Whereabouts of the Gemini... (Page 2)

Guess so...but with behavior like that, then I'm going to have a knee-jerk reaction and act like the "virgo bitch" I am. He won't be hearing from me for a while...Then I will call him when "I'M" GOOD AND READY. Thanks!!!!

Don't be that way. We are mutable people. We will mirror your behavior, even the bad ones. Try this: Act the way you'd like to be treated and he'll treat you that way. Promise! 🙂

I know I don't want to be that way...but I don't respond well when someone is that way with me. It's something about him that makes me not want to be mean to him though, but at the same time I don't have a problem with giving him the space he needs!!! I kinda think he feels some type of way because I told him how I felt. I'm like you GM *shrugs* LOL.

For a true understanding I give you this:

http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/messages.asp?id=2444843

WOW!!! You said a mouth full there brother!!!!! I couldn't read all of it though because you were losing me on some parts. On some parts I was like WTF? I gotta play it by ear!!!! lol.

What's up GM, how are you. Just wanted to stop by and say hello and tell you thank you for your advice because it helped me. As soon as I opened up to my gemini the way he responded to me actually surprised me. He doesn't perform magic tricks anymore! I'm getting used to his personality because we spend more time together, and I appreciate that. Who would've thought that me letting some of my walls down would do the trick! I was so afraid but what is life if you don't take risks right? Well thanks again babe, I appreciate the time you took out to help me and give me advice because it really helped!!!! You better start charging...lol. TTYL...

You made my day sweetheart! 😄 I wish you and he the best!

Thank You! :-)

I have been involved with a Gemini for 3 months.At first things were very intense.lately he has started to get ghost on me.My opinion is that Gemini's get bored easily and they go off and do something different.I don't think they are above juggling more than one relationship at the same time.I don't think they are capable of making a serious committment.However,they are so much fun to be with how can you not be happy to see them when they return!IT IS WHAT IT IS.

We're more than capable of a serious commitment with someone we feel serious about. If you have preconceived notions, try to figure out our heads, think you know us, use emotional blackmail, emotional tirades, hypocrisy, dishonor on any level, or just plain disagreeable with that Pisces rigidity. Don't expect him to take you seriously for one second, let alone be serious about committing to you long term. I was in a Pisces relationship for close to four years. I sent her far far away for the reasons that I've stated. I'm not saying you're like these things mind you. But, when a Pisces female start saying things like you don't think that Gems can commit and such, tells me that you will convince yourself of that and act it out in your relationship. With Pisces women it never fails. It's the precursor to 'Martyrdom'. A guy like me will help you with becoming a martyr. 🙂

Gemini's are the messengers of the Universe Milady, and we have lots of messages (especially during these times). If you want to know the answers and the truth(s) ask a thoughtful Gemini. If you are rigid, it'll never work. My ex had an Aqua moon, so we clicked on a mental level. YOU WILL ONLY HURT YOURSELF IF YOU TRY TO USE EMOTION AS A COMMUNICATIVE RESOURCE TO DISPLAY AFFECTION!! Now, mind fucking to us is sometimes more intimate than the physical or the emotional. I'd bet the house that no Gemini here will disagree. Our erogenous zones are our hands, shoulders, and our minds. Stimulate his mind, and he will always seek you for his roost. Don't and he'll be "Ghost", and you'll be convinced that we can't commit. Stimulate my mind, and I'll give you the best foot massage that you've ever had, whenever you want it. 😉

Remember: Mercury rules Gemini which is the closest to the Sun, and revolves faster than any other planet. Neptune/Jupiter is way out there and as you know are much slower. I'm not saying it makes us more intelligent, just quicker, BY YEARS, LITERALLY! If your Gem has gone "Ghost", unfortunately he might have got a glimpse of something in you. But, this is just one side of the story. *shrugs*

~GM

In response to GM:the only thing he might have got a glimpse of is that I want him to treat me like I treat him.can you help me to understand why he could act like he (quoting him)had much love for me one minute and then act like he couldn't stand me the next? Are gemini men sensitive? When I say something he doesn't like he unleashes verbal fury onto me.He actally told me women need to "stay in their place". Help me out,WHERE IS THAT PLACE—.Believe me,I know what my role as a woman is.

To be honest,I think he's still involved with his baby's Moma and I feel that he cares about me too.Gemini's are good at multi-tasking.Whats good about our relationship is that we don't stay angry for long and the make-up sex is sublime!

