Advice about leo woman(For Scorp Male)

Firstly I would like to say hi because im new to these forums. I have made another post but nobody replied so i thought it would be better to post it in here! Anyways I met this leo girl at the beach. We got on great and there was an instant attraction between us. We ended up having sex that night(AMAZING SEX)and I thought it was just going to be a one night stand sort of thing. The next day we spent more time together and went to the beach again and from then we've seen each other nearly everyday for two weeks. She has said to me that she's falling for me fast but I dont know wether or not to believe her? Shes a really nice girl, funny down to earth and I can act like my normal self around her instead of putting up a front and not being myself.
Anyway, theres a few things that are bothering me...She has alot of male friends, one of whom she goes running with regularly. I've never met him but I am sooooo jelous. Another thing is she is quite friendly with her ex boyfriends mother and visits her now and then. This would mean that she still has some sort of contact with her ex boyfriend and that royally pisses me off even though she has said to me that there is no way on this planet that she would get back with her ex. Somedays I've had to literaly stop myself from going to his house and showing him not to mess. I'm not a desperate person I just get really jelous and am on pins all the time when i'm not with her and I cant stop wondering what shes getting up to? grrr im an idiot! On the brightside there is a definate attraction between us that I think is more than a sexual one. What should I do? Should I say anything about her male friends or am I just being stupid and paranoid? Also What kind of things could I do to keep her happy and Interested?
Anyways Any advice would be appreciated

Sorry for the long post!

Thanks alot
Matt!!

Hi cymru...

I am a Leo In love with a Scorp. Just wanted to acknowledge your post. I will comment when I get back from work.

...Shes a really nice girl, funny down to earth and I can act like my normal self around her instead of putting up a front and not being myself.....

This is a beautiful statement.

I am not a Leo. I just hang in the den. 🙂

But whatever you do .... do NOT show up at the ex's door.

don't show that it pisses you off that she still keeps contact with her ex. that way you can actually ask lots of questions about him and their relationship and keep a track. if she thinks you are not jealous she will more readily tell you whether and when they meet etc etc... 😉
Even if you tell her about it she won't stop doing it. if she feels the need to keep some sort of contact with her ex because he is still important to her as a friend she won't give him up just because of you. she will just do it secretely.... that doesn;t mean that she is still into him!!
oh and although it is important to show her attention ..if you overdo it she WILL GET BORED! easy catch! Hope everything works out fine... I know it is difficult not to be jealous in that kind of a situation but if you show it you ll loose the game....
BY the way don't you keep in touch with your ex girlfriends?

I dont keep in contact with my ex as we had a massive argument. Relationships are so damned complicated!

none of your ex's? then that is maybe why you find it so hard to accept it. Anyway some people seem to believe that keeping contact with your ex means that either one of you wants something more than plain friendship at some point... it could be just sex... it could be more.... BUt i think a leo is pretty loyal compared to other signs..

Hi Cymru,

I can't tell you that this is 100% certain to work. Because only you know what's really going on and who she is. I can only offer some experience with my scorp and this exact situation.


When I first met my BF I had a lot of male friends. None that I was attracted to but I was friendly and sometimes people would mistaken that for more. One day he asks me if I get jealous. Well of course I do. Anyway, he tells me "Well so do I" and let's loose a few things that makes him feel this way.

When he told me this I wasn't put off. I found it flattering. I never realized this bothered him. I found some kind of warped security in it and was a lot more considerate of his feelings. Strange, I know.

Since this relationship has only been going on for two weeks, maybe you should wait a little while longer before considering this. You know, make sure your feelings are what they are.

If this begins to feel like something solid after some time, I think you should tell her how you feel. It doesn't mean she will dump every male friend she has (who knows, she might lol) but if she really cares she may take your feelings into consideration more.

First, give it more time. Make sure she (OR YOU) isn't the type to "burn out" 🙂

And one more thing.

You want to keep her happy and interested? Always be open and honest with her. No matter what her sign is, in fact. I don't know one woman who doesn't appreciate this.

ok i'll try my best! Its crazy I just want to spend ever waking minute with her! Women like flowers right? Maybe I should get her some or just do something to suprise her? Shes told me that shes falling for me fast. It just seems that she opens up a bit then closes and thats annoying the hell out of me!

Cymru, some women like flowers.

Surprising her is a good idea. Pick her up and take her somewhere nice, except don't tell her where you guys are going. Does she have any favorite places?


...It just seems that she opens up a bit then closes and thats annoying the hell out of me!...

