Aries + Leo - 3months make or break

Hello,
I wonder if I can ask you for your opinion on my story, as you seem to be Leo experts 🙂
I'm an aries btw. Late 20's like him.

I've met a Leo online and we started chatting on msn. Very nice type of conversation, we shared the love for traveling and we were chatting almost daily for a month while at work. We had good friendly conversations but I seriously never had intentions to meet him in person even though we live in the same city. But then we went from msn to skype, then phone and eventually, after a month of chatting online, we met.
We went to 3 or 4 dates and he was really a gentleman. Took me to gorgeous places, didn't let me pay, escorted me home..all by the book 🙂 I was really enjoying the attention. He even showed up once with a gift out of the blue! We ended up kissing one night and then on that same week he invited me to dinner at his place.
I couldn't resist, we are not kids anymore and I ended up sleeping at his place that night.

After that he kept on being sweet, calling everyday from work at lunch time, having nice gestures, etc..but then...suddenly we were not going out anymore. I started going to his place for dinner and staying for the night very often and in a way it seems he takes me for granted. Not so sweet anymore, no compliments out of the blue, no sweet texts. Like if he doesnt need to conquer me anymore. Sometimes it gives me the impression he is with me only because of the sex! His sex drive is unbelievable! But seriously I'm not sure if he likes having sex with me or if he likes me!

We've been going out for 3 months now. We've been on holidays together just the 2 of us and he already met some of my friends and I've met some of his - once only.
He doesn't speak about his feelings and I dont want to pressure him either. We are together maybe 4 / 5 nights in the week. But it seems it is always the way he wants or there is no way. If I'm quite for a few days he always comes after me and I know he enjoys being with me, even though I'm not sure if he associates me only with sex...so...my question is:

Do you think he is taking me for granted and need to be shaken a bit? Maybe I should have 'the talk' and ask him where we stand / if we should move into being bf and gf?

I seriously believe he would miss him if I finish it all with him, but I also think he is very proud and he probably would never assume it. On the other end, I want him to care more for me, be more interested in me and show affection.

any

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any thoughts on this?

I dont feel him excited and over the moon. Is he being cautious? I knwo he is not he moochy moochy kind...even the other day I told him: you were very sweet last night. He asked: why? I said: because you kept on hugging me and kissing me throughout the night. He says: who? me?? Almost surprised because he was being sweet.

I don't know, I really think I should bring this up with him but I also know he will minimize it maybe.

What do you think?

Hi TG

Thank you for your opinion

"Seriously - what is the definition of a gf for you people nowadays anyway??"

Relationships aren't that easy nowadays. In fact, I don't think they ever were. This forum is one of many examples of that..

"And I was laughing my treetrunking ass of reading the whole post. I??ve never read anything more typical in my life. "

Ok, maybe with a little perspective - and that's one of the reasons I came here - I might admit I'm might being too laid back. I'm an aries - impulsive, bold and even aggressive sometimes - so I'm learning with my mistakes in the past and going with the flow, just enjoying it and seeing where this goes. He is traveling now on business but I will definitely confront him and make sure I know what he thinks about 'us' and where this is going.

Samiamascorpio,

Yes, I will ask him. I do understand that things cool off with time and that's probably the case as we are still together very often. But I still think he has a sweeter / tender / caring side that he is not showing me and it confuses me, because I don't know if it is because of we are not a novelty anymore, or if I don't bring that out in him.
He always acts cool, has the secure pose like he knwos everything and is super confident, and i don't know if he sees showing his feelings as a weakness or if he in fact don't feel it.

To cut a long story short, I don't know if he is with me because it is convenience, because he likes the sex and the company or if there are stronger feelings there.

Do Leos deal well with confrontation?

Don't ask me why but I seem to attract Leos. My last 2 bf's were leos..but this one seems more reserved about his feelings.

You're absolutely right Kitty. I can't delay it any longer.
He's away and will be back next weekend. I went yesterday for dinner with friends and I've met this guy (friend of a friend) and we were chatting all the time. I'm going for dinner at his place next monday (group dinner). Nothing special but I confess the attention felt really nice. The way he treated me all night - listening to what i was saying, being gentle, etc - felt good. And that's something the Leo I've been seeing stopped doing.

Thanks anyway guys!