Aqua_Boy
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Posted by Babykaykesiam
Ok I have a question, how can you tell if they just want sex vs genuinely likeing you?




Posted by Babykaykesiam
Hi Leo Lady this is a very new dating situation with me and Leo. Only a few dates. He is flirtatious and humoroous but always asks me to come to his place. He keeps saying he wants to kiss me.
Now is there a way to lead this away from friends with benefits or bootycall with a Leo. If I say no, he sulks. I asked him if he could give me advance notice,,, and he is now agreeing. But he wants to hang out at his place.
If he is indeed interested in sex, I have no problem, but I want to him to get to know me too.
He is always complementing me and telling e he finds me beautiful and admires my job etc..
I just want to steer this the right direction because I like him.
Any advice/ thanks
it is delicate
he has been the one chasng me... he says he is waiting for me.. he also keeps saying he wants to cook me dinner too. How do I encourage a balance between staying in vs going out. He always asks me to come over, so I am worried he just may want sex vs genuinely liking me?
He also has Venus in cancer so i guess thats where homebody comes in I guess?

Posted by VirgoHero
If its a Leo woman you're chasing, from my observations regarding them...
The short of it: Don't be a pussy.
The long of it: From my experience, Leo women do like to see if their potential companion is strong. In your example, it may be a test to see if you're strong enough to come after her or to see if you cower from the task. Almost all the Leo women I've come to know completely realize and wear it as a badge of pride that they are a quite the handful, fiery, and a pain in the ass. This translates into them needing a partner that is strong enough to handle that and still be with them no matter the circumstance, even on the bad days, and do it with energy and a smile.
For me personally, the whole "handful" and "pain in the ass" part of them is extremely attractive. Perhaps that's why I find chemistry with them 🙂

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
Okay, thanks for the additional info. Leo's love the chase as long as we feel you are genuinely interested. If we sense you are only trying to toy with us, we will become bored of the game and find new prey. Short and simple.
My advice would be to continue to say NO to sex until you feel ready, but let him know that you are interested by showing him attention and complimenting him. Be honest with him about how you feel. If he really does like you he will respond and respect your wishes. Don't be afraid to let him sulk, he will get it over it. You should wait until you are ready. If you want to go to his place then go, just don't let things get out of hand if you are not ready. Any feelings of rejection he may experience, can be easily soothed by stroking the Lion's ego, meaning if you tell him NO and he sulks, reassure him that you genuinely want to get to know him as a person before you go there. He will respect you.
As for Venus in Cancer, I would think this may work to your advantage as Cancer is generally a very emotional sign and once they have sex they are normally hooked and easily hurt. His Leo sun may balance that out a bit though so as not to be over the top. The joke on the boards is once a Cancer has sex with you they will want to marry you! LOL!!
GREAT ADVICE thanks! I will post it on my refrugerator!
You are the best Lasy leo! MUAH!!!


Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLovedPosted by Babykaykesiam
Hi Leo Lady this is a very new dating situation with me and Leo. Only a few dates. He is flirtatious and humoroous but always asks me to come to his place. He keeps saying he wants to kiss me.
Now is there a way to lead this away from friends with benefits or bootycall with a Leo. If I say no, he sulks. I asked him if he could give me advance notice,,, and he is now agreeing. But he wants to hang out at his place.
If he is indeed interested in sex, I have no problem, but I want to him to get to know me too.
He is always complementing me and telling e he finds me beautiful and admires my job etc..
I just want to steer this the right direction because I like him.
Any advice/ thanks
it is delicate
he has been the one chasng me... he says he is waiting for me.. he also keeps saying he wants to cook me dinner too. How do I encourage a balance between staying in vs going out. He always asks me to come over, so I am worried he just may want sex vs genuinely liking me?
He also has Venus in cancer so i guess thats where homebody comes in I guess?click to expand
Okay, thanks for the additional info. Leo's love the chase as long as we feel you are genuinely interested. If we sense you are only trying to toy with us, we will become bored of the game and find new prey. Short and simple.
My advice would be to continue to say NO to sex until you feel ready, but let him know that you are interested by showing him attention and complimenting him. Be honest with him about how you feel. If he really does like you he will respond and respect your wishes. Don't be afraid to let him sulk, he will get it over it. You should wait until you are ready. If you want to go to his place then go, just don't let things get out of hand if you are not ready. Any feelings of rejection he may experience, can be easily soothed by stroking the Lion's ego, meaning if you tell him NO and he sulks, reassure him that you genuinely want to get to know him as a person before you go there. He will respect you.
As for Venus in Cancer, I would think this may work to your advantage as Cancer is generally a very emotional sign and once they have sex they are normally hooked and easily hurt. His Leo sun may balance that out a bit though so as not to be over the top. The joke on the


Posted by LibrasRule36!
LadyLeo - You rock, hard! Muah! :::Kisses from me & Baby:::

Posted by Babykaykesiam
Hi guys me and leo went on our date and it was amazing. We watched a movie he rented for me and made out. I took your advice lady leo and i told him I liked him but wanted to take it slow. I told him i want to know him more before we do more intimate stuff. I said that a lot od guys may get t early and then leave. He said "well I am the type of guy that once i start, i want it even more haha"//
Anyway he said lets see a movie 2 days later, but i cancelled that day bc I was sick with monthly cramps (i get it really bad first day). He checked up on me the next day. The next day later there were so many flirty messages from girls on his myspace. One hot friend of mine emailed him a complement, and he private messaged her tht "i am going to cook dinner for my friend babykaykesiam" !!!
He doesnt know we are close friends, she is just on my list.
So why did he write her that and why did he say I was his "friend"... does he not want more with me?
😢



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