Back and Forth with Leo Guy

I could really use some insight. I have posted before about my Leo guy. We have been friends for 20 years, then decided to be more. For the past 2 plus years he and I have been going back and forth with each other. Last time about this year, he broke things off with me. Then four months later came back he said he was a comittment-phob, and said he was ready be in 100 % in the relationship. Here we are again and he has been texting less, less affectionate. I have talked with him about it and all he says is that he is working on it. He said it's like he is working on a project and I keep tapping on the door asking if it's ready.
So I have backed off a little. Not really sure what to think.
Best I can come up with is that he seems Emotionally unavailable. Any Insight would be great. My head is spinning, because I do love him.

I give my Leo breaks.... Don't you need a break? They don't like clingy or anything too easy...back off and leave him skins don't even text or call so this for about a week. Focus on you... When you get clingy or mushy or needy they run. If it was over he would be straight up so just give him space.

Give him ALL THE AIR he needs... ignore the living hell out of him.

Incommunicado.


He doesn't think he will ever, Ever, EVER lose you.

Is he right?

Because he isn't a commitment-phobe... it's laziness.

Don't encourage it.

Shaniajam & Montgomery - Thank you. It took me a bit to catch on but yesterday I texted him and got nothing but crickets. Finally at night he responded with that he was tired and was getting something to eat and going to bed. I didn't even respond.
And I am taking your advice. I will not text him, call him. No communication.
I am sure he doesn't think he will lose me because he hasn't so far, and he knows that I am a true blue woman.
Thanks for your you input. I really felt alone and needed some words of encouragement.