@amy21c
8 Years
Leo man /scorpio moon and cancer girl /virgo moon, what the treektrunk is this??
Please help anyone
I'm confused? Did you just meet him and had sex the first night? What do you like about him? You don't even know him.
Posted by saggurl88
I'm confused? Did you just meet him and had sex the first night? What do you like about him? You don't even know him.
No i know him for a while , 20 days, but we just chatted on phone. First time I met him...
If he replies what do I say??
Posted by shakedown
@amy21c, you have your answer:>>>>>>>He then replies" I am sorry Amy. I have feelings for some other girl. "
But I spent the whole night with him and he never said anything about any girl 😢 How is that possible?
Posted by saggurl88
I'm confused? Did you just meet him and had sex the first night? What do you like about him? You don't even know him.No i know him for a while , 20 days, but we just chatted on phone. First time I met him...
If he replies what do I say??
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He told you he likes someone else. He's already had sex with you and knows how that is. I don't think he will respond.
Go out and have fun and meet other people. Don't text him, let him reach out, don't let him think your waiting around for him. IF he reaches out, just keep it casual and friendly until there's a better understanding of what you're doing.
By him telling you that he likes someone else, It seems pretty clear that he had fun and now wants to move on. Just my opinion though.
Posted by shakedown
@amy21c, you have your answer:>>>>>>>He then replies" I am sorry Amy. I have feelings for some other girl. "
But I spent the whole night with him and he never said anything about any girl 😢 How is that possible?
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Cause he wanted sex, no one is gonna be a downer when they know sex is in play.
Posted by saggurl88
I'm confused? Did you just meet him and had sex the first night? What do you like about him? You don't even know him.No i know him for a while , 20 days, but we just chatted on phone. First time I met him...
If he replies what do I say??
He told you he likes someone else. He's already had sex with you and knows how that is. I don't think he will respond.
Go out and have fun and meet other people. Don't text him, let him reach out, don't let him think your waiting around for him. IF he reaches out, just keep it casual and friendly until there's a better understanding of what you're doing.
By him telling you that he likes someone else, It seems pretty clear that he had fun and now wants to move on. Just my opinion though.
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Oh well...😢 He seemed nice... I wish he had told me before ...
Hold on... wait a minute! You mean to tell me you’ve only known him for 20 days... and that’s a while to you?? First of all, yesterday all the members who posted told you he just wanted your cooch but you still went on this date with him? He was at least supposed to take you go get coffee which would have been a lazy and cheap date to get my pussy not sure about anyone else, but then you guys didn’t even do that?! You just went over there and watched movies and had sex? No ma’am, no spam, no ham and no turkey. I don’t care what kind of sausage, looks, or swag a man has he will never appreciate you or sexual interactions with you if you don’t show your value and make him work for it. It must be valuable. You may be a great person but he wouldn’t know because you didn’t get to truly know him and by the way I don’t think Leo’s are attracted to pushovers. Before you move on.... please work on loving you and having boundaries. There’s no greater asset to have! With him, I think he made it clear he’s not interested please don’t contact this guy again and move on.
He likes another girl and is wasting your time? Oh no you need to put your foot down and stop being such a cancer. Tell him to fuck off and never contact you again. He’s a loser, I’m sorry girl
Posted by Wineaux15
Hold on... wait a minute! You mean to tell me you’ve only known him for 20 days... and that’s a while to you?? First of all, yesterday all the members who posted told you he just wanted your cooch but you still went on this date with him? He was at least supposed to take you got coffee which have been a lazy and cheap date to get my pussy not sure about anyone else, but then you guys didn’t even do that?! You just went over there and watched movies and had sex? No ma’am, no spam, no ham and no turkey. I don’t care what kind of sausage, looks, or swag a man has he will never appreciate you or sexual interactions with you if you don’t show your value and make him work for it. It’s must be valuable. You may be a great person but he wouldn’t know because you didn’t get to truly know him and by the way I don’t think Leo’s are attracted to pushovers. Before you move on.... please work on livin you abs having boundaries. There’s no greater asset to have! With him, I think he made it clear he’s not interested please don’t contact this guy again and move on.
