Gemini from 'Good Sex'

The book that turned me on to astrology.

Star Profile
Element - Air
Key wrods - Mercurial, changeable, unpredictable, intellectual
Ruler - Mercury

May 22---June 21

You Geminis are curious creatures in love. Others find it hard to comprehend what inspires you. If someone can make you think and make you laugh, they are halfway to your heart. You adore good conversation and mental sparring. Love for you is a higher ideal---mental aerobics---not based on pure animal instinct.

Your passion needs to be varied and you can't stand routine in the bedroom. Love for you is an adventure, an exploration of unexplored territory, and you will stay with a love who is inventive and unusual.

Sometimes you prefer a good book to sex and just adore discussing philosophy and politics. Your partner had better be well versed in numerous subjects if they are going to hold your interest.

The confusing thing about you as a lover---and don't try to deny it---is that you really are the twins! Some astrologers allude to one side of the twins being the "shadow side," a dark, mischievous sprite that causes mayhem just when those close to you relax. In reality, we all have a shadow side. Yours may just come to the surface more often than others!

In the Bedroom

Your ideal lover is someone who can transfix you with passionate conversations and surprise you---mundane is not for you. You are often drawn to eccentric types. Your friends may think you are crazy, but it is the mind that captivates you---not looks.

As a lover you have an unerring rapier wit. You will not tolerate confinement and are one of the few star signs who can happily handle nonmonogamous relationships (you can successfully separate aspects of your life, including lovers). This ethereal quality attracts lovers who are determined to pin you down. They don't stand a chance. Your flirtatious nature may ruffle a few feathers, but you were born to be free. You stay on your toes in a relationship and never give all of you, holding something back for yourself. But if you find a partner more intellectual, clever, or inspired than yourself, you will stay the course and be an eager student.

You love a good argument with your mate; not a heated, emotional one but balanced, detached debating. This can lead your partner to tear their hair out at your apparent lack of feeling, but feelings for you are sometimes inseparable form thought. You intrigue your loved one with your brilliant ideas and intellectual knowledge and you love to know what makes your partner tick.

Your mercurial energy makes you changeable; what is truth for you today may be fiction tomorrow. This chameleon air makes you a fascinating, if unstable, partner. You like to explore two sides of every issue. You are usually incredibly honest and charming and are never one to lie intentionally. You are intriguing, inspiring, witty, charming, talkative, inventive, and flexible. However, you are also fickle, easily bored, uncommitted, elusive and unstable.

Your ideal lover is confident and successful, but not necessarily in a conventional sense. A mad artist or a poor poet might turn you on, or perhaps an inventor. You have a great natural ability to be successful at anything that you turn your hand to. Never one to be home every night, variety is the spice of life for you.

Twin Souls

The twin in you is often the split between your emotions and your thoughts. This is where the misunderstanding can begin. One day the emotional twin may appear and discuss long-repressed feelings. Your heart may open and for once all those emotions flow freely. The next day, moment, or second you are back to being detached. Unless you are with another sign linked to Mercury, like Virgo, this is sometimes impossible to understand.

You might think about keeping a journal of your feelings to monitor exactly what comes up in times of emotional freedom. How do your mood swings affect your sexual performance? Don't be tempted to use this as a tool to dissect and analyze! If you really need to do that, keep two journal to express these different sides. This can give you clarity, and can also give you something concrete to share with your loved one.

Love Tip

Gemini, your reality may be different from that of anyone else you know. Ask your partner to handle your emotions gently, even if you appear to be totally irrational. Your partner should know that if you cut them off, they should never cause a scene. If your partner makes a fuss or throws a tantrum, you will disappear in a flash. If you, in your mercurial way, end your relationship out of the blue, your partner needs to back off and tell you that they understand so as to give you the space to reconsider. You Geminis love communication, but you don't understand loss of emotional control.

The Gemini Man!

