CelestialLibra
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Do Leo's come back?
Posted by Jynja
Is this directed at just the guys?
Me, I rarely ever go back. In fact, I never have.
No just directed at anybody
Ok, thank you 🙂
Posted by Justsomeguy
I don't go back, ultimately when I'm done I'm done. It doesn't seem like yours is done with you completely yet. But the constant fighting and breaking up isn't a good thing, after a bunch of that I'd just call it quits and count my loses and move on. I may take steps slowly away but I will never look back when I'm done
Thank you for your response Justsomeguy,
I realize the breaking up and fighting isn't good. I know we can be good together because we once were. He mentioned about getting married, at one point we were looking at buying a house together. The fighting has just been over the last little bit, namely because he was talking to other girls and hiding it from me. I never said he couldn't talk to them just not to hide it from me, and this caused most of our fights/problems.
Even just the other day after we were broken up he told me he loved me. Although yes I did say it first.
Maybe that's what he's doing, just taking steps slowly away. Which saddens me. Leo's really do bring a shining light to a person's life.
I went back forever and ever and ever till it nearly broke me. But, I also have venus in cancer and a scorp moon. meaning a shit laod of water (emotions) and inability to really let go.
My former leo best pal, a man, would do the same. He would take a particular woman back after shed go balistic on him with really severe emotional issues. Guess what I am saying it everyone is different and other placements make a different. Done just go on his sun sign alone.
Im sorry you're hurting. One thing I know, regardless of sign, you cannot control anyone to do anything and getting in the way trying to do that will get you run over. Step odd the train tracks, let him ride the rails, go do your thing of extreme self love and care and let the universe do what it needs to do.
hugs xo
My former leo best pal, a man, would do the same. He would take a particular woman back after shed go balistic on him with really severe emotional issues. Guess what I am saying it everyone is different and other placements make a different. Done just go on his sun sign alone.
Im sorry you're hurting. One thing I know, regardless of sign, you cannot control anyone to do anything and getting in the way trying to do that will get you run over. Step odd the train tracks, let him ride the rails, go do your thing of extreme self love and care and let the universe do what it needs to do.
hugs xo
Posted by Jynja
Have you apologized to him? Have you tried to salvage it somehow?
Yes I did Jynja. I apologized and said I made a mistake and over-reacted. He said it was best if he left because he didn't want to keep hurting me and he needed time to figure himself out and find out why he wasn't happy with himself. He did say when we first broke up that he wanted to move out and then we could talk and be friends and start fresh. See what happens but couldn't make promises.
Posted by BigGirlPanties
I went back forever and ever and ever till it nearly broke me. But, I also have venus in cancer and a scorp moon. meaning a shit laod of water (emotions) and inability to really let go.
My former leo best pal, a man, would do the same. He would take a particular woman back after shed go balistic on him with really severe emotional issues. Guess what I am saying it everyone is different and other placements make a different. Done just go on his sun sign alone.
Im sorry you're hurting. One thing I know, regardless of sign, you cannot control anyone to do anything and getting in the way trying to do that will get you run over. Step odd the train tracks, let him ride the rails, go do your thing of extreme self love and care and let the universe do what it needs to do.
hugs xo
I know his sun in Leo, his rising is Libra, his venus is Libra, his moon is Taurus, and his Ascendant is Gemini.
I know I can't control him and trying to stop him will make it worse. I did try unfortunately, did everything wrong that your not suppose to do. Now I've just taken a step back. Whenever I do that he reaches out to me. I do appreciate your advice. I will try my hardest to let the universe do what it has to and just work on me for a bit. 🙂
Thank you xoxo
Posted by leoliza
He sounds sweet though. You are smart be firm. Don't give him the fringe benefits let him feel the separation and miss you. He might come back but if the problems are the same the ending will be too.
He is very sweet. I'm going to hold my ground on fringe benefits. He has already tried and I told him no. He sends me a text almost everyday. But that just may be because he hasn't gotten all his stuff out of the apartment yet and he knows I'm having a hard time with this.
I'm aware of most of the problems if not all of them and just hope he comes back and we can work together. Like I said we had a really good relationship once before.
Never have, never will.
We leos like to leave past baggage behind, too much to handle for our paws.
We leos like to leave past baggage behind, too much to handle for our paws.
Posted by Justsomeguy
Thank you for your response Justsomeguy,
I realize the breaking up and fighting isn't good. I know we can be good together because we once were. He mentioned about getting married, at one point we were looking at buying a house together. The fighting has just been over the last little bit, namely because he was talking to other girls and hiding it from me. I never said he couldn't talk to them just not to hide it from me, and this caused most of our fights/problems.
Even just the other day after we were broken up he told me he loved me. Although yes I did say it first.
Maybe that's what he's doing, just taking steps slowly away. Which saddens me. Leo's really do bring a shining light to a person's life.
Sorry to say this but "we once were" doesn't mean it can happen again. For me, if the spark isnt there, or it's there but fades and comes back...doesn't sound like the real deal. Honestly, I feel like I'm over the flirting with other girls, I'm done playing games, I don't hide anything...for a Leo guy, or any guy to do that he either has bad intentions or he's just not ready to settle. He could be somewhat pushing you away because if he does love you, he doesn't want to hurt you with the things he does. Love hurts, don't ever forget that, but also remember if it didn't, it wouldn't be worth it. Him saying he needs time to himself, but still messaging you and stuff, he's kinda (sorry to say this) but keeping you on the side. It happens all the time, once he is done playing, he knows he'll have you to fall on. Even the smallest fights mean something...especially over other females...WOW that should be a huge sign there. You apologized, but I don't think you were in the wrong, he sounds like a cub, no ready for commitment and wants to see how far he can take it. I'm sorry you are hurting, hopefully I didn't add on to the pain, this is just my opinion. Leo's do bring a shining light, but don't be too blinded to see if the Leo is just playing with his prey. I have learned that love should come natural, there shouldn't be any hiding of messages from girls, you shouldnt have to ask him about it and he shouldnt be secretive about it...:/ love is complicated. Sometimes saying "I love you" doesn't mean much...some people say it just to keep that other person around.click to expand
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Posted by Jynja
I think the trick is this: if he's playing cool and offering future friendship and all, then he's had his fill.
