dxp, who are you?

Is it just me or is dxp over flooded with threads like...

* WHINNY BITCH VOICE ACTIVATE! *

Like, so like, I met this Leo guy... And, um. I don't, like, know if I should talk to him anymore.. Like, we met at a party at like my friends house and he was grinding all up on me the whole night and I totally liked it and so we exchanged numbers.. and then like, he texted me that he wanted to hang out more and uhh, i was like yes but like i need to be a snotty bitch some more, idk if i have time for you cause i have like so many other guys im trying to juggle right now, its like, ridiculous. So then like, he never texted me back.. And omg it's sooo frustrating!! Idk, what the helll happened to him. Its been like three days and no guy just doesn't talk to me for three days.. that just like, doesn't happen. So I'm thinking maybe he just wanted sex from me idk.. i mean, just because I wear really really low cut tops to display my like, really big perfect boobies, and like, short skirts cause, common i have like, nice legs. And if you got it flaunt it righhhtt— It's just I heard Leos are all players and are so bossy and arrogant. I don't want some guy who thinks he's the shit all the time ya know?? Like, that's my job. Ughhhhh, somebody like please give me some good advice right now cause I'm just some young girl who has no critical thinking skills and like, I'm just gonna party well into my late twenties contributing nothing to society but my body and lots of drama and then at the last second have some guy who like, became a doctor and is hot, ask me to marry him. I was going for rock star cuz like i totally deserve it but we all have to settle sometimes, right—

^^^ The above is a gross over dramatization.

But my point is, I think all of us joined dxp because we were looking for some relationship advice at some point and those who didn't do it for that reason, merely for a love of astrology.

Most dxpers are not like the above because they were smart enough to join dxp but as a site on the internet that offers advice on the various natures of the zodiac signs, over the years, it would be interesting to calculate all of the users who merely made an account for some one-time advice. Those people who were really desperate for some girl or guy and came on here and left as soon as they heard what they wanted to. (or didn't want to.. hehehe)

Or come back merely to get more advice on the next sexual escapade...

I say all this to say, I would appreciate anyone so inclined to share an epiphany or new ways of thinking or some philosophy they have adopted that really enriched their life. (Make your own thread please, I'm not asking for it right now)

I am just saying that as great as dxp is for being a place to give relationship advice, I feel as though we are more than that. We are an in depth look into the human nature. A place to better yourself and others.

I posted this on the Leo board because I feel as though we are one of the boards that maybe has the most helpful insight and not just a bunch of "What do you think about sex with *insert sign here* guys?"

What is your purpose? Where are you going? Why does it matter? What do you believe in?

^^^ I feel like these are more important questions.



Just something to think about, guys. That's all.

Posted by seraph
*changes ninja's filter*

Agreed with most of the above. Most people already know the answer, but there's this addiction to talking things out. Nothing wrong with it in particular, but it can get pretty vexing at times. Most things are obvious, but there's this need to talk everything through, but often to the point where things become confusing along the way, where they weren't before.. There's also a tendency to not want to do any appreciable level of research or self-planning. Talking it out helps, but often not in terms of a solution but rather in terms of a soothing balm for emotions. That, I can understand, even though it's couched in the pretense of "relationship advice."

You're right. And we are all guilty of that. Everybody needs a shoulder to cry on at some time or another.

I'm just saying, I feel the member base of dxp contains a number of bright capable individuals and that there is a higher state of thought that could be reached. For all of us. As a community.

Of course if Ninja wants to pee, that's cool too. We're all about a good time. :]

Posted by leoliza
I feel it is best not to judge, just to embrace and help. I am quite intelligent, although I can present myself as an overemotional drama queen digitally. Why? Because I'm online. I can do whatever I want. Am I so see through in person? Most definately not. Good luck figuring me out if you meet me on the street. There is something theraputic about being completely honest, and emotional (oh wait, you mean human?) which society frowns upon...o n l i n e.

Haha. I wasn't pin pointing anyone in particular, ma'dam. Don't volunteer to make yourself the object of scrutiny if you don't think you fall into the category.

Posted by Jynja
Some don't even say thank you. *shrug* C'est la vie

Poor, Jynja. *hugs*

And after all the thoughtful effort you put into your chart interpretations. Those bastards!

The worst part is most of them want to hear falsehoods.

I feel Like Jack Nicholson in A Few Good Men..."You can't handle the truth."

I've come to realize they rarely do what is suggested, just what they want.

Posted by Nala13
The worst part is most of them want to hear falsehoods.

I feel Like Jack Nicholson in A Few Good Men..."You can't handle the truth."

I've come to realize they rarely do what is suggested, just what they want.

Yes, I find that too, most come on whining but merely looking for validation of their behaviour, if you tell them what they don't want to hear then they get so upset - but then most people can only learn through repeating their mistakes over and over again (there is some definition of insanity that goes along those lines), but hopefully they will learn before they become complete trainwrecks. It's so irritating to see the same type of posts constantly rinsed and repeated by the same person.