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Kashi
@Kashi
12 Years

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few weeks ago I met a leo and totally fell for him. we texted each other every day and he seemed so interested in me at first, was all charming and a real gentleman. then we had sex and suddenly it all turned. he was very concerned about having sex with me and had no time for a normal date all of sudden. then he went for holidays for four weeks and didn't contact me once (he said he hadn't had his phone with him). not even on my birthday. then I passed his street yesterday and saw that his window was open, so I knew he was back. I texted him to catch up and we met at his place. had a quick chat and sex, of course. then all off sudden, after we were done, he told me to leave, since he had to catch up with a friend that night. he came up with a strange story of his friend having a crisis and needed help.
funny thing is, his phone rang in the middle of sex and he didn't take the call, telling me later how important his friend is to him and that he waited all day for him to call.
I was clearly sad and he seemed to be angry at me for that. asking me sarcastically why I am so happy. I told him I was unhappy and he was like "so you expected to stay over? well you should have told me in the first place. So it was a mistake being all nice and take my time for meeting you tonight?" I was stunned at this. Making me even sadder. I felt so worthless when he said that...he wanted to drop me home, but I felt like being alone... so he just let me walk home in the middle of the night without even sending me a text, if I was safe at home or anything related later on.
next day I texted him asking if his friend was okay, he answered that everything was peachy all of sudden. it feels like a big fat lie to me.

so I dropped him a text telling him that I was happy to see him again and missed him a lot as that was the reason for my disappointment the day before. also I told him that I FELT that he didn't really care for me at all and that I just want him to tell me. I would respect whatever he had to say and leave him alone if that was his wish.

it was all heartfelt and no ironie in it. he didn't reply to that up until know. that is 3h ago. before he answered instantly. may that be his answer?
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Rapunzel
@Rapunzel
12 Years

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Hi Kashi
I know you like this guy, but Please read what I'm about say with an open heart....This is not a good Leo man. A good Leo man values his woman. Values a relationship. Values her body! A good Leo man that's interested does almost all the contacting & texting & chasing. HE dates YOU when he's interested. Leo men court their women. They work hard for her. They love impressing the woman. This guy isn't doing any of that....He let you walk home in the middle of the night! He doesn't care about your feelings. He only wants your body.

Anytime you FEEL like a man doesn't care about you.... He doesn't! Listen to those inner thoughts my friend. Please realize you are headed in the wrong direction with this man. I really don't want you hurt...
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Kashi
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12 Years

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thank you for your honesty. It seems so true. While he was chasing me, he was very different and now having me...he gives a shit. I tried to call him, but he did not even care to pick up. He told me once that, when for him it's over, he just starts to ignore the person. SO I think he just thinks it is not worth to even react to my concerns. I'm really broken hearted now. 😭
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Rapunzel
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12 Years

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You are welcome.
I understand that you are hurt. You seem like a kind hearted person. That's why I care about you. My ex of 5 years was a Leo. He loved the chase & the constant challenge I gave him. He also loved communication & getting to know me. Don't be heartbroken over him. You deserve the best! Because you ARE the best. You are a gift to this world. You are a Prize. You are a diamond. You are a QUEEN! Don't be down. Pick your head up girl, you don't want your Crown to fall 🙂