Leo girl needs help with scorpio man!

Hey! So Ive been out a few times (3 or 4 times) with this Scorpio man. We have a good time each time we go out. HOWEVER, he waits a whole week before calling me again! I dont know if he will everrrrr kiss me either! I have no patients I guess! Do Scorpio men usually move slower than others? Should I be more aggressive? Ive never been out with a guy before who has not tried to kiss me on the first date! Also.. how do I ask him what he is looking for with me (a relationship? just to date?) or what, without looking too pushy?

I'm still learning about scorpio men myself, but as for the kissing thing. It took mine about 4 dates to ask me for a kiss and that was at the very end of the 4th date. He still will not make a move he is not 100% sure is welcome and we have been dating now 3 months.

Hey, the scorpio is 30.. I am almost 26. It just bugs me, I dont know why. And he will wait a week to call me. But I guess he is interested bcecause he keeps wanting to go out!

Dancing Bread,

Thanks so much for the input. Yea, I figure if he wasnt interested, why would he keep calling to go out again? He could just stop calling if he wanted too. I kind of respect the fact that he is going slow.. it's a first for me, so it's kinda nice 🙂 We are going out this weekend so Ill have to keep ya posted. I know he is SUPER busy at his job... he works crazyy long hours. I dont think that is an excuse for not calling but then again I can somewhat understand. I think he is being cautious. I get the vibe that he has been hurt before. Maybe I will get a better feel for what he is looking for after this weekend.

Thank You :-)

Yeah,I agree with DB. I mean,just because he hasn't called you doesn't mean he is not interested. I've heard the "if he hasn't called you by this time and etc, but every one is an individual and you can't generalize like that,,,,The more interested I am in a man.,,,the more I back off. It's easy for me to ring up somebody I don't like without thinking about time or days...but when I like someone, I tend to be more cautious.

hi leo girl. Umm my scorpio did not go to kiss me on the first date and well i simply said pull over he looked a bit confused and i said kiss me, he smiled with his sexy smile and well BAM lol..so i mean, im usually shy but i really wanted to kiss him lol so if you can try and make the first move, this way you know either way i guess. Goodluck =)

Aprilbaby -

I can see where you are coming from too. It def. bugs me when he doesnt call. The last time we went out was the saturday before Easter. That night when he dropped me off he was like "CALL ME TOMORROW!!" And before I even had the chance the next day, he was on the phone with me THANKING me for going out with him... and then... he didnt call for week haha I dont get it! Drives me nuts. But he finally did call and said he was so busy with work (ya know, the usual lame excuse) and asked me out for this weekend. Thanks for your input too! I need it :-)

Oh Juicy!!

That is hysterical!! If I only had enough guts like you to do that, I sooooo would! I am dying to kiss this guy. We've only been out a few times.. and he keeps calling to go out more. So we'll see!!! We are going out this Saturday so I will tell everyone what happens.. keep your fingers crossed.

Yes I talk to him...nothing significant..I'm tired of the on and off thing, and for my sanity, I have ended our relationship.

I actually told him whether it be a week or a month that I prefer that he not contact me....this was via text....and he said nothing

I know...but I am dissapointed and have been depressed behind it.

Thats how I get... down in the dumps.

I know..I try and not think about it.

Softy:

I've been in the exact position you are in now. I ended it with someone also but you know what happened? I became sad and depressed. Then I waited two weeks and took contact again just to test the waters. Turned out he was going to be in contact with me anyway so I didn't lose him. We have contact now although it's annoying when he sends me a text message and I send him back that he doesn't answer. It's so infuriating. This person also told me he always pops up again much to my amazement. I'm not used to that at all like someone disappears to reappear when you least expect it. Therefore what Dancing Bread has written is very true about the person you are sad about will be back in your life again. Only problem is you won't know when but that's life.

Dancing Bread.. thank you. I will keep that in mind. He always calls and asks me what my plans are for the week. I always say.. "Im open" Maybe I should start saying I have plans so he knows he needs to be a lil more prompt to make plans with me. Ya think??

I'm chiming in here:

I absolutely think you should not make yourself too available for this Scorpio guy who you are interested in. Let him do the chasing. Plus guys like a bit of a challenge. Play a little hard to get but be fair with him.

seems like you scorpio boys play hard to get! lol

juicy, he's a pain in my butt HAHA He drives me crazy.. but I really like him

awww i'm sure everything will work out and if all else fails..RAPE HIM lol jk sorry for that

One thing you will need with him is patience.. and if you really like him you'll learn to have them. But be direct about things.

