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Posted by Araujo97

Johnny Depp do feels like o a child

I am 40 years old and people think I am 20 and treat me like I am even younger than 20....and it bothers me so much. I behave and act my age and respect everyone around me. They assume immediately that I don't know anything or come to conclusions of some stupid thing and scold me like I am a 15 year old.

Sad part is that they are ALWAYS wrong in the end.
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People think INFPs are childish:

minute 3:27



I had a horrible incident at work today and I remembered this part of this video.

Anyone else?

Are people THAT AWARE that you are an INFP? I wouldn’t even know how to pick one out of a crowd, really 🤔
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This is more for people that are aware of INFP and other personality types...

just like there are people that are aware of different zodiac signs.

La même chose
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Posted by MareInfame
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People think INFPs are childish:

minute 3:27



I had a horrible incident at work today and I remembered this part of this video.

Anyone else?

Are people THAT AWARE that you are an INFP? I wouldn’t even know how to pick one out of a crowd, really 🤔

This is more for people that are aware of INFP and other personality types...

just like there are people that are aware of different zodiac signs.

La même chose

D’accord. Mais, est ce qu’il y a vraiment beaucoup de gens qui connaissent tous les types? Ou tu parle de gens dans ton travail? Ou un group especial?

Pourquoi la haine?!?! 🤷🏻‍♀️

I guess I didn’t really understand your strong reaction - I HATE - . Sounded like it was something that happens all the time.

I know my personality type... but I rarely have people bring it up. 🤔Astrology is brought up MUCH more in my surroundings.🤷🏻‍♀️
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This is mostly about people from work , not friends but anyone I have worked for/with.

Maybe I used the word “hate” in the incorrect form. Perhaps “dislike” it’s a more suitable word for this. Yes , it happens a lot.

D'où êtes-vous?



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Posted by Araujo97

Johnny Depp do feels like o a child

I am 40 years old and people think I am 20 and treat me like I am even younger than 20....and it bothers me so much. I behave and act my age and respect everyone around me. They assume immediately that I don't know anything or come to conclusions of some stupid thing and scold me like I am a 15 year old.

Sad part is that they are ALWAYS wrong in the end.

I'm 45 and to this day am always treated as the rascally child or the bright up and comer in every group. Sometimes I'll be the oldest one in the group and still get treated this way. I've fully embraced it and love the role. I giggle at all the advice I get from children.

I always assumed it was Gemini sun/Pisces moon, but I'm INFP too.
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I am glad I am not the only that feels this way.

This are things that have happened to me. I have embraced it but there are times when people don’t respect me at all as an adult.
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Posted by Araujo97

Johnny Depp do feels like o a child

I am 40 years old and people think I am 20 and treat me like I am even younger than 20....and it bothers me so much. I behave and act my age and respect everyone around me. They assume immediately that I don't know anything or come to conclusions of some stupid thing and scold me like I am a 15 year old.

Sad part is that they are ALWAYS wrong in the end.

I'm 45 and to this day am always treated as the rascally child or the bright up and comer in every group. Sometimes I'll be the oldest one in the group and still get treated this way. I've fully embraced it and love the role. I giggle at all the advice I get from children.

I always assumed it was Gemini sun/Pisces moon, but I'm INFP too.

I am glad I am not the only that feels this way.

This are things that have happened to me. I have embraced it but there are times when people don’t respect me at all as an adult.

You have to pick battles. When I was a kid I had a bit of a Cassandra complex because I could see so many things so clearly but no one listened. First I was shy, and then on top of that, young and unassuming. But what I learned is to let go of ego about that. About unsolicited advice made on the assumption you don’t know things, etc. sometimes I’ll be patiently and politely listening to something I already know or know better than and still learn something useful. I have also learned to cut people off when necessary and to refuse to make excuses for myself.

I’m only a loudmouth soapbox stander here. I guess it’s nice to have the outlet.
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I agree. And I can relate to you 100% . I feel like INFPs have a strong intuition and are empaths .

People tend to think I don’t know how to do things but they have absolutely no idea of how I work or my experience. I usually do like you do, I let them talk and agree and nod , etc. I try to be polite....
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Posted by MareInfame
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People think INFPs are childish:

minute 3:27



I had a horrible incident at work today and I remembered this part of this video.

Anyone else?

Are people THAT AWARE that you are an INFP? I wouldn’t even know how to pick one out of a crowd, really 🤔

This is more for people that are aware of INFP and other personality types...

just like there are people that are aware of different zodiac signs.

La même chose

D’accord. Mais, est ce qu’il y a vraiment beaucoup de gens qui connaissent tous les types? Ou tu parle de gens dans ton travail? Ou un group especial?

Pourquoi la haine?!?! 🤷🏻‍♀️

I guess I didn’t really understand your strong reaction - I HATE - . Sounded like it was something that happens all the time.

I know my personality type... but I rarely have people bring it up. 🤔Astrology is brought up MUCH more in my surroundings.🤷🏻‍♀️

This is mostly about people from work , not friends but anyone I have worked for/with.

Maybe I used the word “hate” in the incorrect form. Perhaps “dislike” it’s a more suitable word for this. Yes , it happens a lot.

D'où êtes-vous?

Aaahhh... yeah, that makes more sense. They sometimes do trainings on personality tests at work & school - so it was the only place I could see people talking about it as a group, or so often. Thanks for clarifying!



Tu peut me tutoyer 😉, je suis des États Unis 🙃
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Merci ! Je parle un peu français - intermédiaire niveau. Je comprend tout mais je besoin de beaucoup de pratique quand je parle ou écrire ✍️ ☺️

Je suis de États - Unis aussi. 😊
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Posted by MareInfame
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Posted by Chessmess
Posted by MareInfame
Posted by Chessmess
Posted by MareInfame
Posted by Chessmess

People think INFPs are childish:

minute 3:27



I had a horrible incident at work today and I remembered this part of this video.

Anyone else?

Are people THAT AWARE that you are an INFP? I wouldn’t even know how to pick one out of a crowd, really 🤔

This is more for people that are aware of INFP and other personality types...

just like there are people that are aware of different zodiac signs.

La même chose

D’accord. Mais, est ce qu’il y a vraiment beaucoup de gens qui connaissent tous les types? Ou tu parle de gens dans ton travail? Ou un group especial?

Pourquoi la haine?!?! 🤷🏻‍♀️

I guess I didn’t really understand your strong reaction - I HATE - . Sounded like it was something that happens all the time.

I know my personality type... but I rarely have people bring it up. 🤔Astrology is brought up MUCH more in my surroundings.🤷🏻‍♀️

This is mostly about people from work , not friends but anyone I have worked for/with.

Maybe I used the word “hate” in the incorrect form. Perhaps “dislike” it’s a more suitable word for this. Yes , it happens a lot.

D'où êtes-vous?

Aaahhh... yeah, that makes more sense. They sometimes do trainings on personality tests at work & school - so it was the only place I could see people talking about it as a group, or so often. Thanks for clarifying!



Tu peut me tutoyer 😉, je suis des États Unis 🙃

Merci ! Je parle un peu français - intermédiaire niveau. Je comprend tout mais je besoin de beaucoup de pratique quand je parle ou écrire ✍️ ☺️

Je suis de États - Unis aussi. 😊

De rien 🙂.... et genial! T’est aussi une Américaine!

Bon écoute...c’est pas grave, j’ai aussi le même problème: comprend et parle très bien, mais l’écrire est un autre chose... c’est un peut la honte 😝, mais je m’en fiche!!!! 😂👍🏼
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nous pouvons pratiquer ensemble!! 🙂 ton française

est très en avance!!