I want my leo ex back

Hi all,

I'm seeking advice from those who have navigated the complex dynamics of a Scorpio-Leo relationship. I once shared an incredible bond with my Leo fiancé, a man who deeply complemented my passionate and ambitious nature. I was wholeheartedly invested in his success, supporting his career aspirations, and contributing to our shared goals. He reciprocated my efforts, demonstrating his commitment to our partnership and fulfilling his role as a supportive partner.

Unfortunately, external factors intervened, fueled by the envy of those around us. His father, in particular, harbored resentment towards our relationship, questioning my presence in his son's life. Amidst this negativity, I was painted as the villain, and our engagement crumbled. Despite the passage of six years, the memories of our love remain vivid, and I deeply regret the circumstances that led to our separation. His fther was the one that convinced him to just break things off.

We recently reconnected in person, acknowledging our past mistakes and expressing mutual apologies. While he remains attentive, engaging with my social media updates and responding to my messages, he hesitates to initiate conversations himself. His sporadic responses, coupled with his continued engagement with my social media presence, confuse my perception of his intentions.

As a Scorpio woman accustomed to being pursued, I find myself struggling to reclaim my position in his heart. How can I rekindle the flame that once ignited our relationship? Can you offer insights into Leo Men's behavior and suggest strategies to revive our connection?

Additionally, I'm curious if our astrological compatibility plays a role in our current dynamic. He was born on August 6th, and I was born on November 15th. Any astrological insights would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you for your wisdom and support as I navigate this emotional labyrinth.

Posted by opulentni
Hi all,

I'm seeking advice from those who have navigated the complex dynamics of a Scorpio-Leo relationship. I once shared an incredible bond with my Leo fiancé, a man who deeply complemented my passionate and ambitious nature. I was wholeheartedly invested in his success, supporting his career aspirations, and contributing to our shared goals. He reciprocated my efforts, demonstrating his commitment to our partnership and fulfilling his role as a supportive partner.

Unfortunately, external factors intervened, fueled by the envy of those around us. His father, in particular, harbored resentment towards our relationship, questioning my presence in his son's life. Amidst this negativity, I was painted as the villain, and our engagement crumbled. Despite the passage of six years, the memories of our love remain vivid, and I deeply regret the circumstances that led to our separation. His fther was the one that convinced him to just break things off.

We recently reconnected in person, acknowledging our past mistakes and expressing mutual apologies. While he remains attentive, engaging with my social media updates and responding to my messages, he hesitates to initiate conversations himself. His sporadic responses, coupled with his continued engagement with my social media presence, confuse my perception of his intentions.

As a Scorpio woman accustomed to being pursued, I find myself struggling to reclaim my position in his heart. How can I rekindle the flame that once ignited our relationship? Can you offer insights into Leo Men's behavior and suggest strategies to revive our connection?

Additionally, I'm curious if our astrological compatibility plays a role in our current dynamic. He was born on August 6th, and I was born on November 15th. Any astrological insights would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you for your wisdom and support as I navigate this emotional labyrinth.

Start over, ask if he wants to go out some time.

You were the one wronged here. He maybe questioning your interest.

On a personal note, I've taken bad advice based on thier own ideals instead of mine. this went against my own interest and self knowing, it costed me...a beauty future and life. I felt ashamed and view it as a personal failing and weakness. Still do actually. It is what it is.

6 years is a long time to grow and change as a person. So that's another reason why I said start over and ask if he is interested in going out some time.

flat-out text him and say something like

"I miss you; I miss us." as he religiously checks my social media Not that im sure that means anything, but I'm still asking.