You are right. Eventually I will have to be direct. I just dont feel like I know him well enough yet. :-) You are so funny. I feel like jumpin his bones when Im with him hahaah

omg, I wish I would've seen this thread sooner. Confused, there is nothing wrong with making the first move. Do it! And then watch him flip the "dominance" switch on you. It's kinda cool really. I made the first move on my scorp. He called me back the next day, and the day after and the following month. If you are certain he likes you,and you want to kiss him that bad do it. If he gets turned off, consider that a sign he wasn't that into you. And then come back and tell me all about it.

good advise, i like to sit back and wait for the first move now a days
i used to be diferent.

Scorpius,

consider it a reflection of how badly she wants you. Now how can that be a bad thing right? Scorps like to be desired.

oh i know...she wants me, the previous boards she all over me. i like it but im not going to bring it up on every message thing.

It must be a gem thing, lol...my gem does that every now and then...it doesn't matter where...she'll just get close to me and say, "kiss me"...I'm usually caught off guard not paying attention until she says those words...

LOL

So the last time I had contact with this Scorpio was Sunday. He called me.. he made plans for this weekend. Its Thursday.. and I havent heard from him. I think that is just plain ol' rude if you ask me. WHY did he even bother to call me in the first place—?? Or am I just being a sensitive leo?? hehe

Well... it would be nice to know if we are still on or not. He just made the plans general. He said "are you free next weekend" So I dont know if he means Friday or Saturday. It would kinda be nice to know. :-)

wow he is a brave man, I have been close too murdering a couple of Leo girls in my time, vain, arrogant, pig headed, Me, Me, ME is what it's all baout with them and the worst thing?...fucking MAJOR drama queens and attention seekers...It never last with me and Leo Woman because they make my blood boil too much and stress me the fuck out.

wow he is a brave man, I have been close too murdering a couple of Leo girls in my time, vain, arrogant, pig headed and Me, Me, ME is what it's all about with them and the worst thing?...fucking MAJOR drama queens and attention seekers...It never lasts with me and Leo Woman because they make my blood boil too much and stress me the fuck out.

Scorpman...please don't say that about Leos....I have said almost the same thing....and was reprimanded...

hi! i met a scorpio man. we met in clubs a couple of times. a common fiend of ours introduced us to each other actually and this common friend of us told me that he (the scorpio guy likes me). last time we went out he kissed me but as i was very drunk i did not want to proceed in doing anything more. we slept in the same house but nothing more than kissing happened because i stopped it. next morning neither of us mentioned anything about the kissing incident. we talked about irrelevant stuff. If he does not text me or call me to meet again should i give up or text him first?

well i did text him to thank him because he really helped me out when i was drunk and to say sorry for any inconvenience i caused him and he text me back after 3-4 hours!!!!

was that a smart move?

i am watcher too i think because i just met him 3-4 times and i understood that he is highly secretive. fishing him about stuff and about his feelings doesn't work either!! anyway his reply to my sms was that i caused him no incovenience and he had a good time and that he is the one who should apologise for taking advantage of the situation! so should i just suppose that he wanted nothing serious but just an one night stand or so?

ok so this last sms does not indicate anything about his feelings? because i thought he was trying to find out in an indirect way whether or not i was interested in him or i just kissed him because i was drunk?in the last case i would consider it taking advantage not in the first one!!! Know what i mean?

that he either wanted to show that he is good guy and that is why he apologised for taking advantage and he is not interested any more. or that he wanted to find out what i think about what happened. i think i am gonna wait until saturday and then text him to invite him out with a couple of friends if he has not text me by then. No way i am calling him to ask him out (i mean just the two of us). i am too shy for that. But then again i guess if he doen't call by friday night he is just not interested any more ..so why should i bother to invite him out? ohhhhhh god scorpios are difficult to understand. 🙂

dont worry, DB works miracles.... DBs like the mentor of DXP lol

what's DB?

thanx a lot for the advice!!! 🙂

question! why would a scorpio man that tries to make a move on ask you if your ex boyfriend is good looking? what is the point in asking that? is that out of insecurity, competitiveness.......?

so...scorpio men like aggressiveness in a woman because they have to be sure to make a move....but then if the woman approaches them...calls them etc they loose interest because they also appreciate shyness? how are these two features to be reconciled?

you like him alot huh?

Juicy, get back on aim...it broke!

puh puh pweese!!

LOL i am on aim i just imed you! restart!

restarttt

ok, hold on

"you really like him a lot huh?" => well i am intrigued i don't know if it is really worth trying though. He moves so slowly i might get bored eventually!
and maybe tired or trying to decode hi! 🙂 🙂

so what was the answer to my previous two questions?