**Asexual** Leo --- How to Get him to Talk?! (Page 2)

Posted by TaurusManUk

Posted by sheathedclaws

Posted by TaurusManUk
@sheathedclaws: relax we are not insulting anyone you know but the concept of this Guy flaunting his asexuality as a badge of honour and not being truthful or anything like that.

Sweetheart, tell me to relax again and you'll find yourself at the wrong end of my wrath. Don't patronize me, nor hint at my emotions being extinguished.

Fair dos I won't then. Everyone is entitled to their emotions. I just wondered why you were getting agitated. Simples really. This was quite an old quote anyway.

P.S I don't believe in Patronising anyone as there is no point to it. You know do unto others as you would do to them and all. Also threats either 'empty' or 'real' are very unattractive on anyone.

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I'm quite confident in my attractiveness, and quite honestly don't give a damn what another says about my internal and/or external attractiveness. That little comment really did nothing, no matter what frivolous intention it posed. I'm a captivating creature, no matter what 🙂

Posted by ShahBano
To Sheathedclaws

I have never met any, so yes I am more than likely to be wrong, and my knowledge of astrology is sketchy.

I can understand that, but judging a sign before meeting one is not very good practice. Keep in mind that every sign is balanced in flaws and traits.

I admit that before 'being with' my Scorpio, I thought along similar lines. So there is no 'ignorance' you have, beautiful 🙂 Just human nature. -hugs- You're better than how you speak of yourself. Please please use more positive terms in reference to yourself. It hurts seeing such unbelonging words next to a captivating and intelligent being. 😢

Posted by WoundedLeo

Posted by luckystar007

Posted by WoundedLeo
I have a friend who I've known since we were 5 years old. He's a Cap/Sag. He likes to tell me he's "autosexual". I just laugh and tell him that it's time he came "out of the closet". :-)

I love him though no matter what kind of sexual he is because he's always been such a terrific friend.

Can you tell what is "autosexual"— Is it different than "asexual" or same—

Well, I'm bound to assume that he means to say that he prefers to pleasure himself than share with another human being. I just find his terminology amusing.

Asexual to me is someone who has NO interest in sex at all.

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Exactly the Latin translation. Ding ding ding, we have a winner 😉

wow..honest to GOD,i actually work with an asexual guy..and he's also a leo

he's not gay(and i haven't seen any gay like traits), but he's in his early 40's and claims to have never had sex..he said he just isn't interested in being in a relationship("women cause too much stress", he says)..but a female co worker once told me that he has a foot fetish..he's a overweight geek thats REALLY into video games, ESPECIALLY mario bros..he likes to draw cartoons too, and is really good at it..

and he's also very moody..but its hilarious to watch'em when he gets mad

wait....was there doubt that asexual meant absolutely no interest in sex— what else can it possibly mean?

lucky: this thread is a joke. if you want to indulge weirdos, that's your business but you can't seriously expect any rational or logical answers to this really obscure sexuality question of yours.

i don't know what your problem with sheathed is either. she's only being honest. it pisses me off when people get into hissy fits cos they're not getting the kind of 'honesty' they wanted to hear.

damen: see this is how i imagine an asexual man to be. he is not actively pursuing relationships with women online like the OP's person.

tell me....when you met this guy, did he say 'hi, i'm asexual' by any chance, LOL!!!

Posted by scorchedearth

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
damen: see this is how i imagine an asexual man to be. he is not actively pursuing relationships with women online like the OP's person.

tell me....when you met this guy, did he say 'hi, i'm asexual' by any chance, LOL!!!

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Affectional_orientation<BR>
that was the quickest way to find what i was looking for but i reckon if you look up more stuff about asexuality on the internet you'll see it's not uncommon for asexual people to still want romantic relationships.

assuming that all of them are immune to wanting love is kind of ignorant.

