help..!

okay, so basically i've been hanging out with this leo dude for the last year and a half. it's been on and off since he does the whole disappearing act every so often. he told me he liked me and claimed that he wanted us to get an apartment together back in december, then he left. he called me two months later and was acting like us not speaking for a few weeks had never happened. after another short break he contacted me like two weeks ago and told me he loved me. everything was great for two days and now he's not talking to me again. i was cool with him not needing to talk to me everyday, but now i'm starting to get fed up because i never know where the hell i stand with him. i'll text him, but he won't reply and then he'll claim that he never got the text and he'll whine about how i never talk to him. (this doesn't happen every single time i text him, but has happened a couple times.) he also makes it seem like he feels that i just think of him as just some guy, even though i have told him that i adore him a few times now...if that matters at all.

basically, i just want to know if i'm overracting or what..i've been thinking about meeting up with him on like Thursday and asking him what his deal is and telling him that if he has no intention on talking to me for more than a month before leaving again than i'd prefer it if he just left for good. is that a good idea? does it seem like he's just talking to me cause he knows i'll give him attention?

i just really don't know what to do.

I don't think you should necessarily give up on him..but you need to have a very honest and open talk about what this relationship means to you both and where it's going.

Leos are generally very honest. Yes, we do like attention but we don't like it when it comes from someone we're not really interested in.

My feeling is, maybe it moved a little too fast and now he regrets it.

Hope your talk goes well.

Thank you guys for the help, i really appreciate it.

I think Leos tend to get distracted easily. Don't give up.