Around thanksgiving I was just getting over a one sided friendship with a guy I cared about. Anyway in short time after I met my cancer man online. We talked for a few weeks, mostly about how some dont want a real relationship and how things are the same now a days. He asked me to be his girlfriend and because of the last guy I declined and ask to keep things online, he didnt let up on that. Matter of fact he kept on trying, I gave him all my bad traits as a LEO woman. Even just bad personal things but he wouldnt take no as an answer. I gave in after a week and it was ok. He begged for my trust and love and I slowly gave in to it. Then I seen something questionable but small online between him and another girl. We went back and forth for a week and again he reassured me that it was nothing and he want to make things work with me. The sex was great and we always felt so comfortable with each other. From then he deleted all social network profiles and spent every other day with me. Everything was great and i found out a lot about his exes and family which made me love him and want to help him find healing in his past. His brother came and moved in for a week and cause nothing but trouble. He stalked bout how my cancer use to be and all the bad things he did to his exes and his family. I could tell that it was very much bothering my cancer but he started to shut down on me. He wouldnt talk to our spent time with me like we did. Every time i shared my feelings and look for comfort in him he wasnt there for me or he was rude and disrespectful. There was times we had differences and i would tell him that it hurt my feelings and he would not understand why i was hurt and blame it all on me. The more he said his family was treating him bad he treat me bad. One day he sat me down and told me he was a mean person and he knew he was a terrible boyfriend cause thats what his exes and family said. And also was telling me that i shouldn't and he doesn't want me to cater to him anymore. That he would stop trying to be my prince charming. I seen female glasses in his car and he rudely and disrespectfully broke up me for a small thing. I am beyond hurt for loving my cancer but oddly want him back. Was it just crap from the beginning or was our love just fell apart—
NEVER! He told me so many bad things about him I didnt want to really speak to him. His brother didnt like me cause of my race. We are all the same race may i add. He tried to get my cancer to trick money out me and skip town with him. After my cancer told him to leave we spent 4 none stop days together. After that I was hearing about the things he was txting and on social network tell the other brothers about my cancer. All bad things. And everything went down, he wanted to skip town as he always does, he started to down himself and talk negative and when i tried to help he shut down. Told me i say how I feel and think, that i express myself too much. And never talked again
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