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I think I love you 😭

🙂

of course i'm not saying they don't want love in their lives.....but romantic love? is that possible without physical affection too? i just don't understand how you could reconcile having zero sex drive with having 'romantic' interests.

i admit to being completely ignorant on this topic. and judgemental to boot. guilty as charged. i'm only human 😢

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
wait....was there doubt that asexual meant absolutely no interest in sex— what else can it possibly mean?

lucky: this thread is a joke. if you want to indulge weirdos, that's your business but you can't seriously expect any rational or logical answers to this really obscure sexuality question of yours.

i don't know what your problem with sheathed is either. she's only being honest. it pisses me off when people get into hissy fits cos they're not getting the kind of 'honesty' they wanted to hear.

R1g, sorry my thread may blow your mind...😉...but it is NOT a joke...seriously!

There are some asexual men even got married to sexual women........sounds strange........but it is true. Just simply google, you can find lots of stories...

P.S. my goal is not to marry him......just keep him as brother or platonic friend if he is good enough... 😛

Posted by scorchedearth

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
of course i'm not saying they don't want love in their lives.....but romantic love? is that possible without physical affection too? i just don't understand how you could reconcile having zero sex drive with having 'romantic' interests.

i admit to being completely ignorant on this topic. and judgemental to boot. guilty as charged. i'm only human 😢

you can be physically affectionate without having sex. kissing, hugging, cuddling, canoodling. all of those things are expressions of physical affection that everyone does all the time and none of those things are particularly sexual in nature.

can you imagine going your entire life without ever hugging someone you care about?

would you want to have sex with everyone you hug?

do you see the difference?

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Thank you for your explaining & posting the website for me.🙂

Posted by scorchedearth

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
of course i'm not saying they don't want love in their lives.....but romantic love? is that possible without physical affection too? i just don't understand how you could reconcile having zero sex drive with having 'romantic' interests.

i admit to being completely ignorant on this topic. and judgemental to boot. guilty as charged. i'm only human 😢

you can be physically affectionate without having sex. kissing, hugging, cuddling, canoodling. all of those things are expressions of physical affection that everyone does all the time and none of those things are particularly sexual in nature.

can you imagine going your entire life without ever hugging someone you care about?

would you want to have sex with everyone you hug?

do you see the difference?

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no, i can't imagine going through life without hugging someone i care about but i won't necessarily have romantic feelings for them. my daughter and i were curled up together on the sofa tonight watching 'titanic' but it wasn't a romantic clinch.

romantic love is sexual love....platonic love is non-sexual and between friends....unconditional love is what you have for blood relatives.

do you see the difference?

Posted by DAMEN VI
wow..honest to GOD,i actually work with an asexual guy..and he's also a leo

he's not gay(and i haven't seen any gay like traits), but he's in his early 40's and claims to have never had sex..he said he just isn't interested in being in a relationship("women cause too much stress", he says)..but a female co worker once told me that he has a foot fetish..he's a overweight geek thats REALLY into video games, ESPECIALLY mario bros..he likes to draw cartoons too, and is really good at it..

and he's also very moody..but its hilarious to watch'em when he gets mad

LOL......there is another asexual Leo man......but overweight—

I thought all Leos are skinny like Barack Obama...😉

very moody........is that Leo's nature—

Posted by robyn808
If it smells like shit, feels like shit and tastes like shit, then don't step in it. Your intuition about this guy is getting stronger... Don't ignore it, its there for a reason. You are a pretty open and excepting person, but something still feels wrong. Your curiosity could lead you to danger.

If he is bad like shit, I won't waste time to talk about him.......actually, he is very gentle & sweet to me......but just ignored my questions which I concerned about...

My intuition about him is half good & half bad, so I am trying to find out what he is hiding...—

So far, there is NO "danger" since he is 3000 miles away from me.

He said that he would like to meet me...and asked if I would like to meet him... I just ignored his question since I don't want to meet a stranger who is not willing to talk honestly.

All I am going to do is ........ just do nothing & see what he reacts.......if he is not going to "improve", then I will kick him out of my mind!!!!!!!!!

@ R1g,

I think you messed up the definitions of different kinds of LOVE.

'sexual love' is 'physical love'...in a simple word...it is just SEX without any feeling of real LOVE.