I was really feeling lonely , I did have coffee at the hotel that he was staying at and then we went to his room.. I know you all must think I am some kind of loser, But I recently got seprated from my husband....so I was not feeling very good
Posted by shakedown
@amy21c, do you mind if I ask your age and his?
Yes i AM 28 and he is 34...But I got married very young , arranged marriage...and my husband and I no longer are together..
Posted by Wineaux15
Hold on... wait a minute! You mean to tell me you’ve only known him for 20 days... and that’s a while to you?? First of all, yesterday all the members who posted told you he just wanted your cooch but you still went on this date with him? He was at least supposed to take you got coffee which have been a lazy and cheap date to get my pussy not sure about anyone else, but then you guys didn’t even do that?! You just went over there and watched movies and had sex? No ma’am, no spam, no ham and no turkey. I don’t care what kind of sausage, looks, or swag a man has he will never appreciate you or sexual interactions with you if you don’t show your value and make him work for it. It’s must be valuable. You may be a great person but he wouldn’t know because you didn’t get to truly know him and by the way I don’t think Leo’s are attracted to pushovers. Before you move on.... please work on livin you abs having boundaries. There’s no greater asset to have! With him, I think he made it clear he’s not interested please don’t contact this guy again and move on.I was really feeling lonely , I did have coffee at the hotel that he was staying at and then we went to his room.. I know you all must think I am some kind of loser, But I recently got seprated from my husband....so I was not feeling very good
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Honey I truly know how you feel! I’ve only been separated from my husband for going on 5 months and we were together 11 years. My husband did soooo much to ruin my self esteem even though I was better than him and I knew that. So I do understand. I’m not trying to put you down, but sometimes when you hear the harsh truth it wakes you up with such a finality. The sexiest thing to man is a woman who is confident in who she is and expects something before giving something. You were vulnerable yes, and we have ALL been there. Moving forward.... don’t allow a man to get it so easily if your expectation in return is a relationship or dating with him. If all you wanted was a fwb situation this scenario would’ve been perfect. Have you gone to counseling for your divorce? If not you may want to OR just take some time to make a list of goals you gave fur yourself before you date and if you do date what the man MUST do in order to be graced with your presence.
Posted by Wineaux15
Hold on... wait a minute! You mean to tell me you’ve only known him for 20 days... and that’s a while to you?? First of all, yesterday all the members who posted told you he just wanted your cooch but you still went on this date with him? He was at least supposed to take you got coffee which have been a lazy and cheap date to get my pussy not sure about anyone else, but then you guys didn’t even do that?! You just went over there and watched movies and had sex? No ma’am, no spam, no ham and no turkey. I don’t care what kind of sausage, looks, or swag a man has he will never appreciate you or sexual interactions with you if you don’t show your value and make him work for it. It’s must be valuable. You may be a great person but he wouldn’t know because you didn’t get to truly know him and by the way I don’t think Leo’s are attracted to pushovers. Before you move on.... please work on livin you abs having boundaries. There’s no greater asset to have! With him, I think he made it clear he’s not interested please don’t contact this guy again and move on.I was really feeling lonely , I did have coffee at the hotel that he was staying at and then we went to his room.. I know you all must think I am some kind of loser, But I recently got seprated from my husband....so I was not feeling very good
Honey I truly know how you feel! I’ve only been separated from my husband for going on 5 months and we were together 11 years. My husband did soooo much to ruin my self esteem even though I was better than him and I knew that. So I do understand. I’m not trying to put you down, but sometimes when you hear the harsh truth it wakes you up with such a finality. The sexiest thing to man is a woman who is confident in who she is and expects something before giving something. You were vulnerable yes, and we have ALL been there. Moving forward.... don’t allow a man to get it so easily if your expectation in return is a relationship or dating with him. If all you wanted was a fwb situation this scenario would’ve been perfect. Have you gone to counseling for your divorce? If not you may want to OR just take some time to make a list of goals you gave fur yourself before you date and if you do date what the man MUST do in order to be graced with your presence.
