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Posted by wecarealot
I don't know much about Jen but it sounds like Ben had some drinking/gambling/women problems. I don't know if he was depressed or not but he doesn't seem to have his shit together.
that's too bad. that's the downfall of alot of men (and women too)
i dont hear Jennifer Garner saying anything nasty or bad about him, after the break up so that's good. He wasnt treating her bad, but with the gambling and drinking/ and the women, it sounds more like neglect.
Posted by busyeyes88
Sad news. Here's his chart:
Planetary Positions at Birth
Sun:19 * 52' in Leo
Moon:29 * 14' in Virgo
Mercury:12 * 06' in Leo
Venus:05 * 01' in Cancer
Mars:28 * 24' in Leo
Jupiter:28 * 41' in Sagittarius
Saturn:18 * 27' in Gemini
Uranus:15 * 17' in Libra
Neptune:02 * 26' in Sagittarius
Pluto:00 * 20' in LibraWas there cheating? I think the gambling and the women had more to do with his air and fire placements of sag and gemini?!!
What is the general consensus?
i went to atrotheme. they even have his rising.
maybe it's different elsewhere. this is astrotheme:
http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Ben_Affleck
Born: August 15, 1972, 2:53 AM
In: Berkeley (CA) (United States)
Sun: 22 *39' Leo AS: 8 *34' Cancer
Moon: 4 *46' Scorpio MC: 19 *00' Pisces
Dominants: Cancer, Leo, Sagittarius
Venus, Jupiter, Moon
Houses 3, 1, 6 / Water, Fire / Cardinal
Chinese Astrology: Water Rat
Posted by Kodak375
Cancer venus in men tend to drift at times, ask the Governator Arnold swaz
in vedic astrology they Always put down Virgo Venus and Cancer Venus.
naw. there is free will. Guess he willed himself into doing it.
Posted by seraph
Joe W. Blow's divorce a few doors down isn't big business. It's just life. A set of reasons whose time has come. It happens. And it isn't any more special than another divorce 90 degrees and 100km from his house.Ben Affleck's divorce is "WHAT HAPPENED??"
So, WHAT happened?
Nothing happened. Life happened. Sometimes ten years is ten years, with a laundry list of reasons to boot. Couples aren't just couples — they're also two separate people. People who, before they met each other, had nothing at all to do with each other and were just fine.
Maybe (probably) this is exactly what they both need, and while the world stares in slack-jawed bewilderment those two couldn't be happier.
that's true.
it's still sad. 😢
weddings are for celebration and happiness, and the other side of the coin is tragic.
but at least they have alot going for them.
Posted by wecarealot
I don't know much about Jen but it sounds like Ben had some drinking/gambling/women problems. I don't know if he was depressed or not but he doesn't seem to have his shit together.
He's a dick!
Just a stab in the dark! Lol
Hmm, I always had a feeling they weren't going to last. I wondered about him after he made that movie showing his penis lol
i did read that she said, she doesn't want to "court" him anymore. I thought huh? Court him?
it made me think she too neglects him. I mean why would he do all that womanizing and running about?
so both are guilty if anything IF that's the case.
relationships are work.
i'm not saying it's an excuse, but....
Meh. It''s Hollywood. The industry and subsequent "high life" wrecks souls, people. Just another one down for the count.
Posted by aquapiscescusp
Hmm, I always had a feeling they weren't going to last. I wondered about him after he made that movie showing his penis lol
you're right.they've been fighting to work on their marriage for years before this. Guess if it's NOT working,.....
only counseling can do so much.
Posted by Leonyne
Meh. It''s Hollywood. The industry and subsequent "high life" wrecks souls, people. Just another one down for the count.
some, but very very few couples really make it through though.
it's best if they stay out of the limelight. but that's kind of tough. because many of them who go into this career, have to deal with the limelight.
Rebound relationships are an uphill battle.
Every relationship has an expiration date.
Posted by LunarMaiden
Rebound relationships are an uphill battle.
Every relationship has an expiration date.
really?
would you say that if the couple were, cancer sun female and....(insert your fave sun sign male)
never mind, i thought you were being biased, Lunar.
but i did look back at their relationship, and saw that alot of people were saying that it's rebound from the Jennifer Lopez relationship.
Still, that just means he didnt love Jennifer garner as much??
and just needed a family.
because they had children together and raised a family. Kind of sad though, still.
Posted by LunarMaiden
Rebound relationships are an uphill battle.
Every relationship has an expiration date.really?
would you say that if the couple were, cancer sun female and....(insert your fave sun sign male)
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Yes, why?
Posted by LunarMaiden
Rebound relationships are an uphill battle.
Every relationship has an expiration date.really?
would you say that if the couple were, cancer sun female and....(insert your fave sun sign male)
Yes, why?
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lol
and honestly, Jennifer Lopez looks happy.She's not pining over Ben Affleck.
Maybe Ben Affleck just needs someone similar, not exactly like Lopez but similar.
I really didnt see or look back to see how they were as a couple.
and shame on Jennifer Garner for going for a man who is on the rebound.
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and Jennifer Garner, divorce after a decade? what happened?
well it looks like it's going to be amicable anyway. i thought she was a leo for some reason, but she's an Aries, with lots of gemini in the 12th, and he's got a Scorpio moon.