you do not expect ANYTHING from ANYONE? Come on. YES!!!!! I am scared of getting hurt, YES!!!! I do have a wall built up. I'm not about to disclose to him any mushy, gushy way that I'm feeling about him. I don't know if he feels the same way. Hell after I'm done expressing myself, I do not want to feel all vulnerable to give him the opportunity to take advantage of me. No sir. Can't do it. I'm afraid. Go with the flow? I DO, but at the same time I need to understand what the hell is going on and if I feel a certain way and it's negative, it's usually a wrap. He has not given me any reason to believe that he's really into me other than wanting to live with me. Granted when we see each other it's great, but then TA-DAAAAAA! He's gone. WTF? To me that seems like a person not interested, am I wrong?

I didn't realize Chi Town guys call women slim, lol. I just know slim women are known to have "MSC" lol. (No homo)

No, I have absolutely no expectations from people. I only hold them accountable to themselves, and what they claim to represent. The minute that they are not true to themselves, I bounce. Yes, there are constants in every sign in the zodiac. You "need" to know what's going on, huh? Hmmm... Quite the paradox since you're afraid to express your true feelings. Seems shady. I got a feeling that he might feel the same way. Like I stated earlier, I don't know him, his upbringing, or his surroundings. But, if he's a Gemini, the one constant trait that he has, is the need and the urge to be free. How do YOU expect to be free while being surrounded by walls, in which you built? Mushy, Gushy, huh? HaHaHaHa!!! My point exactly! Hell, I know more about your feelings toward him than he does! I'm movin in! 😛 Oh, and so you know. It's not fair to have an expectation of a person without letting him know the expectation. But, maybe it's behind those walls of yours. It's a lot of hard work chiseling away at those damn things.

LMAO!...silly billy...I have to admit that makes a lot of sense. I hate to have walls...yeah that is prison within myself and I don't like to be restrained that way, but at the same time I'm so apprehensive. But you're so right. I have to get the courage up to express to him how I feel. Maybe I may feel better, IDK. At least he'll know and it would be up to him about how to decipher that information. I guess I need to be more of a risk taker...that is something that I've been discovering about myself anyway.

Well that would be what some would call a breakthrough! 😄 Like you said: "Who knows maybe you may feel better!". Trust me you will. He might just turn out to be running off at the mouth about moving in. But, if that's an expectation of yours. Then you need to grab him by his wings and let him know what the deal is. That way you put the pressure back on him, and you can make an exodus of that unfinished prison that you built. But, again, he could just be talking shit. But, if he doesn't know how serious you are about it. Then the proverbial clock starts ticking on him. Then at least you can set your situation up so you can end up saying: "He wasn't shit anyway!" Then move on. But, I'm evil and somewhat diabolical, so.... *shrugs*

Yeah...that's logical. You don't seem to be evil. You sound like a sweetheart to me. As always it was a pleasure conversing with you! Have a nice night. Nice pic BTW. I guess that is your perception of time? HA! ttyl...

Back atcha sweets. Don't be a stranger. You are one of few Virgos that's always welcome. 😄

What's up GM...How are you? So I wanted to give you an update...Well...I stopped being a punk and "partially" told him how I felt. I say partially because remember the bizarre text I told you he sent me? Well I twisted what he said around and bent it enough to keep him wondering exactly what I meant. No I did not profess my undying love for him, nor did I tell him I wanted to be in a relationship with him. I played with the words & told him how I felt for him simultaneously, I gave him just enough to ponder. So of course no response until a few days later. He called me late, but I didn't respond because he never calls me late & when I saw his # across my phone I froze. I call him back the next day...of course no response. So then he calls me days later and we hung out but he seemed so disconnected emotionally. It was like he was picking on me. You know like saying things to annoy me or frustrate me which left me like WTF? We did not discuss what I texted him either. I didn't bother asking & he didn't bring it up. I was just really glad to hear from him but he seemed kind of irritable. I DON'T GET IT!!!!!! WTF——? I told you, I don't think he's that interested.

hm. I think he may have something else on his mind right now. I detach like that when I have 3 other stresfull things going on in my mind and am in a process of twirling it all together. And I don't like to be pushed than, I get irritated, kind of like: I got it, I heard you, I'll get back to you on that when I'm good and ready. - that does not mean that I am mad or don't want something, just that I'm busy otherwise, but even if I don't say so clearly, it does make me happy that someone is there.
Just wait it out for a couple of days.
That's just from my own experience of how I behave, not neccesarily any valid opinion.

I agree with roamingfree. Not only that, he might be pissed that he couldn't land when he needed to (pick up your phone) because he might have needed someone to talk to at the time. *shrugs*