Aww, the Joys of meeting someone new. Sometimes it's nice and other times it's just stressful because you don't know anything lol

Well, it sounds like you two really like each other. So far. 🙂

lol chocolate I always feel kinda ungrateful when I get flowers because my initial reaction is...they are going to die. Why did you spend money on something that doesn't last? Then it becomes this metaphoric thing. Flowers hurt my feelings haha! Pretty sad huh?

Unless of course they aren't store bought and he killed them himself. I don't know...he went out of his way and risked getting his ass bit by someones dog or something. You know?

Matt ..

that was an old POST yet hilarious I am in the same situation and same story..

I know he probably left her..

Hello guys I'm new here I was just wondering how I post/start my own thread in this Leo forum?

Leo woman are disrespectful with attention. They will correct themselves trying not to hurt you for a few weeks and then go back to there old flirting teasing self.

Extremely hard sign to dabble with unless your cool with sharing..

Posted by hurtinscorps
Leo woman are disrespectful with attention. They will correct themselves trying not to hurt you for a few weeks and then go back to there old flirting teasing self.

Extremely hard sign to dabble with unless your cool with sharing..

This right here is pure non-sence.. I would never disrespect someone I trully care for by trying to get attention from another man.. We dont do it on purpose to seem like we are flirting .. In my opinion a leo woman is very refined therefore the energy we project is somewhat a sexual one however not with the intention to seduce another male.. Have u ever closely looked at a Leo female and the gestures she portrays.. Quite seductive I must say .. However that is who we are.. But I will admit that some Leo ladies use that seductive nature in a negative way.. To basically get what they want from a man..


As for having many male friends.. I cant speak for others however im the same way.. The only girlfriends I have are those to which ive been friends with for years .. Like 20 yrs or so.. Otherwise all my friends are male ... I cant stand making new friendship with women.. well some of them.. Sooo much jealousy, moody and so on.. I have my own moodiness to deal with cant even begin to deal with others hahaha..

Lastly, if she told you that she will never go back to her ex.. Trust her word.. He probably did something that really hurt her.. Being in contact with the mother does not mean anything.. She probably had a very good relationship with her and does not want to ruin that.. Does she have a mother figure in her life? if so, does she have a good relationship with her own mother?.. This could be a reason.. However I wouldnt be too worried about that .. You seem to be a really nice and sweet person by the way u describe her .. Hang in there.. Its a great match ... I had an ex bf for several years who was a scorp .. It was a nice relationship .. sex was AMAZING as u stated.. However he was a douche and had a one night fling with another woman and got her pregnant.. I ended the relationship the minute I found out ... He continues to contact me via text messages until this day .. apologizing and stuff however I never respond .. its too bad cause I really cared for him however as ur Leo lady said ..I will never go back to him ... Ill stick to my cancer lol Hope this help 🙂

Thanks everyone.. I just fell in love with her for the past 5 hrs..

I will confess a I never been so in love romance more then with her..


These guys keep logging on and chasing her.. It gets under my nerves..

Thank you all for your responds..

Leo's actually enjoy a certain amount of jealousy and possessiveness, because they themselves possess these characterists. However, you must carefully display these in a tactful and sophisticated way, perhaps over a romantic dinner. 😉 The more you develop the non sexual side of the relationship the less of the need for the outlet to hang out with other guy friends. Any direct expressions to forbid her to do something will be a total turn off though. 🙂 good luck. 🙂

Stand Corrected Leo Woman or this particular one likes her cake and eat it.. I recommend have fun with her yet tread lightly and know she is dangerous if you fall hard she will hurt you in some way... She changes like the wind and is high maintenance keeping her from being bored ..

If she would only seek true love and not love from every warm body man on earth.. and they wonder why they cry themselves to sleep..

Words of advice: Show her attention or she will lose interest. Don't go into those dry spells where you (SCORPIO) disappear. Leo's lose interest more quickly than you think.

Sweat.lioness Thank you.. who knows you can dry spell.. No Scorpios go into injured spells.. meaning depressed and hurt

She went icecold after i showed jealousy is there a way of winning her back.. she loved me while i was crying and later turned and said no more?? i am sooo low down and out 😢(

I can only speak for me, leo sun/scorpio moon: If I am into a man, and I retreat....for whatever reason, the best way to get be back is to ignore the hell outta me. And you scorp men can do that well. I always want what I cannot have. When attention is denied me, I seek it. IF she loves you, she will want you to chase her, where she will feel impowered and treat you like caca. Retreat yourself, o scorpio...I cannot believe I am saying this to a scorpio man! I have been the victim of a hot/cold, retreating scorpio man and I HATE IT.

I would like to know more bout your theory that scorp men going into "injured spells"...please share what that means.

