Closure

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fairytale
@fairytale
10 Years

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A month ago after my last post, here's some updates. I blocked him on facebook and everything was fine until I thought about him again. I finally want to put an end to this so I texted him about hanging out with me. Leo Male agreed and went to go smoke some hookah. In my last post, I specified we texted as friends, we already confessed, but I was doing all the leg work and how it was discouraging because he was giving me mixed signals. The start of it was fine, I was trying to muster up the courage to tell him how it felt, but got distracted. He kept patting my head, put his head on my shoulders as we talk and at the end of our session, he paid for EVERYTHING when I insisted I was going to. I just gave him a hug and walk to my car on my own and he offered me to take me there. As we get to my car, he said,"I enjoyed our time." I was being aloof about it and said the same. As I was getting nervous, he said that I couldn't deny our great chemistry. He proceeded to kiss me and we made out in our car. After cuddling,(no we did not do it although he wanted to, I said not now) we had to separate and said goodnight. I found out he was boxed in, helped him out and AS SOON AS I HEAD TO MY CAR, he grabbed my hand and gave me another kiss as a thank you. The confusing part is that I texted him that I enjoyed his time and hope he got there safe, he didn't text me back at all.

TL;DR- Went there for closure, got distracted how interesting he was and got sucked in his charm like an idiot, went my separate way after hangout and he wants to kiss me. Now confused because he wants me to initiate and doing all the leg work again 😢

P.S: Leo male with Cancer moon with Mercury, Venus and Mars in Virgo.

P.S.S: at this moment, I'm not doing anything, but all Leo advice would be helpful on why I should do with him. It's been a month.
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Nameless Nemean
@Chuckcem
14 Years5,000+ Posts

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Smells like Leo revenge to me. So a few things, if you have already gone through the process of blocking him, he probably noticed. That can be a HUGE strike to a Leo's pride. Reaching out to him after that point opened up an opportunity for him to undo the damage to his pride (but that's probably it). Even if he wasn't a Leo, you gave this guy an opening and he went for it. Seeing that you blocked him for a reason, you probably should have stuck to your guns. You basically validated towards his actions and how he's been treating you. Now he knows he can keep you on the back burner because you will never truly leave him. At this point he's probably keeping you at arm's length and giving you the silent treatment to keep you intrigued.

If you want to take his placements into account, you are also dealing with someone with a lot of pride/stubbornness. He can be very calm and collected for a Leo, even to the point of being incredibly lazy. He can also be incredibly sulky/moody when hurt, which can come out as Leonian temper. Since his moon is in Cancer, you have to be aware that you are dealing with someone with deep emotions (made even deeper with that Leo Sun). Add on top of that those emotions aren't easily expressed due to the methodical/reserved nature of his Virgo in Venus and you may be dealing a very confusing individual.

He isn't hard to figure out though.He chooses to push you off when you're away and pull you in when you're close. This makes it difficult to know where you stand with him and puts him in control. Unless you are looking to be with him, I suggest backing off entirely.