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Thank you my dear friend. May God bless you.
I tried counselling and it dint help, My husband was a scorpio anD I am a cancer. I dont know who said we are good together. He used to punish me by withholding sex. I havent had sex in 2 years until yesterday,
It felt nice to feel a body close to me. The divorce is on its way. I am just for now separated. So when this leo man took interest in me, I felt nice. I even asked him , if he is single .He knew I was seprated . He said yes. That makes me feel very cheap
Posted by Wineaux15
Hold on... wait a minute! You mean to tell me you’ve only known him for 20 days... and that’s a while to you?? First of all, yesterday all the members who posted told you he just wanted your cooch but you still went on this date with him? He was at least supposed to take you got coffee which have been a lazy and cheap date to get my pussy not sure about anyone else, but then you guys didn’t even do that?! You just went over there and watched movies and had sex? No ma’am, no spam, no ham and no turkey. I don’t care what kind of sausage, looks, or swag a man has he will never appreciate you or sexual interactions with you if you don’t show your value and make him work for it. It’s must be valuable. You may be a great person but he wouldn’t know because you didn’t get to truly know him and by the way I don’t think Leo’s are attracted to pushovers. Before you move on.... please work on livin you abs having boundaries. There’s no greater asset to have! With him, I think he made it clear he’s not interested please don’t contact this guy again and move on.I was really feeling lonely , I did have coffee at the hotel that he was staying at and then we went to his room.. I know you all must think I am some kind of loser, But I recently got seprated from my husband....so I was not feeling very good
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No one thinks you're a loser. But you just have to look for friendship or companionship in other ways. Slow down a little and get to know a person. Otherwise this is gonna be a long road ahead for you. If you just needed some sex, then you got it but you guys didn't even know each other and this was the first time you even saw him.
It's a lesson learned and move on and make some new friends.
Posted by Wineaux15
Hold on... wait a minute! You mean to tell me you’ve only known him for 20 days... and that’s a while to you?? First of all, yesterday all the members who posted told you he just wanted your cooch but you still went on this date with him? He was at least supposed to take you got coffee which have been a lazy and cheap date to get my pussy not sure about anyone else, but then you guys didn’t even do that?! You just went over there and watched movies and had sex? No ma’am, no spam, no ham and no turkey. I don’t care what kind of sausage, looks, or swag a man has he will never appreciate you or sexual interactions with you if you don’t show your value and make him work for it. It’s must be valuable. You may be a great person but he wouldn’t know because you didn’t get to truly know him and by the way I don’t think Leo’s are attracted to pushovers. Before you move on.... please work on livin you abs having boundaries. There’s no greater asset to have! With him, I think he made it clear he’s not interested please don’t contact this guy again and move on.I was really feeling lonely , I did have coffee at the hotel that he was staying at and then we went to his room.. I know you all must think I am some kind of loser, But I recently got seprated from my husband....so I was not feeling very good
Honey I truly know how you feel! I’ve only been separated from my husband for going on 5 months and we were together 11 years. My husband did soooo much to ruin my self esteem even though I was better than him and I knew that. So I do understand. I’m not trying to put you down, but sometimes when you hear the harsh truth it wakes you up with such a finality. The sexiest thing to man is a woman who is confident in who she is and expects something before giving something. You were vulnerable yes, and we have ALL been there. Moving forward.... don’t allow a man to get it so easily if your expectation in return is a relationship or dating with him. If all you wanted was a fwb situation this scenario would’ve been perfect. Have you gone to counseling for your divorce? If not you may want to OR just take some time to make a list of goals you gave fur yourself before you date and if you do date what the man MUST do in order to be graced with your presence.
Thank you my dear friend. May God bless you.