GM:The fact that you were in a relationship with a Pisces for almost 4 years says alot.We can't be ALL bad.The one thing I would change about myself would to be less sensitive.that is the problem I have when dealing with my Gemini man.He can at times be sarcastic and say things that hurt my feelings.

Posted by neptune0313
GM:The fact that you were in a relationship with a Pisces for almost 4 years says alot.We can't be ALL bad.The one thing I would change about myself would to be less sensitive.that is the problem I have when dealing with my Gemini man.He can at times be sarcastic and say things that hurt my feelings.

Sensitivity was NEVER the problem with me and my ex. Gemini's are very sensitive, we just don't allow it to consume us. That's what people can't figure out about us, so they make things up like, most of the generalizations about Gems. Pisces constantly need hand holding, and a Gemini rather than to hold your hand will try to strengthen you with tongue lashing or showing you more than telling you. We feel it's up to the person we're trying to relay that message to actually listen. If not, then we lose respect because we will assume you to be stupid. Sorry, it's true. I don't speak, or give advice unless I can back it up. I'm doing the hard work in order to relay it to the person. Yet, Pisces people I've found haven't been able to accept our speed of thought. What I mean by that is that I'm usually on average of three years ahead as far as figuring a person out. Once done, and I don't see that person as special as they appeared, I bounce and won't say why, unless you piss me off. Then, oh shit! You will hear it ALL, and it won't be pretty.

BUT, like I said, the only Pisces I've seemed to hit it off with were fish with Air placements. This is key, because AIR is important as far as vision from a seeing things from above, communication, intelligence, and flexibility. Pisces live in constant fear and doubt. Yes, I'm generalizing because their are constants in everything. Fear is a constant in Pisces. What I've observed from them (including my family matriarch) is that they are very good at hiding that fear. Which is why Pisces and Cancer get along so well (same fear). Cancers are more afraid than the Pisces if you can believe that. But, how you handle that fear is very important. Gemini's tend to recognize fear in people (since we have the high ground) before they realize that we have "made" them.

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The "Dummies" on dxp think that I have something against Pisces, I do not. I do understand and see you though. Pisces need to protect from selfishness. I mean emotional selfishness. I have no problem with emotional people. Problem is people who through fits, which Pisces do.... A LOT! I'm not a babysitter, cuz I gots shit to do! Real shit, and babysitting isn't one of them.

I like strong women, not whiny ones. Something about the tone of whining that strikes something in my primal brain that makes me want to eat the whiner. *smh* I can't speak for that Gemini guy, because I don't know his situation or his chart. But, for me, I've found that it's easy for a person to say that they want to be treated they way they treat. Yet, that's usually not the case, especially with Pisceans. I challenge you to pay attention to him and to practice what you preach, neptune.

Like I said previously, if you want this guy the way you say that you do. Then, stimulate his mind. If you can't do that, just let him fly away, or you swim away. Mental stimulation is the ONLY way. We can mutate to be whatever you want us to be, if we feel that you're worthy. Or, we won't care if you think that we're aloof, secretive, mean, verbally abusive, etc. etc. We will give you every chance to be correct on all counts. At least I will. MENTAL!!!!! If you care that deeply of course. 🙂

See GM, I told you to start charging! lol...I know what you mean about those pisces because my brother, father, and sister is one...oh yeah, good grief charlie brown I'm surrounded. My brother is the biggest whiner there is and it gets on my damn nerves!!! To me a lot of pisces are sloppy thinkers and dependant (no offense) I know everyone is different but hey that's what I have encountered with when dealing with them. They seem to want people to hold their hand a lot...I agree with you GM. Shit, not me...YOU WILL NEED TO STAND ON YOUR OWN!

"Real Talk" from RealTalk! They couldn't afford me sistah, so I'm doing charitable work. 😛

"Real Talk" from RealTalk! They couldn't afford me sistah, so I'm doing charitable work. 😛

*throw

LMAO!!!! silly billy...

Posted by RealTalk
See GM, I told you to start charging! lol...I know what you mean about those pisces because my brother, father, and sister is one...oh yeah, good grief charlie brown I'm surrounded. My brother is the biggest whiner there is and it gets on my damn nerves!!! To me a lot of pisces are sloppy thinkers and dependant (no offense) I know everyone is different but hey that's what I have encountered with when dealing with them. They seem to want people to hold their hand a lot...I agree with you GM. Shit, not me...YOU WILL NEED TO STAND ON YOUR OWN!