Intelligent and talkative, you have a brilliant mind. You will capture your partner with your knowledge and charm, but you can be very difficult to tie down. You rush through life like a mad professor on your way to a Nobel Prize. Sexually, you like to give and receive and can be quite inventive. You need your partner to communicate her sexual desires verbally, as this puts you at ease. You are a bit of a social butterfly and are always late. If your partner gets into your head, she is sure to get into your pants!

The Gemini Woman!

A genius at many things, the Gemini mind is faster than a speeding bullet. You do not suffer fools gladly and adore those with different views. You are sexy and can display boyishness and ultra femininity. This is your gift: to be diverse in yourself and to help your partner get in touch with their own diversity. You are attracted to what is in your partner's head rather than what he looks like, and you need constant challenges to maintain a long-term relationship. Sexually you are curious and can be attracted to both men and women.

Gemini: Now you see them, now you don't!

You often get a bad rap in astrology because of your alleged "here today, gone tomorrow" fickleness. Come on, admit it! There have been times in your life when you have loved passionately and all the sexual vibes were right. You were committed, happy even, and then one day you woke up and right out of the blue it was over. You couldn't explain why. It was time to move on.

This Gemini trait of leaving a sexual partner unexpectedly after a period of time does have an element of truth to it. It could take weeks, months, or in some cases twenty-five years, but this alarming and seemingly irrational detachment can occur, often without warning. The good news for you is that it gives you clear opportunities to reinvent yourself and find yourself in a new life. You never look back but start again with the enthusiasm of a child.

Sex for the Gemini can be quite complex. As in all areas, you find it difficult to make your mind up about which kind of sex you actually desire. A surefire bet with the ethereal Gemini is to have soft, stroking and gentle "cosmic sex." Sex for you is a deeper level of communication. But you need the soft, ethereal, sweeping strokes and gentle slow kisses to be really fulfilled. You love to look deeply into your partner's eyes and float off on a cloud of sensuality.

The Pros/The Cons

The Pros --- Your partners will be astounded by the variety of knowledge and wit you sassy lovers have. You will entertain and beguile your lover, and teach them a lot along the way, including (no doubt) new sexual techniques and the art of exploring their mind as a sexual organ!

The Cons --- Unpredictable and elusive, you mercurial Geminis are highly changeable. You can never guarantee that you won't change your mind or switch your point of view right at the last moment. You are easily bored and can leave your partner feeling dull as dishwater. Insecure partners should steer well clear of Geminis.

*Good Sex by Michele Knight

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Great post Kleo!!

The book is called Good Sex by Michele Knight? I will definately be investing in it.

Does it cover all the other signs too?

heart you too, lovelies 🙂

nats @ the book covers all signs . however, i feel like the Gem one especially resonates . yip!

this is a great reference for those confused schmucks out there . . . i don't blame ya.

No loss of emotional control. Sounds about right. Something I value in a person

my gem bf is boring my mind. predictable.

sex is just routine. a "thing" to do in a relationship.

no spontaneity whatsoever.

for me=losing sexual desire for him

Tsk tsk tsk. Aquas! Never happy

ha at least i know what i want!

A gem that is routine? Not fun at all. You need to initiate and start changing it up. Tell him to get up on the roof and fuck you like a dog

Posted by happykitsune
A gem that is routine? Not fun at all. You need to initiate and start changing it up. Tell him to get up on the roof and fuck you like a dog

LOL!

Posted by happykitsune
A gem that is routine? Not fun at all. You need to initiate and start changing it up. Tell him to get up on the roof and fuck you like a dog

oh i've done it all! he must have a sexual dysfunction.

Posted by candi3bb
ha at least i know what i want!

LOL! cant argue with that one.

but do you REALLY know what you want? 😉

Posted by happykitsune
A gem that is routine? Not fun at all. You need to initiate and start changing it up. Tell him to get up on the roof and fuck you like a dog

hahahahaha lol.

Anyway, maybe you intimidate him?