I tried counselling and it dint help, My husband was a scorpio anD I am a cancer. I dont know who said we are good together. He used to punish me by withholding sex. I havent had sex in 2 years until yesterday,
It felt nice to feel a body close to me. The divorce is on its way. I am just for now separated. So when this leo man took interest in me, I felt nice. I even asked him , if he is single .He knew I was seprated . He said yes. That makes me feel very cheap
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No problem! I’m only separated too, and I made a post recently asking how to get over the loneliness after divorce or separation. I don’t even know how to date anymore. So I just stay away from it period. My few divorced friends told me that the dating game these days really suck and there’s a lot of men out here who does what the Leo did to you. That’s honestly why I’m scared to date.... after such a scary and hard break up right now I’m too vulnerable to go through something that excruciating again. But just know that one day a good guy will come along and you can make up for those two years if sex you lost and then some! Why did your ex withhold sex?! I thought Scorpio loved sex.
Posted by saggurl88
I'm confused? Did you just meet him and had sex the first night? What do you like about him? You don't even know him.No i know him for a while , 20 days, but we just chatted on phone. First time I met him...
If he replies what do I say??
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General rule to live by is don’t fuck a dude the first day you meet him.
Posted by Wineaux15
Hold on... wait a minute! You mean to tell me you’ve only known him for 20 days... and that’s a while to you?? First of all, yesterday all the members who posted told you he just wanted your cooch but you still went on this date with him? He was at least supposed to take you got coffee which have been a lazy and cheap date to get my pussy not sure about anyone else, but then you guys didn’t even do that?! You just went over there and watched movies and had sex? No ma’am, no spam, no ham and no turkey. I don’t care what kind of sausage, looks, or swag a man has he will never appreciate you or sexual interactions with you if you don’t show your value and make him work for it. It’s must be valuable. You may be a great person but he wouldn’t know because you didn’t get to truly know him and by the way I don’t think Leo’s are attracted to pushovers. Before you move on.... please work on livin you abs having boundaries. There’s no greater asset to have! With him, I think he made it clear he’s not interested please don’t contact this guy again and move on.I was really feeling lonely , I did have coffee at the hotel that he was staying at and then we went to his room.. I know you all must think I am some kind of loser, But I recently got seprated from my husband....so I was not feeling very good
Honey I truly know how you feel! I’ve only been separated from my husband for going on 5 months and we were together 11 years. My husband did soooo much to ruin my self esteem even though I was better than him and I knew that. So I do understand. I’m not trying to put you down, but sometimes when you hear the harsh truth it wakes you up with such a finality. The sexiest thing to man is a woman who is confident in who she is and expects something before giving something. You were vulnerable yes, and we have ALL been there. Moving forward.... don’t allow a man to get it so easily if your expectation in return is a relationship or dating with him. If all you wanted was a fwb situation this scenario would’ve been perfect. Have you gone to counseling for your divorce? If not you may want to OR just take some time to make a list of goals you gave fur yourself before you date and if you do date what the man MUST do in order to be graced with your presence.
Thank you my dear friend. May God bless you.
I tried counselling and it dint help, My husband was a scorpio anD I am a cancer. I dont know who said we are good together. He used to punish me by withholding sex. I havent had sex in 2 years until yesterday,
It felt nice to feel a body close to me. The divorce is on its way. I am just for now separated. So when this leo man took interest in me, I felt nice. I even asked him , if he is single .He knew I was seprated . He said yes. That makes me feel very cheap
No problem! I’m only separated too, and I made a post recently asking how to get over the loneliness after divorce or separation. I don’t even know how to date anymore. So I just stay away from it period. My few divorced friends told me that the dating game these days really suck and there’s a lot of men out here who does what the Leo did to you. That’s honestly why I’m scared to date.... after such a scary and hard break up right now I’m too vulnerable to go through something that excruciating again. But just know that one day a good guy will come along and you can make up for those two years if sex you lost and then some! Why did your ex withhold sex?! I thought Scorpio loved sex.