What you said about sloppy thinking is on point on soooo many levels. Fear, is the cause. Think about it my Virgo Mercurian.

If a guy ever told me to stay in "my place", then- trust me- the last thing he would ever hear me say was to not to let the door hit him in the ass on his way out.

Can't help having a cow when I've got a beef.

(Ooooo! Terrible!😉)

It's all about the "Strong Woman". A strong, real man is a man that teaches and shows his woman and his family how to survive in the event of his absence. A strong, real woman listens and pays attention, then executes the plan. Thus the importance of a woman as the most important entity on Earth. A strong woman doesn't need to be babied, knows that their is a place for a lady and a strong woman in the world, and displays that through respect for herself. Rare thing here on dxp though. I'll maintain that as a Gemini, I will be mutable and treat you how you act. If I'm talking to you like a bitch, it's because you truly are one, or I wouldn't transform and mutate to that situation. That's the beauty of being a Gemini, FACT!

LL @ whimsy are real, strong woman that command respect and it will be given. They understand honor and I'll bet have dismissed a many of so-called MEN because they were as fake as the script of manhood they were reading from. Dig that.

Also, a real man isn't going to be with anything but a strong woman anyway. Most of the woman here on dxp are weak women. You can cut down the time it takes to find out who's who just be checking out their profiles and see who's on the "favorites" list. They usually travel in packs. Strong woman don't travel in "Packs" because a weak woman needs constant reassurances that she's strong. They make movies about dumb broads like that. Nevertheless, their are some that always talk about how independent they are. Well, from this Gemini's observation, all I've seen are independent women being just that, independent. Or in other words, alone.

But, my father used to say never be with a woman that puts herself in a mans position. Truer words were never spoken.

GM:First I want to say that you seem to be a very intelligent guy and that seems to be true of most Gemini's.In response to your last comment I have to let you know that just like you can not generalize every Gemini the same is true of every Pisces.I consider myself a very independent woman,I don't need anyone to hold my handand to be honest most of the men that I seem to attract need me to hold their hand.As far as my ability to mentally stimulate my Gemini partner,well I feel that we are on the same page most of the time even though I have to agree with you about the swiftness of a Gems thinking but,I manage to keep up.It could be because I am older than he is that our minds are more on the same level.

neptune0313, I said that there were "consistencies" or in every sign. I simply pointed out some of those consistencies in Pisces. I don't think you realize that you're kind of proving some of those consistencies with your last comment, no offense. 🙂 But, like I said earlier, I don't know that Gemini, or his situation. How each person handles those consistencies are based on many factors. But, they are still consistent. So there are two sides to every story. You say that you keep up with his thinking is not logical or we wouldn't be having this conversation, now would we?

Thank you for the compliment, you seem intelligent as well. 🙂 However, I don't know if you're independent, or not. I stand by what I said about independence in women. The fact that you chose a younger man, and that you say you're attracting men that needs you to hold their hands makes me wonder what's up with that?

Age has never had anything to do with people being able to keep up with me though. Most of the time the older the person has been, the slower. Maturity has nothing to do with speed of thought or maturity of thought. It's about sharpness and the speed of understanding concepts. Virgos get this, believe it or not. Why? Because they're Mercurians too. Thy just need to feel connected to the Earth, we don't. Neither is right or wrong, just different approaches for the same goal. Weeding out stupid. Ironically, Virgo and Pisces are opposites on the wheel. 50/50 whether or not you hit it off.

Whenever someone says to me, "I'm keeping up you!" is when I say to myself, "Oh really?!". It's like going for a run, then I turn on the afterburners. That's when they realize.... "Uh... no". I'll let you in on a little Gemini secret: We test the hell out of people! 😄

Control freak! 😛

Ahhhh!!!! GM, I can't take it!!!! you be killin' em'!!!!! Love it!!! See u don't cut no corners that's why you are ok in my book. You tell it like it is and not what you think someone wants to hear. I respect that on so many levels yo!!!! Realness is always the best way. NO SUGAR COATING!!!!! IT GIVES YOU ROTTEN TEETH!!!! LMAO!!! My gemini is younger than me but hell, that's all it is...AGE. He is well advanced for his age, and is on my level which shocked the hell outta me. Please, I go with the flow...just LIVE LIFE!!!!

Ilove this platform!GM I respect your no-none-sense approach.I must admit that some of the appeal for me (dealing with my Gem)is the challenge.I enjoy the mental sparring that we go through.He is somewhat like you,a little rough around the edges but I like it because he keeps me on my toes.After being in a relationship for 5 years with a Leo a Gem is a breath of fresh air.