'romantic love' includes most feeling of real LOVE & may OR may not include 'sexual love'.

'platonic love' (which I want😛) only happens between the two who are emotionally & spiritually closed to each other, but not physically.......and it may OR may not include some romantic feelings (feelings only), but NO sex involved.

Hope you can figure out...... 🙂

In fact, 'sexual love' is easiest to find, 'romantic love' is middle level, and 'platonic love' is hardest to find.

yeah, there's romantic sex which is called making love and there is basic instinct sex which is called fucking.

romantic love is a sexual love but that does not mean that sex is always romantic.

and no matter what you say, a normal healthy human being will want to consumate romantic feelings at some point!!!!!

Posted by luckystar007
@ R1g,

I think you messed up the definitions of different kinds of LOVE.

'sexual love' is 'physical love'...in a simple word...it is just SEX without any feeling of real LOVE.

'romantic love' includes most feeling of real LOVE & may OR may not include 'sexual love'.

'platonic love' (which I want😛) only happens between the two who are emotionally & spiritually closed to each other, but not physically.......and it may OR may not include some romantic feelings (feelings only), but NO sex involved.

Hope you can figure out...... 🙂

In fact, 'sexual love' is easiest to find, 'romantic love' is middle level, and 'platonic love' is hardest to find.

actually, you and scorched are really beginning to piss me off. where the fuck do you think you get off patronising me? if you're gonna try and do it, try and make logical arguments that mean something? i did NOT mess up my definitions and i do NOT want or need clarification on the different classifications of love.

ROMANTIC LOVE ALWAYS INCLUDES SEXUAL LOVE UNLESS YOU'RE A FUCKING ASEXUAL!!!!!

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Posted by scorchedearth
if someone takes you out to a romantic dinner do you assume that they're going to bang you on the table in the restaurant?

well, not on the table but yeah i would be aware that was where it was leading to!! what a ridiculous question...did you read it back before posting? LOL

so from what you and lucky are saying, it would be perfectly ok to be in a sexual relationship with one person while having romantic feelings for another?

if that's what you believe then you're in a massive minority.

i'm not having trouble understanding anything beyond how obtuse you are!

buenas noches

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s

Posted by luckystar007
@ R1g,

I think you messed up the definitions of different kinds of LOVE.

'sexual love' is 'physical love'...in a simple word...it is just SEX without any feeling of real LOVE.

'romantic love' includes most feeling of real LOVE & may OR may not include 'sexual love'.

'platonic love' (which I want😛) only happens between the two who are emotionally & spiritually closed to each other, but not physically.......and it may OR may not include some romantic feelings (feelings only), but NO sex involved.

Hope you can figure out...... 🙂

In fact, 'sexual love' is easiest to find, 'romantic love' is middle level, and 'platonic love' is hardest to find.

actually, you and scorched are really beginning to piss me off. where the fuck do you think you get off patronising me? if you're gonna try and do it, try and make logical arguments that mean something? i did NOT mess up my definitions and i do NOT want or need clarification on the different classifications of love.

ROMANTIC LOVE ALWAYS INCLUDES SEXUAL LOVE UNLESS YOU'RE A FUCKING ASEXUAL!!!!!

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Another woman got pissed off by my thread...— I am not the only one has quick-temper...😉

Honestly, you don't have to agree with me......you have the right to talk anything you want just like I did...😛

yep, just a normal dating site that my friend told me...a couple of weeks ago.

Posted by seraph
There's drama in a Leo thread??

*confused*

Just as there is always be...😉

thank you elle and seraph for restoring this thread to sanity 😄

Posted by xxxsyzygyxxx

Posted by luckystar007
yep, just a normal dating site that my friend told me...a couple of weeks ago.

Cool. Have you spoken & seen him on iChat, Skype, etc?

Have you called him on a landline?

(just trying to establish what stage your relationship is with him)

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No, I don't want to talk to him on a phone...if not necessary...

It is just very beginning stage.......I am thinking if it is worthy to invest my time with him...am I crazy— 😛

At least, I am not stupid to deny something that is still unknown...but real... 😉

Posted by xxxsyzygyxxx
Have you considered the fact that he might not want to open up?