If in the midst of a passionate fight he packs ALL his bags and leave, you can smile. But where he's grown weary... not a good sign.
In this case it's kind of both scenario's you posted. He decided he was done and he was leaving during a pretty passionate fight. He didn't back his bags so to speak but he is slowly moving his stuff out because he can only take a little bit at a time. Even his mother said he seems to be in no rush to move his stuff.
However, now he is playing it cool and saying he wants friendship.
He does text me quite often just to say hi and see how things are going and wants to spend Christmas together.
Just a quick update. He sent me a message tonight saying that he doesn't care about the girls he talks to, he cares about me.
I rememberd when my Leo and I broke up, it was torture at the beginning. She still wanted contact with me, and to this day she still has all my stuff! - Eventhough I've asked countless times for them back, she won't ( STUBBORN! ). She broke up with me first, surprisingly, we got back together. After awhile I ended up breaking it off, MAN, if you break up with a Leo prepare for the fight of your life... With all the fighting, she just proved to me that she isn't for me. As a Virgo, I'm a master at ignoring/ disappearing, and Leo's can't stand that. When she broke up with me, I guess she wanted to see me really depressed, and hurt - I was! If you want to take the "jack-ass" route, don't reply to his messages, live your life w/o him, move on, and know everything happens for a reason. Im pretty sure eventually he'll be at your door - my Leo showed up to my house countless times! Anyway... Leos take this with a grain of salt, I'm just posting from my experience =)
Oh man... Now I'm starting to really get close to another Leo female, lord...why! Kidding... You guys bring the good side of me all the time.
Oh man... Now I'm starting to really get close to another Leo female, lord...why! Kidding... You guys bring the good side of me all the time.
I have gone back to ensure I did not make a mistake. I can not live with regrets. However, it usually takes a few days and I am gone again most likely for good. This seems to be what your Leo did.
If you want him back the key is to do it before he meets someone else. Once he does, it's over. If he already has, it's over. 😢
He will sleep with you though. Don't confuse that with love.
If you want him back the key is to do it before he meets someone else. Once he does, it's over. If he already has, it's over. 😢
He will sleep with you though. Don't confuse that with love.
Posted by leoliza
"I think the trick is this: if he's playing cool and offering future friendship and all, then he's had his fill.
If in the midst of a passionate fight he packs ALL his bags and leave, you can smile. But where he's grown weary... not a good sign."
nailed it.
To echo what she said...
A Leo that is pissed and dramatic cares. A Leo that is calm has already moved on...
That's just it, his initial moving out was because he was pissed and yes he was dramatic. Since then he has calmed down though and is slowly moving stuff out. Although he continues to contact me. He even bought me gloves for work because he didn't want me to be cold as I work outside. And told me tonight that he would do anything to make me happy ? :/ Very confused.
Posted by Nala13
I have gone back to ensure I did not make a mistake. I can not live with regrets. However, it usually takes a few days and I am gone again most likely for good. This seems to be what your Leo did.
If you want him back the key is to do it before he meets someone else. Once he does, it's over. If he already has, it's over. 😢
He will sleep with you though. Don't confuse that with love.
I do want him back. There is a girl he has been talking to but she is an old friend from a few years ago. He is now living with his parents again and that is out in the country far from any city. He has no car to go anywhere.
He does seem genuinely happy though although he messages me quite often and like I said in another post even bought me gloves today for work because he didn't want me to be cold. He told me that he would do anything to make me happy. I told him it wasn't up to him to make me happy and he said that it kills him to see me sad. So I'm pretty confused at this point.
Oh I know he will sleep with me, he has tried. I told him no, I don't do friends with benefits.
Posted by Justsomeguy
Sorry to say this but "we once were" doesn't mean it can happen again. For me, if the spark isnt there, or it's there but fades and comes back...doesn't sound like the real deal. Honestly, I feel like I'm over the flirting with other girls, I'm done playing games, I don't hide anything...for a Leo guy, or any guy to do that he either has bad intentions or he's just not ready to settle. He could be somewhat pushing you away because if he does love you, he doesn't want to hurt you with the things he does. Love hurts, don't ever forget that, but also remember if it didn't, it wouldn't be worth it. Him saying he needs time to himself, but still messaging you and stuff, he's kinda (sorry to say this) but keeping you on the side. It happens all the time, once he is done playing, he knows he'll have you to fall on. Even the smallest fights mean something...especially over other females...WOW that should be a huge sign there. You apologized, but I don't think you were in the wrong, he sounds like a cub, no ready for commitment and wants to see how far he can take it. I'm sorry you are hurting, hopefully I didn't add on to the pain, this is just my opinion. Leo's do bring a shining light, but don't be too blinded to see if the Leo is just playing with his prey. I have learned that love should come natural, there shouldn't be any hiding of messages from girls, you shouldnt have to ask him about it and he shouldnt be secretive about it...:/ love is complicated. Sometimes saying "I love you" doesn't mean much...some people say it just to keep that other person around.
how well I wish I got your advice earlier, to avoid all heartbreaks.
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