@Aquarius3189
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How is a leo mom and dad?
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
I'm mostly leo. But I'm a crab sun. I would treat all my kids equally and bragging is for the insecure and weak
good for your kids,now even my gf is asking me why does your parents always treat you like this?i dont know how to answer coz i really dont know either
Posted by TemporaryKodak
Sounds like a personal problem.
im fed up to say the least,im their child who always takes care of them who they can count on,who always does the chores while my brothers have a wonderful life enjoying their youth and still they treat me like this,so im done making sacrifices im going to do what i want
Can't say how leo parents are since mine aren't but I will say that your moon placement tells you what relationship you'll have with your mom. You're an aqua sun and that's said to be the placement with shitty father relationships, usually the father is an absent figure or is a parent that never understands or bonds with their aqua child.
Thanks God we all only kids in my family! ?
Posted by Catullus
Can't say how leo parents are since mine aren't but I will say that your moon placement tells you what relationship you'll have with your mom. You're an aqua sun and that's said to be the placement with shitty father relationships, usually the father is an absent figure or is a parent that never understands or bonds with their aqua child.
yep my father doesnt,usually he will bond with my brothers but to me?dont count on it even though we have the same moons
Posted by drunkghost
My mom is a Leo and she's the best mom ever. She loves attention of course but she just wants to be heard. She also treats all her children the same. She says she has no favorites she loves us all the same. She's hilarious, loyal, and a ride or die woman. She support us through all our bs.
the only problem with my mom is she nags and doesnt listen, i love her to death but sometimes its too much
Posted by Catullus
Can't say how leo parents are since mine aren't but I will say that your moon placement tells you what relationship you'll have with your mom. You're an aqua sun and that's said to be the placement with shitty father relationships, usually the father is an absent figure or is a parent that never understands or bonds with their aqua child.
i read that about Justin Timberlake, that he didnt have a father figure, and his step father was the one who helped him.
But i also read that about cancer sun/Leo moon Tom Cruise too...
his father was an asshole and he protected and loves his mother alot. he is a very good son.
I'm not sure how old you all are, so this may
not apply... but you said this
"... they support my 2nd brother being a dancer
he doesnt bring money"
Has this brother *finally* found some direction
for his future?
Meaning-- did they worry that he wouldn't 'do
something with his life'?
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Catullus
Can't say how leo parents are since mine aren't but I will say that your moon placement tells you what relationship you'll have with your mom. You're an aqua sun and that's said to be the placement with shitty father relationships, usually the father is an absent figure or is a parent that never understands or bonds with their aqua child.
i read that about Justin Timberlake, that he didnt have a father figure, and his step father was the one who helped him.
But i also read that about cancer sun/Leo moon Tom Cruise too...
his father was an asshole and he protected and loves his mother alot. he is a very good son.
I don't pay attention to celebs to be upfront with you, I'm glad both are alright. There are other placements, particularly the houses that represent family ties+ if the signs were in conflict with other planets etc. My post was a general summary.
Posted by Aquarius3189
Posted by Catullus
Can't say how leo parents are since mine aren't but I will say that your moon placement tells you what relationship you'll have with your mom. You're an aqua sun and that's said to be the placement with shitty father relationships, usually the father is an absent figure or is a parent that never understands or bonds with their aqua child.
yep my father doesnt,usually he will bond with my brothers but to me?dont count on it even though we have the same moonsclick to expand
Yeah my brother and my father have the same relationship as you with your dad, aqua suns don't have the cards stacked in their favor in the dad department.
To see CC, I saw when I was logged out that you quoted me so I figure now I must be forward with you. Your biases against signs is unappealing and your consistent attempts to gain validation through others threads and subtle jabs is a waste of my time. I blocked you when your whole fire sign bashing thread was going down because I don't want to deal with you, please be courteous and block me in return. I'll return to ignoring your existence now, peace.
I have a Leo dad and he is pretty chill. He's not your typical attention grabbing Leo.
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by Aquarius3189
Posted by TemporaryKodak
Sounds like a personal problem.
im fed up to say the least,im their child who always takes care of them who they can count on,who always does the chores while my brothers have a wonderful life enjoying their youth and still they treat me like this,so im done making sacrifices im going to do what i want
Are you the oldest?? ... sounds like you are... I noticed that parents depend on the oldest to take on a parent role .. babies usually are the ones that get spoiled
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I'd like to add to this, some times families shift responsibilities on their daughters and spoil their sons. Vice versa can be true as well so maybe that comes into play for op.
