Are Leo's able to have a renewed sense of love?

Am I the only one who is DEEPLY CONFUSED by Leos?
I'm a Scorpitarius (Nov 24; Sun in Sag, Moon in Cap, Asc in Scorpio, Venus in Sag, Mars in Scorp) Anyways... He's a Leo (obviously) (Aug 14) We dated and lived together for 4 years, literally on the dot. He just would NEVER commit to me.
I was so in love with him, but he simply for a lack of better terms (use his words). He would never compliment me, say I love you, or anything emotional. I know he loved me at some point, but he was TERRIBLE at using his words to express anything emotional.
He was a great hugger though.
I heard that Leo's HATE Sagittarius's because they need order in their lives and Sagittarius's are not of the "orderly" sort.
He is extremely stable and makes a substantial amount of money. We have SOOOO much in common, and there is definitely love there. But I NEED him to tell me. He also never buys me things, and when he does it is so off the wall I really question if he even knows me at all.
We broke up in December 2014, and recently started seeing each other again.
But after 2 dates, I realize I cant be friends with him.
We did mess around both times (HEY it had been 8-9 months for both of us, and it was overtly needed. lol)
But every time I felt like I wanted to be with him again so bad, and yet he would do subtle brush offs, or rejections. This is when I knew he was going to continue to break my heart, I was never going to feel "loved" by him.
So I ended it.

My question:
He said that he's had mixed feelings about hanging out with me and that it is hard to separate the feelings we had before and its too easy to go back to what was comfortable.
Are Leo men capable of having a "renewed" sense of love for someone? I think we fizzled out and did a horrible job of dealing with it.
Or is he just clueless in that he doesn't know what he wants? He won't commit to me even after 4 years of literally almost no arguments, we have sooo much in common, I adore and loved him to pieces, but he wouldn't commit. I know he loved me at some point, but was too nice to say something when he felt it was over for him. do Leo's ever feel love (lost) for someone over time? or are they a forget them and leave them sort and never look back?

Your question has so many emotional tones, it is hard to give a straight answer.

But here's what is real.
I don't know what lends Leo such practicality, but what did not work is a dead idea. We usually cut it out. Eventually - and this was unfair to you, because it sounds like he was never really emotionally attached - we do break free. Maybe the sex was great or your ability to give him freedom was comfortable.

Leo usually doesn't work with Sag because we are rather a sensitive breed. Sags, on the other hand, are quite blunt. Also, the need for Leo to express himself can be overshadowed by Sag's expansiveness. You tend to be quite boisterous, and we mostly need focused attention to determine our progress with our partner.

Again, Leo is a deeply introspective sign. Some call it selfishness and then there's ego, but we would rather not make you sad again, so we will move on.

Unfortunately, there are always a few options after one is done, so its difficult to pine and pine for an ex. Maybe, right after, we will lament the loss because we hate to lose what we were used to, but once we get used to something else, its over.

In what sign are his Moon and his Venus? I think the answers will help clarify some of his seemingly confusing behavior.

Posted by SpiceNSugar
In what sign are his Moon and his Venus? I think the answers will help clarify some of his seemingly confusing behavior.

I wonder too.... Mercury and Mars also