Alright Leos, time to get a little hot 'n' heavy

Ok...let me start out by saying that I am asking this purely for research purposes. Don't you dare call me a perv! I'm simply attempting to better understand my Sun sign 🙂.

From what I have read about Leo sexuality, we're supposedly selfish lovers. But I think the fifth's house association with pleasure and its influence on us extends to more than just what we can get.

I know that when I'm involved with someone, I have a fascination with getting to know every inch of their body and how they like it to be touched, stroked, fondled, whatever it may be 😛. For me, sure I like to receive pleasure, but I REALLY love to give it.

And this doesn't make much sense to me for my Venus and Mars so I'm turning to the Sun to explain it. How are you guys when it comes to this?

Pulls up chair, chips, and sits waiting.

I think it has more to do with the interplay between gender, sun, venus, and mars.

The two leos I know are complete opposites: one Leo was tantric, the other was rough and aggressive. Both always asked to make sure I was happy.

I dunno chocolate. One of them was just so pushy. It was hard to have a good time because I couldn't relax. I had to be the reigns.

Oddly, he thinks sex with me is explosive and that I *get* it. Meanwhile, I was holding back on all fronts.

He was pretty crazy. I would do it again though. 🙂

Yeah. He was ... intense.

I kept saying relax, be patient, breathe and he was going out of his mind. It wasn't fair. I like being the one out of my mind! I don't like being the blanket on the fire. It is hard to relax when you are the responsible one.

I had to say no to things I would have said yes to had he just taken his time a little more and been patient. That is the Gemini/Leo combo right there. The Gemini wants to try 17 different things ... the Leo wants it all NOW.

But I would do it again. My intellectual curiosity being what it is, I wonder what could have been. I believe it would have been explosive had we ever learned to flow together.

I never even got a chance to figure out which techniques he liked. He was all urgency and didn't seem to care.

*grumpy sigh*

Maybe he's not calling back because you slept with him too soon. Didn't you only go on a couple of dates?

that was for LS

Yep.

I don't believe that is why he hasn't called. He actually respects that and he really didn't give me much of a choice. I have a few theories which I believe are more accurate.

I will take it to my love life thread.

I don't believe I made a mistake.

Even if he never calls, how would it have been a mistake? He simply wasn't the person for me. If he doesn't call because we had sex too soon, we don't share similar values and aren't compatible anyway. I like him but there were things I was uncertain of. I was hardly out trying on wedding dresses. I was willing to explore it further but whatever. Life goes on. I am hardly that hung up on it.

*** How do you know he actually respect it?

Who cares? I still respect myself so why does it matter? It doesn't.

All relationships are meant to fail but one.

I just don't believe in regret and guilt.

I am still not 100% sure he won't call. What will be, will be.

But I am hardly staying at home crying about it. 😉

lol!

Exactly!

You too chocolate!

I am having a hard time getting excited about tonight but sometimes those nights turn into the best. I am kind of tired and would love to watch a movie go to bed.

Tomorrow should be very cool as I am getting together with my girl crush. She is awesome. I always leave her feeling so inspired.

*kisses original topic goodbye*

bon voyage! 'twas nice knowin' ya! 😛

sorry wheels. I tried to move it over to my thread but it just didn't make it.

😢

oh, it's fine little_sparrow. no one was really adding to the original topic anyway, but tisk tisk to everyone who didn't move their ass to the appropriate thread! 😛

lol!