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Posted by opulentni
Hi all,
I'm seeking advice from those who have navigated the complex dynamics of a Scorpio-Leo relationship. I once shared an incredible bond with my Leo fiancé, a man who deeply complemented my passionate and ambitious nature. I was wholeheartedly invested in his success, supporting his career aspirations, and contributing to our shared goals. He reciprocated my efforts, demonstrating his commitment to our partnership and fulfilling his role as a supportive partner.
Unfortunately, external factors intervened, fueled by the envy of those around us. His father, in particular, harbored resentment towards our relationship, questioning my presence in his son's life. Amidst this negativity, I was painted as the villain, and our engagement crumbled. Despite the passage of six years, the memories of our love remain vivid, and I deeply regret the circumstances that led to our separation. His fther was the one that convinced him to just break things off.
We recently reconnected in person, acknowledging our past mistakes and expressing mutual apologies. While he remains attentive, engaging with my social media updates and responding to my messages, he hesitates to initiate conversations himself. His sporadic responses, coupled with his continued engagement with my social media presence, confuse my perception of his intentions.
As a Scorpio woman accustomed to being pursued, I find myself struggling to reclaim my position in his heart. How can I rekindle the flame that once ignited our relationship? Can you offer insights into Leo Men's behavior and suggest strategies to revive our connection?
Additionally, I'm curious if our astrological compatibility plays a role in our current dynamic. He was born on August 6th, and I was born on November 15th. Any astrological insights would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you for your wisdom and support as I navigate this emotional labyrinth.

Start over, ask if he wants to go out some time.

You were the one wronged here. He maybe questioning your interest.

On a personal note, I've taken bad advice based on thier own ideals instead of mine. this went against my own interest and self knowing, it costed me...a beauty future and life. I felt ashamed and view it as a personal failing and weakness. Still do actually. It is what it is.

6 years is a long time to grow and change as a person. So that's another reason why I said start over and ask if he is interested in going out some time.

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If his father is still alive he may be slow because nothing has changed. He knows his father still won't approve of you so what is the use of getting involved again. I would be turned off by a grown man who would let his parent keep us apart. Leo and Scorpio square each other. The only square sign that does get on with Leo is Aquarius.

since our seperation, i remarried now divorced with a toddler. so im not sure if that is a problem but thats also whats confusing because, i would stop interacting with social platforms. i wont check your status, i would mute you and move on with life and it just trips me up. I miss us truly but unsure on how to communicate that to him 😢

since our seperation, i remarried now divorced with a toddler. so im not sure if that is a problem but thats also whats confusing because, i would stop interacting with social platforms. i wont check your status, i would mute you and move on with life and it just trips me up. I miss us truly but unsure on how to communicate that to him 😢

Posted by dontgiveup
Just be upfront with him. Make the first move. Maybe he is unaware of your intentions.

You will get an answer and either see what happens or he will let you know he doesnt want to

I am a scorpio so maybe thats why i'm heavy on communicating lol but im also a female so im used to the man doing the work so its all challenging for me. The last text btw he and i was me sharing how badly things affect me and how much i've tried to rewrite my mistakes. He's response was that i should forgive myself because, it's a lot to carry on for all these years. I thanked him and that was it. BUT he's heavy on my mind these days which is strange becayse, u was fine before 😢

Really? He was my first and my other relationship was my second. I'm never one to move around or "date around" but I appreciate your response nevertheless. I know it was the dad for a fact but thank you.

Whoever you marry, you marry the family.

The real question here is why did the father despise you? You don't have to be chummy with in-laws, but to go the lengths he did tells me something else is going on here.

Move on.. the father will just be in your business and he's making his son choose between you or the family. Don't put Leo in that situation.

I did nothing wrong but elevate his son! But again, I love and accept all of these answers because they help me to look within and dig further, and you may be right on moving on.

eriously WHO HURT YOU? Goodness. You notice i continue to respomnd with grace. you are not required to give any response sheesh. I wasn't wanted? LMAO okay if that helps you sleep at night.

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Posted by opulentni
I did nothing wrong but elevate his son! But again, I love and accept all of these answers because they help me to look within and dig further, and you may be right on moving on.

