I have reconnected with an LEO female I used to date over 3 years ago. I am just coming out of a relationship, which she is aware of, and really don't want to date or get involved with anyone in a serious manner. I am fine with us hanging out as friends and she agreed. Yet, her statements and actions say something completely different. She invites herself over, "mistakingly" leaves her items at my place and is overly affectionate. I am so confused because I told her I don't want any type of relationship, intimate or otherwise, at this point in my life. I almost feel like she is emotionally forcing herself on me or something. Is this the regular behavior for Leo woman? Or is she just taking it up a notch?
She is trying to win u! Be careful with that...maybe it's better to ask her str8 what r her expectations...leo ladies r honest and they like to discuss open...
she can be atracted especially by the fact u r not doing anything to conquer her...
I'm a leo woman and it's unlikely that she wants to hang with you just as friends. Leo likes a lover first and then a friend. I (and I am just speaking honestly about me, so please don't put any judgement into it) have no direct interest in just having "fun" for the sake of it. I always have a "hidden agenda" or some sort of goal with the fun... It could be deeper love or just a boost for my ego, knowing that a particular guy will want me and nobody else. It's a real flaw of any leo character. Love is everything for us - romance, deep connection, almost addiction to love is something that the leo character has to work with. If we are more developed and have more insight we might be able to take a "rejection" and understand and continue to be "just friends" but if not, you will hurt our ego and we will run far away.
How to subtle reject a leo woman who has fallen in love with you, without losing her as a friend... 1. Continue to tell her she is beautiful but be firm on where you stand. Say if you weren't in this situation things would be different but right now you need the space and she is not the kind of girl you just want to play with. Tell her she is far to important for that (remember leo is royal and wants to feel important), and that you definitely want to continue to see her in a friendly way. Ask her if there is any way she could consider you as her special friend... 2. Politely answer all her calls and messages but be short and friendly, show her she is a special friend but not a lover (however she must know she is your special friend in the beginning any way). But do answer. This way she will soon tire of seeing you as her next pray and go hunting elsewhere. She will stay friends with you and if you want later you might even have a chance of getting something more.
well seems to me like she already head over heels about you and you will just have to ignore her or be aggressive with her ..tell her you dont love her be straight up honest with her
she will be hurt but she will also respect you for your honesty and there will possibly be the opportunity to have her as a good friend
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Thanks!