Do leo men apologise??

Hey guys

My leo man and I was supposed to hang out thursday. We planned to cook together, watch a movie, just relax.. We talked on the phone earlier that day, and he said "Im home at 5 a clock". I went out and bought groceries for our dinner, and texted him in the bus, im there in 30 minutes (5 a clock). He said "Oh im gonna be late bla bla", I said its okay, just hurry up.. around 6 a clock i texted him, are you on your way. He called me and said, im gonna take the train now (it takes 45 minutes). Let me just say I was waiting outside his apartment and felt like an idiot..

Basically he was at his friends house or whatever he was doing for 1?_ hour, while Im waiting outside. I called him and said nevermind, im gonna go home, I've been waiting for 1?_ hour, youre just chilling at your friends house, not even stressing, while Im waiting outside with these bags. He kept giving me excuses, "I was helping a friend" bla bla.. I said I didnt care, because he knew that he was meeting me at 5, so why are you making other appointments.

I forgot my phone charger at his house the last time, so I told him, Im gonna wait, but only to get my charger.

When he arrived he said "Oh you have been waiting for almost 2 hours now (like he was surprised), you wanna slap me right now, dont you?" ... then he tries to make me smile, by looking in my eyes and smiling. I got so pissed, cause i didnt feel like he was taking me serious. I took my charger and left..

This is the guy who begs me to hang out with him, if I dont have time to hang out in 2-3 days, he gets jealouse, and mad, and things like that... I dont understand.

This was thursday. Still no apology. Havent spoked to him since..

sounds a bit off, are you sure he was aware that the plans were actually made to have dinner - making vague plans to men (which in our minds are definitely plans made and set in stone) can mean no plan was made at all (to them) 🙂 Most people apologise when they are aware of what it is they have done wrong and agree that it was wrong.

Yeah it was clear to him. I even called him at the store and asked if he had garlic at home, or if I should buy some.
and the fact that he says "you want to slap me right now, dont you", make me think that he knows that he was wrong..

If I read what I wrote as a different person I would think that he doesnt gives a F*** about me. but I know that aint true, and thats what makes me even more sad.

"If I read what I wrote as a different person I would think that he doesnt gives a F*** about me. but I know that aint true, and thats what makes me even more sad."


well it does sound that way, but it sounds too like there is more to it - nearly like he was punishing you, did something happen between you two previously? Has he ever done anything like this before? You need to show him that you will not accept being treated like this.

No, we have been good for some time now. So I cant think of anything.. he has never done anything like this before. He probably thinks that I will contact him when I cool down, because I did that the last time, when it was my fault, remember... But thats not gonna happen.

well I can't even imagine what made him 2 hours late - a person who loves another person wouldn't do this in such a laid back way, reasons for being late can be given while the person is running late (if they can't be helped). hanging out with his mates isn't a reason, it sound like you are not his priority. You shouldn't have waited at his apartment either, not more than 5/10 mins anyway - so now he thinks you will wait around for him, and really I'd imagine he knows continuing to wait to "collect your charger" was just an excuse for you to wait and then prance away, because to be honest, it sounds like that's why you did it.

You should absolutely not contact him now, and if he does make contact, he should have to work very hard to get to see you again.

men are just selfish pricks. it's nothing to do with astrology cos you see this kind of behaviour all across the boards. it IS disrespectful and DOES need to be pointed out to him but just be prepared for him never to understand where you're coming from on that. in a man's mind....he's helping out a friend ffs...you should somehow GUESS that's the reason for his delay and furthermore, appreciate and respect him for it.

men are capable of adapting this behaviour although only in short spurts and it's something they do to draw you in rather than keep you. my ex husband used to think it was hilarious to tell me that he'd been walking past a bar in the city and someone dragged him in and forced copious shots down his neck making him hours late. we would make arrangements but the second a friend had something come up, the arrangement would be out of the window....'cept he would never tell me or feel he had to apologise.

fact is...just like men can't multi-task, they can't think about anything but themselves either. it's too hard to factor in the feelings of someone else, particularly a woman.

+1 Rig. Well said.

Yes Leo Men apologies but it doesn't necessarily means that they are feeling sorry for hurting you and resolving to not do it again.

Asking apology is a Big Thing for a Leo so they prefer that you break after few days, start missing them, and take first step saying that why you did this to me, you know how hurt I was, bla bla bla... and they just hug you saying that sorry sweety, I won't do this again. But in reality they will do it again and again and this whole scene will repeat again and again. So, first of all they will CHECK you that how persistent you are in demand of an apology for them. If you PROVE to them that they HAVE TO ask for apology if they want you back then they will consider it but even then it will be not direct. They prefer start talking to you as if nothing happened, charm you will their smile and eyes or sending you some loving text message etc. if you ignore these as well then they will start taking you seriously and thinking that you are not an easy person and they have to say sorry to you before they lose you. And yes, they NEVER want to lose you. They NEVER want to be dumped by anyone, they want to dump everyone themselves. So this time they will be more open and will say sorry to you to get you back.