You talk sh it like you are so in control, like every Scorpio ever

You weren't wanted... that's it. The Dad didn't like you and the son saw his point, i.e the son agreed on some level. Now you are in contact with him and he is friendly but no more than that

and your ego can't handle it so you tell yourself you were great and it was his weakness/dad

I've heard the same thing from a multitude of Scorpios. All hung up thinking their ex was weak or influenced or whatever and not able to contemplate the idea that perhaps they aren't as wonderful partners as they think they are

I'm sure you will love and accept this comment because it helps you search your amazing depths or whatever bs lol

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TRULY AN INDIOT! I've def left alot of things out here and so glad i did but whatever floats your boat but you truly are an idiot. I am not hung up on him; I will not fucking die if we weren't back together. The way i feel this very moment is different from how I was feeling when i made this post lol BELIEVE YOU MEEEEE If i wanted to manipulate him, i had my fare amount of chances but that's not my character.

BC You assume we're all the same! Step outside of your understanding of scorpios because we're not all the same. I didnt hold this man's hand and forced him to buy me things like cars, a ring to name a few. Someone said something here about when you marry him, you marry his family. That sunk in so deeply and made me realize so much that I truly don't want that in my life. When i wrote the post, I was thinking, Oh, its just me and hima nd staying away from family altogether. When we were together, he didn't like being with family, so you can say I did it to myself and I'm totally okay with that now.

This thread was a way to step out of my own head. Not to allow you to bring me low where I NEVER SAW myself. Come on now lol He was the only true ex I loved and gave a shot to and maybe that's why he has a special place in my heart. I AM NOT IN THE BUSINESS OF MANIPULATING ANYONE! LET ALONE HIM.

BECAUSE I RESPONDED WITH GRACE! Not yet having things settled in my head, but you continued, and I'm like you really tried it! That's all the same way you felt about me calling you an idiot for what you shared. I gave you what you were lookign for as well 😉

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Posted by opulentni
BC You assume we're all the same! Step outside of your understanding of scorpios because we're not all the same. I didnt hold this man's hand and forced him to buy me things like cars, a ring to name a few. Someone said something here about when you marry him, you marry his family. That sunk in so deeply and made me realize so much that I truly don't want that in my life. When i wrote the post, I was thinking, Oh, its just me and hima nd staying away from family altogether. When we were together, he didn't like being with family, so you can say I did it to myself and I'm totally okay with that now.
This thread was a way to step out of my own head. Not to allow you to bring me low where I NEVER SAW myself. Come on now lol He was the only true ex I loved and gave a shot to and maybe that's why he has a special place in my heart. I AM NOT IN THE BUSINESS OF MANIPULATING ANYONE! LET ALONE HIM.

Ok so why you angry then? If you have it all settled in your head now. Why do you care what I say lol

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I've read your exchange with her. She has valid points all around.

I'd seriously do some reflection of her interpretation of you and your point of view.

Posted by dontgiveup

Posted by opulentni
since our seperation, i remarried now divorced with a toddler. so im not sure if that is a problem but thats also whats confusing because, i would stop interacting with social platforms. i wont check your status, i would mute you and move on with life and it just trips me up. I miss us truly but unsure on how to communicate that to him

Posted by dontgiveup
Just be upfront with him. Make the first move. Maybe he is unaware of your intentions.
You will get an answer and either see what happens or he will let you know he doesnt want to

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All you can do is ask,

But i, as a Leo wouldnt let anyone come in between a relationship if its truly what I wanted. Even family.

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I don't know any Leos who would allow that and I know plenty. Maybe a Cancer would but certainly not a Leo. But OP's Leo is doing this to her.

Leos tend to be close to their family members, so if his dad was not favorable to you, that would color his perception of you for sure. If his dad is still alive, then it's likely that his dad will still harbor negative feelings toward you.

I agree that being upfront is the best solution because, if your ex wants you, he'll let you know, and if he doesn't, he'll let you know too. It will allow you to move on if that's the final outcome.