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by Catullus
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by Aquarius3189
Posted by TemporaryKodak
Sounds like a personal problem.
im fed up to say the least,im their child who always takes care of them who they can count on,who always does the chores while my brothers have a wonderful life enjoying their youth and still they treat me like this,so im done making sacrifices im going to do what i want
Are you the oldest?? ... sounds like you are... I noticed that parents depend on the oldest to take on a parent role .. babies usually are the ones that get spoiled
I'd like to add to this, some times families shift responsibilities on their daughters and spoil their sons. Vice versa can be true as well so maybe that comes into play for op.
Very true... especially in the Latino community.. but I also heard its common in Asian and Arab communities as well
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Yep, can't rule out cultural influences.
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by Chuckcem
I have a Leo dad and he is pretty chill. He's not your typical attention grabbing Leo.
Could be that Aries moon... Aries mooners are not really attention grabby... they tend to be quite solitary
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Really? I didn't realize that, but it makes sense now that I think about all of the Aries Moon people I've known. Yeah both of my parents have Aries moons and they are both like that.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by Aquarius3189
Posted by drunkghost
My mom is a Leo and she's the best mom ever. She loves attention of course but she just wants to be heard. She also treats all her children the same. She says she has no favorites she loves us all the same. She's hilarious, loyal, and a ride or die woman. She support us through all our bs.
the only problem with my mom is she nags and doesnt listen, i love her to death but sometimes its too much
Is her moon VIRGO
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No her moon is gemini ugh!if it werent for her sun she would be so unfeeling
Posted by Montgomery
I'm not sure how old you all are, so this maynot apply... but you said this
"... they support my 2nd brother being a dancer
he doesnt bring money"
Has this brother *finally* found some direction
for his future?
Meaning-- did they worry that he wouldn't 'do
something with his life'?
I dont think they do,my brother is a student right now aside from being a dancer,my parents always complain that its a waste of time and money but still give him money when he needs it like transport,im blaming myself right now to be honest,always doing what my parents wanted me to do up until now,its not even my choice to stop studying and be an employee to help them but now that my brother is only months from graduating i told my mother that i will go back to college and she was like "if you can pay for it then go but if you cant just help me with our business" i cried after that coz my brother didnt have to go through those to finish his college but me?i have always have to work to gain something that i want,no one wants to help me even my parents
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by Aquarius3189
Posted by TemporaryKodak
Sounds like a personal problem.
im fed up to say the least,im their child who always takes care of them who they can count on,who always does the chores while my brothers have a wonderful life enjoying their youth and still they treat me like this,so im done making sacrifices im going to do what i want
Are you the oldest?? ... sounds like you are... I noticed that parents depend on the oldest to take on a parent role .. babies usually are the ones that get spoiled
click to expand
yes i am and im the only girl,i've always sacrificed my dream and ambition just so i can help my parents but this is too much,if they can help me why cant they?i just cant stay and watch my brother accomplish his dream while im being left behind and do his bidding,something in me is burning to be more,not just im your older sister so ill sacrifice all my ambition and my dreams so you can achieve yours.if i do that i feel like in the future they will disrespect me for it they wont see that im sacrificing my whole life for them,im not even vocal so they woudnt know that i have done a lot of things for them
Posted by Aquarius3189
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by Aquarius3189
Posted by TemporaryKodak
Sounds like a personal problem.
im fed up to say the least,im their child who always takes care of them who they can count on,who always does the chores while my brothers have a wonderful life enjoying their youth and still they treat me like this,so im done making sacrifices im going to do what i want
Are you the oldest?? ... sounds like you are... I noticed that parents depend on the oldest to take on a parent role .. babies usually are the ones that get spoiled
yes i am and im the only girl,i've always sacrificed my dream and ambition just so i can help my parents but this is too much,if they can help me why cant they?i just cant stay and watch my brother accomplish his dream while im being left behind and do his bidding,something in me is burning to be more,not just im your older sister so ill sacrifice all my ambition and my dreams so you can achieve yours.if i do that i feel like in the future they will disrespect me for it they wont see that im sacrificing my whole life for them,im not even vocal so they woudnt know that i have done a lot of things for themclick to expand
If your parents won't help you then work extra hard to achieve your goals, if they ever try to brag about how you're successful because of them shove their bs in their face. Some parents are crap and leave their kids to figure things out on their own.
For now create a list of goals that you need to reach that will help you reach your own goals, you don't have to support your parents and siblings if you don't want to. It's okay to focus on getting your life in order instead of theirs but you've got this. Good luck!
