butt buddies

This topic was created in the Leo forum by pinkrose on Wednesday, February 26, 2014 and has 12 replies.

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@pinkrose
13 Years

this is not only towards Leo's but I wonder why do men have to hang out with each other everyday like for example my boyfriend goes over to his friends house a guy all the time every day I mean they are navy friens of 9 years but I mean damn they stay on two different side of town his friend stays on my side and when I'm boyfriend is with him he doesn't come by and say hi to me which doesn't bother me because he text me but my question is why do men do need to hang out with each other everyday

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13 Years

Posted by geminicandIe
I think people like to do whatever. Some people like company, others like romantic time with their partners and yet some like alone time. I personally would never be bored even if my bf decided to spend time with buddies. I would do my own thing and activities which make me happy. But then again I'm a Gemini. What is your sign?

If you pester him about it, he might get annoyed and will think you have no life without him. Just focus on you, etc..
Do you have friends and hobbies?

Lmfao to other people he is not gay that's for sure and I guess it makes sense because I like alone time a lot of it something that I like to do a lot sometimes couple hours with my boyfriend is just enough and then I'm ready to go I don't like to be smothered ....and I'm an Aquarius

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Posted by pinkrose
this is not only towards Leo's but I wonder why do men have to hang out with each other everyday like for example my boyfriend goes over to his friends house a guy all the time every day I mean they are navy friens of 9 years but I mean damn they stay on two different side of town his friend stays on my side and when I'm boyfriend is with him he doesn't come by and say hi to me which doesn't bother me because he text me but my question is why do men do need to hang out with each other everyday

Often these people that we have great connections... with... are for a reason... Soul mates don't have to be lovers...

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There could be some latent homosexual tendencies between the 2 of them, meaning they feel intense emotions/feelings for one another but do not act them out together, not a bad thing but not good for you.

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@pinkrose
13 Years

I understand that his friend friends too but I don't need to be with them all the time and when he goes there its him his friend and two other roommates itis just odd to me

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coming... as if you have doubt... then you doubt your own choice at the core of being with him... yet for some reason you ignored it... Either you trust him or you don't...

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Posted by piscesmoon2

Posted by pinkrose
this is not only towards Leo's but I wonder why do men have to hang out with each other everyday like for example my boyfriend goes over to his friends house a guy all the time every day I mean they are navy friens of 9 years but I mean damn they stay on two different side of town his friend stays on my side and when I'm boyfriend is with him he doesn't come by and say hi to me which doesn't bother me because he text me but my question is why do men do need to hang out with each other everyday

Often these people that we have great connections... with... are for a reason... Soul mates don't have to be lovers...

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@pinkrose does it really matter if he hangs out with his friend everyday?? Don't you want the person you love to be happy with or with out you?? Or does he only have to be happy with you, spend time with you, and you have to be his number one priority?? If the last ones the case you should reassess why you're in the relationship to begin with.

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Posted by pinkrose
I understand that his friend friends too but I don't need to be with them all the time and when he goes there its him his friend and two other roommates itis just odd to me

You two are different people with different preferences whats odd about that? I think it's hard for your to understand because as women we always (well not me) but we always put our men before our friends and that's really sad because we lose out on other deeper connections.

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I love seeing bromances! Genuinely deep relationships are a beautiful thing.

Pinkrose to me it's sounds like you're a little jealous of their relationship.

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12 Years

Why did you call this post "butt buddies"—? Do you suspect that he is gay—?