Well I am injured and back in May i retreated for 3 days.. Meaning I knew this other guy would log on IM everyday the same time she was on.?? They played cat and mouse and chit chat.. I was hurt.. so i retreated and ignored her for 3 days..

So I am in the middle of work and want to write what I did.. it was a build up and ignoring me and just not showing me any attention.. going invisible..on im.. when the other guy was on so she can talk to him?? also post attention messages on a social network..

Sh held her lies very good about these other guys.. but during our argument i said some terrible things.. attn W and she was saying terrible things to me making me get even worse.. Her answer to why she said low things to me was I made her do it??

Anyway I really love her.. she said she will not give me another chance as sick as that sounds.. but I am so into her.. she is all my dreams other then being a tad sneaky.. I will write back. Thank you

As per me I must work on my jealousy.. it get huge.. and negative..

I still say ignore the shit out of her. It drives me crazy when a man does that...good luck!!

everevolvingepithet Correct she blames that she is narcissism. But I must confess she is one yummy narcistic addict..

she was hurt by my words and i wounded her.. Trust me i am the nastiest make B my mouth is terrible.. meaning i am injured and grew up in NYC..

I am missing my LEO woman.. I hurt her very bad and she is ICE cold.. help

I almost gasped at the OP it sounds so much like me and the Scorp I met last year. I looked at the date and it's 2006. WHEW! I have a male running buddy-STILL and loved my ex's Mom-STILL because I had just lost my Mother and she stepped in where my Mom left off. So, don't always assume. Leo women are extremely loyal and trustworthy - the mature ones.

Well she is a Leo in her mid 20's beautiful super attractive super adorable.. and super sneaky with secrets.. that is what triggered all my emotions.. uggh.. I love her..

I would say if she says she is falling for you, she means it! Also, I would say if you are falling for her as well let her know. To be distant or insecure and let that hold you back, would lead to her moving on. Its fine to ask questions about her relationship with the ex. If you know that you are a paranoid person, you need to work on yourself. It has nothing to do with the Lioness. 😉 So just try to focus on the good things that are transpiring between you two. As a leo woman, a little jealousy from a boyfriend may be kinda cute at first, but depending on how far he takes it, will make me want to cut you off completely. ---been there done that.

CUTE ME off.. I gave heart and blood to that woman.. I made a promise that the next woman who slaughters my heart because of her selfish "narcistic" desires will have to pay the same pain.


While with her she was secrative,sneaky,cheater,liar, abusive, hurtful ..

The only relationship she can handle is one when she is chasing the guy ,in fantasy and lust.. any other relation will bore her..

I meant CUT me off *

Rituv13 Oh my scorpio female dearest here is the take he is a player.. He will never be as deep as you so PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE tread lightly.. trust me..your deep emotions will get injured ..


As he wants you to treat him like royalty with his ego and oral—I am not sure if you like grant all of his oral ego's

Yes he wants that good guy image the problem is you will become an obsessed detective wanting to believe in his heart yet you will discover a huge bag of sneaky..

Dearest please becareful they are very dangerous because we love so deep and they take it as a give and love many..

remember LOYAL .. meaning you deserve a guy who sees your hawk eyes in wonder and troubles before you say anything and he saying love nothing happen and I want you ..


If you want to discover a player and can handle sex all for him ..but I do not think you have the heart for that nor be tormented hurt and worry—

Tread lightly he is alot of fun and you must probe deeper or take him as a many lover guy..


He will use those words later on you saying I told you we were friends and I never made any promises.. you may run his ass over after hearing that so protect that..lol..

hurtinscorp, what did you do to hurt her? Give details

I will explain everything this evening. It is not what I did to her it is her lies and how I dug down to the roots and find the truth.

All the woman I have been with cheated?? but this one was the hardest and most difficult..

As the say about a gorgeous LEO woman.. " I just wanted to believe her" if I was getting ass as a favor I would have used it the best I can..

I was spending money and not getting ass being abused and secrets .. I held it in for many months but couldn't stand it anymore watch her live in a fantasy from a fake imposter illusion man who she never knew his identity—

I guess LEOs love fantasy and taken into a false romance?? all works of satan and his army of demons.. rightoo

My ex was a total bitch and super selfish.. The outcome is she ram back to her EX bf who beat her and was sleeping with her to start sleeping with him again.. She is so sweet yet such a rotten woman..

Beware if a LEO woman has her secrets and other back end romances she will fight and leave u to keep them.. Never buy more then just enough for a LEO until she proves herself as loyal as they say?

They will usually use someone as a band aide to fix past problems.. ask around to other woman what they know about her that will reveal her true self.