You said you picked up on his BS - don't ignore your instincts.

Don't you find it strange that he is on a normal, dating site and not on a site that would better suit his purpose (a non sexual romantic relationship)? This suggests he is selfish - the woman would have to suppress her natural instincts to satisfy HIS emotional needs.

Do you not find it strange that he introduced himself as asexual, implying he was open and honest about it, yet now that he knows you better, he does not want to discuss it?

He puts up pictures to attract a woman, but has no interest in appearances? He describes you as sexy, when he has no sexual instincts?

Anyone can create a profile with fake pictures, a fake name and a fake location. He has not opened up, but you are talking to him freely. Probably telling him stuff with the expectation he will open up, whilst he does not say anything of substance.

Please be careful.

At beginning, I thought he contacted because I claimed that I was looking for some "platonic" friend (for my own purpose, but I am not asexual). Platonic means NO sex involved, so I guess he felt free about that?

He told me his daily life...hobbies...his family...a little bit everything, etc. When he mention "asexual", I just followed him to ask him more details about it, then he shut off. He said a few times that he was proud to be an asexual...but why can't he talk more about it? So I doubt if he is real asexual...try to verify... There is a buddy warning me about he may be a "fake" asexual to get my attention since he knew what I am looking for.

I started being cautious...that's why I am here to ask for suggestion.

Thank you! I will be careful.

If he won't open up, then I will stop responding him... no matter how charming he is. then Game Over!

Forgot to tell:

I always talk to people honestly / freely / openly......but I don't release anything about my privacy to someone who I don't really know about...😉

So he doesn't know too much about me neither...no danger about that.

Posted by TaurusManUk
Finishing off 🙂

I just think it is one big pile and a load of BS but provided one hell of a good laugh nonetheless 😄

TY Sweetie xoxo 😉

Luv

Taurus 😛

😏 😉

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
damen: see this is how i imagine an asexual man to be. he is not actively pursuing relationships with women online like the OP's person.

tell me....when you met this guy, did he say 'hi, i'm asexual' by any chance, LOL!!!

naa, he's never mentioned that word before,lol, but he definetly fits the definition of it

Posted by luckystar007

Posted by DAMEN VI
wow..honest to GOD,i actually work with an asexual guy..and he's also a leo

he's not gay(and i haven't seen any gay like traits), but he's in his early 40's and claims to have never had sex..he said he just isn't interested in being in a relationship("women cause too much stress", he says)..but a female co worker once told me that he has a foot fetish..he's a overweight geek thats REALLY into video games, ESPECIALLY mario bros..he likes to draw cartoons too, and is really good at it..

and he's also very moody..but its hilarious to watch'em when he gets mad

LOL......there is another asexual Leo man......but overweight—

I thought all Leos are skinny like Barack Obama...😉

very moody........is that Leo's nature—

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i don't think so..but i think the lack of sex would make any man moody or uptight

Posted by DAMEN VI

Posted by luckystar007

Posted by DAMEN VI
wow..honest to GOD,i actually work with an asexual guy..and he's also a leo

he's not gay(and i haven't seen any gay like traits), but he's in his early 40's and claims to have never had sex..he said he just isn't interested in being in a relationship("women cause too much stress", he says)..but a female co worker once told me that he has a foot fetish..he's a overweight geek thats REALLY into video games, ESPECIALLY mario bros..he likes to draw cartoons too, and is really good at it..

and he's also very moody..but its hilarious to watch'em when he gets mad

LOL......there is another asexual Leo man......but overweight—

I thought all Leos are skinny like Barack Obama...😉

very moody........is that Leo's nature—

i don't think so..but i think the lack of sex would make any man moody or uptight

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Can you post his chart here if you know— Otherwise, just regardless this.

Why do you think "the lack of sex would make any man moody or uptight"— I have seen many sad stories on DXP about women were dumped by "moody" guys (not only Leos) suddenly / unexpectedly...because they all had great "sexual" relationship... How to explain that—