Wats your mars and whats his mars?

Not to kill the whole thread etc (seems to be my specialty) BUT I was just reading through the original post again and saw the part of the gemini woman where it says at the end that we can be attracted to "both men and women".

How true is that for the rest of you??

Its true for me. Im not a lesbian BUT im definately attracted to SOME girls. Its a sexual/physical attraction "lust" if you will more than an emotional attraction. I couldnt be in a relationship with another girl, but sexually id be up for a midnight romp hands down.

And I have a gemini friend who shares the same bday with me and she admitted to me once that she watches porn but in specific the ones where the girls get it on with each other LOL because it turns her on seeing girls getting it on. And I have an aqua sun friend with a gemini moon & she's bi sexual, I knew a gemini who was a lesbian ummm thats all the geminis with female attractions that I can think of....

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Posted by candi3bb
ha at least i know what i want!

LOL! cant argue with that one.

but do you REALLY know what you want? 😉

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no but i know what i NEED 😛

i need a partner who desires me passionately as much as i do with them.

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Posted by happykitsune
A gem that is routine? Not fun at all. You need to initiate and start changing it up. Tell him to get up on the roof and fuck you like a dog

hahahahaha lol.

Anyway, maybe you intimidate him?

Wats your mars and whats his mars?

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both scorpio.

he is rising pisces

capricorn moon

as for gemini's isn't the word "intimidation" a non existent vocab?

Well when I was dealing with my aqua she intimidated me a little. Only because she was so hard to get a hold on, played too many head games (which confused me A LOT) and I never knew where I stood with her.

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I agree with becoming overwhelmed.. which in turn leads to "freaking out" which might drop some hints of intimidation.

:p

Posted by nats
Well when I was dealing with my aqua she intimidated me a little. Only because she was so hard to get a hold on, played too many head games (which confused me A LOT) and I never knew where I stood with her.

ha yea but once you know where you stand doesn't that sorta defeat it all? the chase? the thrill? the uncertainty that drives most geminis?

Posted by geminiwizard
we're never really intimidated, but we become easily overwhelmed when theres too much shit to deal with

im just a simple easy going aqua! seriously

my bark is not as bad as my bite. for all i know i have no teeth when i bite just gums...i even promised him i wont bite him hard.

im so sweeeeeet why be overwhelmed? perhaps more of a fear of losing me that he is over thinking and it has exasperated him? that it somehow ruined our yearning for each other?

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Posted by happykitsune
A gem that is routine? Not fun at all. You need to initiate and start changing it up. Tell him to get up on the roof and fuck you like a dog

you're close but....
If you said "why dont you get on that dog and fuck me like the roof" i would defiantly be turned on. you need too add a little wit to your sagittarian boldness

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Interesting humor. Never seen that in a gem before

Nats- I know a lot of Gem girls who aren't lesbians but who either lust over girls or else make out with them. Can't say the same for Gem guys with other guys. I've only been attracted to 2 girls that I remember. I don't know the sign of the first, but the second was a Gemini...LOL...of course.

candi3bb- Sometimes the sexual chemistry just isn't there and all that's left to decide is whether the relationship satisfies you enough to do without it.

Posted by happykitsune
A gem that is routine? Not fun at all. You need to initiate and start changing it up. Tell him to get up on the roof and fuck you like a dog

*Raises Hand*

Butch Bulldagger here! 😛

Posted by Whimsy
Nats- I know a lot of Gem girls who aren't lesbians but who either lust over girls or else make out with them. Can't say the same for Gem guys with other guys. I've only been attracted to 2 girls that I remember. I don't know the sign of the first, but the second was a Gemini...LOL...of course.

candi3bb- Sometimes the sexual chemistry just isn't there and all that's left to decide is whether the relationship satisfies you enough to do without it.

Yea there are a few ive come across in my lifetime that arent lesbians too (which I cant really recall atm) BUT I think we are way more prone to be "attracted" to other women than other girls of the zodiac.