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My dad , my sister are all scorpios and I get along so well .but my husband is sooo different. He used to be never happy for me when I get promotion. Never got me a gift and he never said I love to me 😢
I used to beg him for sex but he was always too tired or I was toooo clingy !! Well he begged me to stay and if i REMEMBER the times I used to cry and he would shout and snap at me to stop, it boils my blood
Posted by Wineaux15
Hold on... wait a minute! You mean to tell me you’ve only known him for 20 days... and that’s a while to you?? First of all, yesterday all the members who posted told you he just wanted your cooch but you still went on this date with him? He was at least supposed to take you got coffee which have been a lazy and cheap date to get my pussy not sure about anyone else, but then you guys didn’t even do that?! You just went over there and watched movies and had sex? No ma’am, no spam, no ham and no turkey. I don’t care what kind of sausage, looks, or swag a man has he will never appreciate you or sexual interactions with you if you don’t show your value and make him work for it. It’s must be valuable. You may be a great person but he wouldn’t know because you didn’t get to truly know him and by the way I don’t think Leo’s are attracted to pushovers. Before you move on.... please work on livin you abs having boundaries. There’s no greater asset to have! With him, I think he made it clear he’s not interested please don’t contact this guy again and move on.I was really feeling lonely , I did have coffee at the hotel that he was staying at and then we went to his room.. I know you all must think I am some kind of loser, But I recently got seprated from my husband....so I was not feeling very good
Honey I truly know how you feel! I’ve only been separated from my husband for going on 5 months and we were together 11 years. My husband did soooo much to ruin my self esteem even though I was better than him and I knew that. So I do understand. I’m not trying to put you down, but sometimes when you hear the harsh truth it wakes you up with such a finality. The sexiest thing to man is a woman who is confident in who she is and expects something before giving something. You were vulnerable yes, and we have ALL been there. Moving forward.... don’t allow a man to get it so easily if your expectation in return is a relationship or dating with him. If all you wanted was a fwb situation this scenario would’ve been perfect. Have you gone to counseling for your divorce? If not you may want to OR just take some time to make a list of goals you gave fur yourself before you date and if you do date what the man MUST do in order to be graced with your presence.
Thank you my dear friend. May God bless you.
I tried counselling and it dint help, My husband was a scorpio anD I am a cancer. I dont know who said we are good together. He used to punish me by withholding sex. I havent had sex in 2 years until yesterday,
It felt nice to feel a body close to me. The divorce is on its way. I am just for now separated. So when this leo man took interest in me, I felt nice. I even asked him , if he is single .He knew I was seprated . He said yes. That makes me feel very cheap
No problem! I’m only separated too, and I made a post recently asking how to get over the loneliness after divorce or separation. I don’t even know how to date anymore. So I just stay away from it period. My few divorced friends told me that the dating game these days really suck and there’s a lot of men out here who does what the Leo did to you. That’s honestly why I’m scared to date.... after such a scary and hard break up right now I’m too vulnerable to go through something that excruciating again. But just know that one day a good guy will come along and you can make up for those two years if sex you lost and then some! Why did your ex withhold sex?! I thought Scorpio loved sex.
My dad , my sister are all scorpios and I get along so well .but my husband is sooo different. He used to be never happy for me when I get promotion. Never got me a gift and he never said I love to me 😢
I used to beg him for sex but he was always too tired or I was toooo clingy !! Well he begged me to stay and if i REMEMBER the times I used to cry and he would shout and snap at me to stop, it boils my blood
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Wow that’s not cool at all! Why beg to stay after all of that? 😳 well it’s done now!
Posted by shakedown
@amy21c, you have your answer:>>>>>>>He then replies" I am sorry Amy. I have feelings for some other girl. "
But I spent the whole night with him and he never said anything about any girl 😢 How is that possible?
Please say you're joking. You can't be this naïve....