Posted by Catullus
Posted by Aquarius3189
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by Aquarius3189
Posted by TemporaryKodak
Sounds like a personal problem.
im fed up to say the least,im their child who always takes care of them who they can count on,who always does the chores while my brothers have a wonderful life enjoying their youth and still they treat me like this,so im done making sacrifices im going to do what i want
Are you the oldest?? ... sounds like you are... I noticed that parents depend on the oldest to take on a parent role .. babies usually are the ones that get spoiled
yes i am and im the only girl,i've always sacrificed my dream and ambition just so i can help my parents but this is too much,if they can help me why cant they?i just cant stay and watch my brother accomplish his dream while im being left behind and do his bidding,something in me is burning to be more,not just im your older sister so ill sacrifice all my ambition and my dreams so you can achieve yours.if i do that i feel like in the future they will disrespect me for it they wont see that im sacrificing my whole life for them,im not even vocal so they woudnt know that i have done a lot of things for them
If your parents won't help you then work extra hard to achieve your goals, if they ever try to brag about how you're successful because of them shove their bs in their face. Some parents are crap and leave their kids to figure things out on their own.
For now create a list of goals that you need to reach that will help you reach your own goals, you don't have to support your parents and siblings if you don't want to. It's okay to focus on getting your life in order instead of theirs but you've got this. Good luck!
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it may be that i love them thats why i dont want to accept that they are but i just hope im wrong in thinking that they are,thank you!lately im in a lot of stress people talk crap behind my back judging me,problem arises even if im not involve somehow people will put me to it,my parents,my brothers,the only good thing in my life right now is my lovelife coz i keep it that way lol,but thanks for the advice and im going to even if my mother nags me about it im going to do what i want this time
Both my parents were Leos. My mom was calm and sweet but she used to nag a lot in private. My dad was very demanding, too sensitive and jealous about other people at times and he had a bad temper as well. They often argued but it was easy because my dad seemed like he needed that. He wanted it always to go his way. But they had big hearts though. They definately favoured my older brother but that was probably due to him being sick for most of his life. I was an accident anyway lol
Posted by TheSag
Both my parents were Leos. My mom was calm and sweet but she used to nag a lot in private. My dad was very demanding, too sensitive and jealous about other people at times and he had a bad temper as well. They often argued but it was easy because my dad seemed like he needed that. He wanted it always to go his way. But they had big hearts though. They definately favoured my older brother but that was probably due to him being sick for most of his life. I was an accident anyway lol
awww dont feel like that,every child is a blessing,i dont believe in accidents,what your mother got hit by a speeding dick?,sorry i cant help it✌?
Posted by Aquarius3189
Posted by Catullus
Posted by Aquarius3189
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by Aquarius3189
Posted by TemporaryKodak
Sounds like a personal problem.
im fed up to say the least,im their child who always takes care of them who they can count on,who always does the chores while my brothers have a wonderful life enjoying their youth and still they treat me like this,so im done making sacrifices im going to do what i want
Are you the oldest?? ... sounds like you are... I noticed that parents depend on the oldest to take on a parent role .. babies usually are the ones that get spoiled
yes i am and im the only girl,i've always sacrificed my dream and ambition just so i can help my parents but this is too much,if they can help me why cant they?i just cant stay and watch my brother accomplish his dream while im being left behind and do his bidding,something in me is burning to be more,not just im your older sister so ill sacrifice all my ambition and my dreams so you can achieve yours.if i do that i feel like in the future they will disrespect me for it they wont see that im sacrificing my whole life for them,im not even vocal so they woudnt know that i have done a lot of things for them
If your parents won't help you then work extra hard to achieve your goals, if they ever try to brag about how you're successful because of them shove their bs in their face. Some parents are crap and leave their kids to figure things out on their own.
For now create a list of goals that you need to reach that will help you reach your own goals, you don't have to support your parents and siblings if you don't want to. It's okay to focus on getting your life in order instead of theirs but you've got this. Good luck!
it may be that i love them thats why i dont want to accept that they are but i just hope im wrong in thinking that they are,thank you!lately im in a lot of stress people talk crap behind my back judging me,problem arises even if im not involve somehow people will put me to it,my parents,my brothers,the only good thing in my life right now is my lovelife coz i keep it that way lol,but thanks for the advice and im going to even if my mother nags me about it im going to do what i want this timeclick to expand
Sometimes you have to harden your heart, sad to say it but it's true. Let your family work on themselves while you take care of yourself. Make yourself a priority and ignore the people who are talking shit behind your back, people like that aren't worth getting stressed over. This is easier said then done but you might need to bolster up some boundaries with people, their problems aren't yours unless you let them make them yours.
Stay strong and you'll pull through hard times : )
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I have a leo dad and a leo mom so im just curious if they are all the same with their child,both have big egos both wants attention so they always bring their second child to brag while me and my little bro stay behind most of the time,or maybe im just saying this because im angry right now by the way they treat us,they have favoritism,they support my 2nd brother being a dancer he doesnt bring money by the way but they dont want to support me going back to school