I've only been attracted to 2 as well. Funny that first one was a gemini (may) and the second and most recent one was an aqua with a gem moon haha.

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Posted by nats
Well when I was dealing with my aqua she intimidated me a little. Only because she was so hard to get a hold on, played too many head games (which confused me A LOT) and I never knew where I stood with her.

ha yea but once you know where you stand doesn't that sorta defeat it all? the chase? the thrill? the uncertainty that drives most geminis?

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In a sense yes, the thril is exciting and so is the uncertainty dont get me wrong... its just when you drag this out for 8 months its no longer "thrilling" because I knew what I wanted and she was just all up in the air like nothing phased her & she wouldnt give me what I wanted so eventually I just cut ties and thats it. Im talking to her again now and things are somewhat better. She comes to me often now because I dont care and I dont give her the time of the day like I used to. NOW its thrilling because she has a bf but still talks to me "like that". 😉

I think when dealing with a gemini in GENERAL when it comes to every aspect of any and every situation, its all about the TIMING.

If you jumped on board at the RIGHT time no one would be on these boards asking questions.

The timing is connected to our moods at that certain moment.

At least thats how it is for me. TIMING is everything people!!

Me too Nats. But, if you catch us in one of "those" moods. Might be best to not ask us anything.

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Posted by geminiwizard

... gemini dudes have an almost feminine side to them. so i dont think gemini dudes are prone to be bi at all...in fact i think its the opposite, that gem dudes are maybe more in tune to the feminine side of life than the other signs.

Would have to agree (at least in my case) that I can be in-touch with my feminine side. Always have been able to get along great, with most any girl. To the point that some girls thought I was in to them when I was just being friendly, chatty and flirty. Had to break it to them that I was just being friendly and nothing more.

Of course as a friend of mine told me once, "Most guys are lesbians at heart". 😉

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Lol guy love. I know gems who are ok with gays, I know some who are so anti-homo. And then I know a bi-gem. I don't think its a gem thing tho. They do tend to act kinda girly tho, which gets on my nerves sometimes cus subby men make me a little annoyed. Thats why I need me an aries. Dom ftw

I've been accused of many a thing. But never girly though. I have no problems with gays, because their life style doesn't affect me. I think certain signs (Virgo) have huge issues with homosexuality. Hmmmmmm.......I wonder why?

Posted by GeminiMind
Me too Nats. But, if you catch us in one of "those" moods. Might be best to not ask us anything.

AGREED GM =]

@Norcalman

Couldn't have said that better myself my friend. Unfortunately it's hard to get rid of women who gets to experience full Gemini lovin. 😉 Women tend to keep us a secret because they don't want anyone to know that we've broken them down to some bits by allowing them to express themselves in an artistic, erotic, and totally free form. Thus, keeping them from the phony facade that they portray to their circles. Their people always say things like: "What the hell happened to you?" or "You seem different!" and blah blah blah! I find it hilarious! Every woman that I've been with blush with what they find out about THEMSELVES, never fails. For me, sex isn't at all about me. Most Gem men would agree, it's about the female, totally. I can be VERY creative on makes "her" tick. All I need is information, then..... 😉 Man, I love being a Gemini! The ability to transform, speed of light, and the vision is truly a divine gift! *takes cover from the flying veggies* 😄

Posted by geminiwizard
i dont think sags are a good match for gems outside of friendship. they dont have any sensitivity they're just pure action. its not a bad thing, but it defiantly doesnt flow with our vibe

Hit it and quit it! They appreciate that at least. Not like water signs where you gotta change Continents. Damn!

Hey Kleo wats the name of the book? Do you have the scorpio excerpt?

Hey Sunny, the book is titled, "Good Sex" by Michele Knight. There's a feature for all the signs.

Posted by Kleo
Hey Sunny, the book is titled, "Good Sex" by Michele Knight. There's a feature for all the signs.

Thank you!