Baby, I'm anything but "rough around the edges", I'm a seasoned Vet. Based on your description of that Gem guy you speak of, I'd surely run circles around him. 😉

GM I'm almost positive you would!!! not taking anything away from my Gem.because he's mentally agile also.(smile)

Can anyone tell me if the fact that I'm Pisces with a Libra moon and a Sagittarius rising make me more or less compatible with a Gemini??

More, depending on his moon, ascending, Venus, and rising. But if I'm him I'd hit it! 😉 Most of the fish on here don't have Fire or Air placements in those positions, which makes them stupid as hell. HaHa!! Seriously, "STUPID" and mentally clumsy. 🙂

Ah, hit it he DOES...and we do have alot of other things in common.Don't be so hard on Pisces I feel that we are misunderstood.I used to be very passive but,after I graduated from the school of "getting my head bumped" it made me a stronger woman.Finding yourself is a process.

Oh my, I just left the Pisces Forum it was pretty deep.I simply don't understand the agression towards Pisces.I can only speak for myself but,I generally go with the flow until someone else does something to me to change my mood.I am flexible and can adapt to most situations.I am not a liar or deceitful or a user.I think the people on these forums should be more open minded and not put everyone that is born under the same sign into one bag.there are alot of factors that contribute to one's character.

Do you think I was being hard on you/Pisces?

By the way, I don't misunderstand Pisces, at all. 🙂

I can take constructive criticism.I also know you are too intelligent to think that all Pisces are the same.No doubt we do share some of the same traits but,we are all individuals and that's what separates the facts from fiction.

Blah Blah Blah! 😛

What do you mean Blah,Blah,Blah? Come on with it,you can do better than that.(smile)By the way gemini's are just as misunderstood as Pisces because we are so complex. Think about it.

But, the entire world is starting to wake up to Pisces in the age of Pisces as it ends soon. Slowly, but surely. Hasn't been a good age for humankind, has it. I mean, mankind has never been as lost as it has in the last 2000 years. Rather than look within mans self, man would rather convince himself to be a god. tsk tsk. But, we're waking up to the fallacy as we realize it's all just an illusion. Gemini's are misunderstood, only because society has mentally, chemically, emotionally, and spiritually dumbed down society. 2000 years ago, I'd wager that mankind came to the Gemini's for the messages of the Divine, cuz that's what we do. Pisces on the other hand are playing for the other team. HaHa! 😉

I don't find the fish boards deep, at all. HaHa! I do find them..... Dreamy! 😉 I need visualization, not dreams, sweets.

I'm not exactly on any one team I prefer to go with the flow but,I am a realist and what I meant was people seem to be down on both Gemini and Pisces.The fact that we both have duel personalities could possibly make it harder for the other folks of the zodiac to understand where are coming from.

I found the Pisces forum entertaining but shallow.Those people were vicious! Every sign has some negative qualities thats all I'm saying. I'm happy that I'm Pisces at least I have sensitivity and can feel.

I recently read on a daily horoscope that Pisces could very well be a Gemini in disguise! lol

Nope! Not possible, sweets. You'd have to be mentally acrobatic to be one of us. 😛

LMAO!!! @ GM.

To tell the truth,I do see some simularities of Gemini's and Pisces's traits.GM I know you won't even consider that there are Pisces that can match wits with Gemini but, all of us are not just dreamers and live in fantasy worlds.

Yeah, there are similarities because of the duality, yet it all goes downhill from there. I've never met a Pisces that I didn't like, as long as I keep them where I can see them. For me, it's all about truth. Not just making up a dream and making it a reality to suit your needs. But a real truth about self. Pisces avoid that shit like the plague, every last one of them. Maybe it's because they are afraid of what they might find? I don't know, but, out of the tens of Pisces that I've encountered I have yet to find one that can match wits with ME. However, I'm not saying that they don't exist, I'm saying that I haven't met one. :\ That last line in your comment is a dream in a fantasy world though. jk 😛

Are you saying you don't trust us?(as long as you can see us)That's exactly what I'm talking about!!I feel the same way about Gems.Even though I seem to have a deep connection with them there is a certain amount of distrust.Every Gem that I know has criminal tendencies.(of the theft nature)However,I find them to be fascinating people.Perhaps we are partners in crime.(not litterally)