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Ok I am not joking!! I even messaged him now saying what he did made me feel cheap !! But no reply
This is my message to him
"
I wish you had told me about your feelings with this girl. I asked you even, if you are single.. I m feeling quite cheap because I had sex with you.. I try to be a kind person dear Jeremy, but I m not a pushover.. I m not looking for anything yet but you liking someone else and making love to me, is very degrading to me. You wasted my time dear friend.. I m very hurt..
[10/03, 23:25] amy 🙂: I m a sensitive, emotional person... I maybe separated from my husband. He left.. . But I was very loyal. But I m broken but strong ....i wish you also think I deserve a little affection.. Was last night not special for you?
[10/03, 23:44] amy🙂: I must seem like a loser... Telling you all this
[10/03, 23:45] amy🙂: Today I wake up, I see you, I wanted to kiss you on forehead before I left..
[11/03, 00:19] amy🙂: I m sorry if I said or did funny yesterday, you are first person I meet after 1 year I m single.. So forgotten so many things of flirting... I like you monsieur... But as life gives I take...✌🏼 Have a good time. In bangalore ..take care
"
No fucking reply
Posted by amy21c
This is my message to him"
I wish you had told me about your feelings with this girl. I asked you even, if you are single.. I m feeling quite cheap because I had sex with you.. I try to be a kind person dear Jeremy, but I m not a pushover.. I m not looking for anything yet but you liking someone else and making love to me, is very degrading to me. You wasted my time dear friend.. I m very hurt..
[10/03, 23:25] amy 🙂: I m a sensitive, emotional person... I maybe separated from my husband. He left.. . But I was very loyal. But I m broken but strong ....i wish you also think I deserve a little affection.. Was last night not special for you?
[10/03, 23:44] amy🙂: I must seem like a loser... Telling you all this
[10/03, 23:45] amy🙂: Today I wake up, I see you, I wanted to kiss you on forehead before I left..
[11/03, 00:19] amy🙂: I m sorry if I said or did funny yesterday, you are first person I meet after 1 year I m single.. So forgotten so many things of flirting... I like you monsieur... But as life gives I take...✌🏼 Have a good time. In bangalore ..take care
"
No fucking reply
Oh he's going to reply with his dick alright
Lol you're hilarious
Good luck with this fuckery
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I m sorry, I dint understand
Oh please.. What's wrong with that message
What does message with dick means
Posted by amy21c
What does message with dick meansYou'll get a call about sex again
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Oh no.. Please cc how do I end it,.. I have been crying all day long... I m feeling so depressed
some leos are the type to get themselves into NSA (no strings attached) relationships quite easily, yet have prominent feelings for one person (my friend is like this). i'd avoid this guy - you should probably cut him off for your own good so you don't get attached, you can find alot nicer people, even though im sure his 'intentions' were not bad.
i know cancers are too emotional for their own good sometimes therefore in this situation you need to be strong and think of yourself, if you're patient good things will come to you but don't expect a love scenario from a one night stand. take your time finding love, it will come to you and i can tell you have a good heart, im sorry to hear about your previous marriage. but this leo guy isn't going to take you anywhere so pls just forget about him.
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So there has been alot of help from this forum so I am posting again.
Yesterday I went on a date with this leo man and I stayed over which meant sex and movies.
He asked me stay over because it was late and he did not want me to go alone...what a gentleman. We had sex 2 times...great sex...I left early morning because I have never stayed back in a stranger's room before.
I left to home.
My naive heart, started texting him . I said good day and all.
He then replies" I am sorry Amy. I have feelings for some other girl .Maybe for that I was distant too".
I said ok.." if you dint have feelings for the other girl, then would have dated me" I sent it
and then felt so so stupid
He has read the messages but he dint reply back 😢
Funny thing is after our sex, he said he needed to go to a party .I was ready to leave , booked a cab and all.But he asked me to stay. We watched french movies and I think he really liked the sex.
But everytime I talk to him I feel like he is hot and cold.
He and I laugh about things too...I am quite pretty I know that...but why does he behave like that.
My sister who is a scorpio sun told me , that he would not contact again as he said " we ll keep in touch"
I really like him 😢