Posted by seraph

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
men are just selfish pricks. it's nothing to do with astrology cos you see this kind of behaviour all across the boards. it IS disrespectful and DOES need to be pointed out to him but just be prepared for him never to understand where you're coming from on that. in a man's mind....he's helping out a friend ffs...you should somehow GUESS that's the reason for his delay and furthermore, appreciate and respect him for it.

men are capable of adapting this behaviour although only in short spurts and it's something they do to draw you in rather than keep you. my ex husband used to think it was hilarious to tell me that he'd been walking past a bar in the city and someone dragged him in and forced copious shots down his neck making him hours late. we would make arrangements but the second a friend had something come up, the arrangement would be out of the window....'cept he would never tell me or feel he had to apologise.

fact is...just like men can't multi-task, they can't think about anything but themselves either. it's too hard to factor in the feelings of someone else, particularly a woman.

So can we count on your next date having a vagina?

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no seraph. men have cocks. it is their ONLY REDEEMING FEATURE!

Posted by itsnoteasybeingavirgo
Yes Leo Men apologies but it doesn't necessarily means that they are feeling sorry for hurting you and resolving to not do it again.

Asking apology is a Big Thing for a Leo so they prefer that you break after few days, start missing them, and take first step saying that why you did this to me, you know how hurt I was, bla bla bla... and they just hug you saying that sorry sweety, I won't do this again. But in reality they will do it again and again and this whole scene will repeat again and again. So, first of all they will CHECK you that how persistent you are in demand of an apology for them. If you PROVE to them that they HAVE TO ask for apology if they want you back then they will consider it but even then it will be not direct. They prefer start talking to you as if nothing happened, charm you will their smile and eyes or sending you some loving text message etc. if you ignore these as well then they will start taking you seriously and thinking that you are not an easy person and they have to say sorry to you before they lose you. And yes, they NEVER want to lose you. They NEVER want to be dumped by anyone, they want to dump everyone themselves. So this time they will be more open and will say sorry to you to get you back.

this is excellent!! my knobhead leo has been messaging me like nothing's happened. even sent a fb request which is still hanging in the ether, ignored. the more i ignore him, the stronger i feel against his impossible charm. he'll be beside himself that i don't accept his friend invite considering he only opened his fb account to track me down. i'm just not prepared to let him sweep all the bullshit under the carpet though. your comment confirms this is the right thing to do 🙂

^^^^^^^ I can confirm Rigs and Itsnoteasy posts....my Leo has done this several times, although not to this extreme. We've had plans to go out then something comes up and he says he can't go. Now, if this had happened, say, 5 years ago, I would have let him have it. But, as I have matured with age...er....well... I've learned the fine art of backing off. I've said something every so delicately and he has said he was sorry, but a few weeks later, it happened again. Yesterday, he was a egotistical Leo in a text, and I didn't answer. To this moment, I haven't answered. He will def have to work to speak to me again as I will probably let several texts and phone calls go unattended to for a while. Backoff and stay clear of him for a while.

He called me today. 8 days after... he is trying to ignore the Whole thing. I knew he was afraid to be confronted. But not this much... so i Said if you are going to ignore the Whole thing i dont even wanna talk to you. So we talked... and he apologied without saying Im sorry. I dont know why h? Cant say sorry. He once told me "i dont Ever say Im sorry"..
As a libra i dont have a problem with apologies at All.. Im not stubborn either, But i Think he is

Thank u for All your replies guys

Don't be so easy for him. I would still back off a little.

I'm always late...

And Libragirl - you're worth more than this. He's being immature and that's not okay for you to accept from somebody in your life. As a Fixed sign *in general*, us felines are apt to being very stubborn. Leo males especially so.

I think when a woman really loves a man, she always forgives him easily.....but that also means she gives him the power to hurt her the second time!!!
Then there would be more and more going on...
To protect yourself from being hurt more, girl must be strong & put yourself at first...and always!!!

Thank u guys

I found out that he were cheating on me, so its over between us!
Breaked my heart for Real 😢

This is the third Leo cheating on me.... what a coincidence.

I found out.. Texted him "I found out what you did. I dont deserve this. This is not for me. You just lost the best thing ever happened to you. Have a nice life" (I knew that if I called I wouldnt be able to say everything I wanted).

Guess what he texted back........... "...? WOW!!!!— Thank you, you too"

CHOCK!!!!! this is the person that said, two days before "Im sorry bla bla bla, I dont wanna lose you"... He doesnt even try to come up with something to say... not even a lie... not that I would believe him, I talked to the girl he cheated on me with.

This was saturday....

I found out.. Texted him "I found out what you did. I dont deserve this. This is not for me. You just lost the best thing ever happened to you. Have a nice life" (I knew that if I called I wouldnt be able to say everything I wanted).

Guess what he texted back........... "...? WOW!!!!— Thank you, you too"

CHOCK!!!!! this is the person that said, two days before "Im sorry bla bla bla, I dont wanna lose you"... He doesnt even try to come up with something to say... not even a lie... not that I would believe him, I talked to the girl he cheated on me with.

This was saturday....

Don't think he lost the best thing that happened to him. He must have many others closer than you and hurt many others worst than you.

Anyways, its good that you ended it. One sided relations give nothing but headache and heartache. But everything is not ended yet. Believe me, even after ending with you he won't end completely. He??ll keep an eye on you that how you are now after him. Now the best revenge you can take from him is to move on and be happy. Don't give him any sign that you??ve even a bit of sorrow and anger for him. Showing anger or anguish will only give him satisfaction. If he try to contact you then say with calm and grace that after ending with him you actually realized that how tense your life was because of him. And you are feeling really relaxed and happy without him so he may stay away from you. This is something a Leo can't handle, that someone can ignore him, that someone is happy without him. Don't get deceived again.

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