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. I have a Leo in my foresight with whom I am getting to know. He is a Leo sun, sag moon, cancer rising. My elements are Cancer sun, Leo moon, Scorpio rising. He approached me first with great tenacity and as a cancer woman, I was excited to get to know him too. For the most part, he’s been a really good communicator and will allow me into his world even when he is busy or in the middle of doing something. The first time we FaceTimed was with his mom and little sister (LOL). If we’ve gone a few days without talking I Will shoot him a ā€œthinking of youā€ text and like clock work he’ll call me right away to talk and catch up. Or he’ll call me up randomly on his own to catch up! Either way, I enjoy spoiling him with words of affirmation Or using my feminine charm to calm him down when he’s being dramatic or fussy. However, I feel like I may have spoiled him a bit too much And the roles have been reversed ! How do I get him to recognize that I still want to be chased without spoiling the rapport that we’ve built?
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. I have a Leo in my foresight with whom I am getting to know. He is a Leo sun, sag moon, cancer rising. My elements are Cancer sun, Leo moon, Scorpio rising. He approached me first with great tenacity and as a cancer woman, I was excited to get to know him too. For the most part, he’s been a really good communicator and will allow me into his world even when he is busy or in the middle of doing something. The first time we FaceTimed was with his mom and little sister (LOL). If we’ve gone a few days without talking I Will shoot him a ā€œthinking of youā€ text and like clock work he’ll call me right away to talk and catch up. Or he’ll call me up randomly on his own to catch up! Either way, I enjoy spoiling him with words of affirmation Or using my feminine charm to calm him down when he’s being dramatic or fussy. However, I feel like I may have spoiled him a bit too much And the roles have been reversed ! How do I get him to recognize that I still want to be chased without spoiling the rapport that we’ve built?


So everything is fine and you are looking to change it? Why do you need him to chase you when he is already reaching out? You've spoiled him too much? What does that even mean? Sounds like you're looking for the Leo to validate you because you are feeling insecure. Do not do this. Some people will tell you to back away so that he can chase you, but you will be surprised how often that backfires if the Leo has a healthy self esteem. Again, do not do this.

Never let your insecurities play into your connection with a Leo. The Leo will either A. become confused and back off, B. think there is something wrong with you and back off, or C. feel that he is being manipulated and (you guessed it) back off. Unless there is an actual problem here that you have not relayed, keep doing what you are doing. Also, no Leos do not like "the chase". We like people others can not have, but we do not desire to chase anyone. If you start playing hard to get once a Leo has given you his attention, you risk losing him.
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doing this right as it is my first time replying to my own thread.

since my initial post, I am actually feeling insecure about our communication since I’ve come back from vacation. Fortunately, he has not been made aware of this. His birthday is on 8/2, I invited him out for a pre birthday celebration this past Friday. He did express that he had homework to do and that he would call me once he was finished. Unfortunately he never called. I didn’t want to be a bug a boo so I went ahead with my evening and went out with my girls. I did notice that he viewed my entire IG story but here it is a new day and he hasn’t contacted me. I’m not pressed about not seeing him. Its the communication. Trust me, I know that I may be freaking out for no reason (Cancerian trait). Should I still reach out to him or should I give him some space and just reach allow him to reach out to me? No matter, I do intend to wish him a HBD since he remembered mine. Thanks!

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. I have a Leo in my foresight with whom I am getting to know. He is a Leo sun, sag moon, cancer rising. My elements are Cancer sun, Leo moon, Scorpio rising. He approached me first with great tenacity and as a cancer woman, I was excited to get to know him too. For the most part, he’s been a really good communicator and will allow me into his world even when he is busy or in the middle of doing something. The first time we FaceTimed was with his mom and little sister (LOL). If we’ve gone a few days without talking I Will shoot him a ā€œthinking of youā€ text and like clock work he’ll call me right away to talk and catch up. Or he’ll call me up randomly on his own to catch up! Either way, I enjoy spoiling him with words of affirmation Or using my feminine charm to calm him down when he’s being dramatic or fussy. However, I feel like I may have spoiled him a bit too much And the roles have been reversed ! How do I get him to recognize that I still want to be chased without spoiling the rapport that we’ve built?

So everything is fine and you are looking to change it? Why do you need him to chase you when he is already reaching out? You've spoiled him too much? What does that even mean? Sounds like you're looking for the Leo to validate you because you are feeling insecure. Do not do this. Some people will tell you to back away so that he can chase you, but you will be surprised how often that backfires if the Leo has a healthy self esteem. Again, do not do this.

Never let your insecurities play into your connection with a Leo. The Leo will either A. become confused and back off, B. think there is something wrong with you and back off, or C. feel that he is being manipulated and (you guessed it) back off. Unless there is an actual problem here that you have not relayed, keep doing what you are doing. Also, no Leos do not like "the chase". We like people others can not have, but we do not desire to chase anyone. If you start playing hard to get once a Leo has given you his attention, you risk losing him.
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Trust me, I’m trying to be direct and not in my head. As cancers we are leaders in our own right too but Since I’ve returned from a week long vacation, I’ve been the primary initiator. he’ll either respond or call me if I say something first. I don’t feel taken advantage of.

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you are freaking out with no reason. leo will not chase you if he feels you established a solid connection. if you want more romantic gestures, well tell him, or even better you do it. mature leo will reciprocate 100 times more.

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Trust me, I’m trying to be direct and not in my head. As cancers we are leaders in our own right too but Since I’ve returned from a week long vacation, I’ve been the primary initiator. he’ll either respond or call me if I say something first. I don’t feel taken advantage of.

Posted by MissKrabs

you are freaking out with no reason. leo will not chase you if he feels you established a solid connection. if you want more romantic gestures, well tell him, or even better you do it. mature leo will reciprocate 100 times more.

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I hope I’m doing this right as it is my first time replying to my own thread.

since my initial post, I am actually feeling insecure about our communication since I’ve come back from vacation. Fortunately, he has not been made aware of this. His birthday is on 8/2, I invited him out for a pre birthday celebration this past Friday. He did express that he had homework to do and that he would call me once he was finished. Unfortunately he never called. I didn’t want to be a bug a boo so I went ahead with my evening and went out with my girls. I did notice that he viewed my entire IG story but here it is a new day and he hasn’t contacted me. I’m not pressed about not seeing him. Its the communication. Trust me, I know that I may be freaking out for no reason (Cancerian trait). Should I still reach out to him or should I give him some space and just reach allow him to reach out to me? No matter, I do intend to wish him a HBD since he remembered mine. Thanks!


A few of things. 1, He told you that he had homework to do and that he would call you after. What that means is that he's working on something and you need to give him space to do it. It's possible that he did not finish his homework until late and could not call you. Not hearing from someone in 24 hours is normal. Even if you do not hear from him for a few days, it is normal. It is not as if you two are in a relationship. Taking time to hang with your friends is something that you should be doing regardless. If you want to get the "power back" get busy actually doing your own thing. Stop making your plans around how he is responding to you.

2, Stop letting texts dictate how you interact with a him (or anyone). If the Leo has been calling you, why are you relying on something as impersonal as texting? Why are you not calling him too? Leos guys are not big texters. If we like a person we may start by texting them, but eventually that gets tedious and boring. Leos are physical creatures. We like hearing the other person's voice and communicating with the on the spot.

What you need to do for right now is let him get back to you like he said. Since his birthday is tomorrow, feel free to CALL him and wish him a happy birthday. Let him know that he can call you back when he is free. Then go about your life. Let him reach out to you.