@iamlanaxxx
9 Years
Omg Leos… Honestly just need to vent. Lol.
Understanding Leo Women's Communication About Feelings
Leo women often express their feelings indirectly, emphasizing challenges rather than direct rejection. They might say they are not in a place to overcome challenges to protect their pride or avoid confrontation. Recognizing this can help you interpret their words more accurately and manage expectations in relationships with Leos.
She doesn't want to be in a relationship because they complicate life and she doesn't need that kind of drama in her life right now.
She doesn't want to be in a relationship because they complicate life and she doesn't need that kind of drama in her life right now.
She’s the one that labelled us as being “romantically involved”. And like, she would introduce me to all her friends and the dynamic very much took on the same dynamic as that of a relationship. One night she was drunk and she called me and when she was hanging up, she said i love you and i know it was meant in a friendly way but i never said it back and i felt like since that night, she went a bit weird. I just feel like she actually feels more strongly towards me than i do towards her but i think she wants more attention. I dunno
She doesn't want to be in a relationship because they complicate life and she doesn't need that kind of drama in her life right now.
She’s the one that labelled us as being “romantically involved”. And like, she would introduce me to all her friends and the dynamic very much took on the same dynamic as that of a relationship. One night she was drunk and she called me and when she was hanging up, she said i love you and i know it was meant in a friendly way but i never said it back and i felt like since that night, she went a bit weird. I just feel like she actually feels more strongly towards me than i do towards her but i think she wants more attention. I dunno
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You didn't say it back so she is done with you.
I dont know I'm not in this woman's mind. I know when I've said it before and a guy doesn't say it back then I'm done. Lost interest now. Bye.
The thing is i never indicated i was rushing to get into a relationship. I wanted to continue talking to her but yeah she said this dynamic between us has reached its ending despite her feelings and attraction towards me
This is why I don't tell guys I love them anymore unless they say it first.
She doesn't want to be in a relationship because they complicate life and she doesn't need that kind of drama in her life right now.
She’s the one that labelled us as being “romantically involved”. And like, she would introduce me to all her friends and the dynamic very much took on the same dynamic as that of a relationship. One night she was drunk and she called me and when she was hanging up, she said i love you and i know it was meant in a friendly way but i never said it back and i felt like since that night, she went a bit weird. I just feel like she actually feels more strongly towards me than i do towards her but i think she wants more attention. I dunno
You didn't say it back so she is done with you.
I dont know I'm not in this woman's mind. I know when I've said it before and a guy doesn't say it back then I'm done. Lost interest now. Bye.
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I genuinely like her and i told her i’m still attracted to her and want to continue getting to know her and she’s like i appreciate you fighting for our connection, it means a lot
Like who wants a luke warm I want to get to know you
After an I love you lol
It’s been 4 mo the of getting to know you shit n you still like warm
Why she’s bowing out
What challenges? Is this her way of hinting you should pay her rent 😅
What challenges? Is this her way of hinting you should pay her rent 😅
She thinks i was freely dumping shit onto her when she was going through a rough period but i wasn’t even? And i was thinking no you’re the one that constantly dumps everything on me and just assumes i’ve always got the capacity to handle all the drama in her life like she’s got issues with friends, family, exes.
I’m not gonna say i love you if were not exclusively in a relationship like seriously come on
She doesn't want to be in a relationship because they complicate life and she doesn't need that kind of drama in her life right now.
Oh Leo you ARE the drama 🧐😤😂
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This also because the dynamic between us was so easy and chilled and its like she likes having drama which i just don’t get
What challenges? Is this her way of hinting you should pay her rent 😅
She thinks i was freely dumping shit onto her when she was going through a rough period but i wasn’t even? And i was thinking no you’re the one that constantly dumps everything on me and just assumes i’ve always got the capacity to handle all the drama in her life like she’s got issues with friends, family, exes.
I’m not gonna say i love you if were not exclusively in a relationship like seriously come on
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Was the drama one of the reasons you chose not to make it exclusive? Or what was your hesitation there
What challenges? Is this her way of hinting you should pay her rent 😅
She thinks i was freely dumping shit onto her when she was going through a rough period but i wasn’t even? And i was thinking no you’re the one that constantly dumps everything on me and just assumes i’ve always got the capacity to handle all the drama in her life like she’s got issues with friends, family, exes.
I’m not gonna say i love you if were not exclusively in a relationship like seriously come on
Was the drama one of the reasons you chose not to make it exclusive? Or what was your hesitation there
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Well we never had a chat about making it exclusive. The funny thing is when she accused me of “freely dumping” things onto her, she was like we’re not even in a relationship even though she wanted that dynamic. but it’s like omg how is it that i know every bit of drama present in her life yet as soon as i wanted to talk about something serious, it’s like she was not interested. I just don’t get it. Anyway i probably was never gonna get my needs met so onto the next one.
She doesn't want to be in a relationship because they complicate life and she doesn't need that kind of drama in her life right now.
Oh Leo you ARE the drama 🧐😤😂
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You love the drama....admit it! 😘
I'm a 29 degree cancer, so I might help? You didn't reciprocate, so she left like a thief in the night. And she's now upholding her vibe, by telling you a pretty lie.
What do you mean? What’s the lie?
Lol. I think she has resorted to playing mind games now.
She has been ignoring/not acknowledging my msgs but then she msgs me saying she likes my new profile picture and that i look hot in it.
Honestly can’t tell if she’s just giving me false hope cause she’s butthurt for whatever reason or actually trying to make me chase her
Don’t try to figure her out.
Instead, give her exactly what she wants.
Emotionally detach and be extraordinarily nonchalant
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I was romantically involved with a Leo woman for about 4 months. Recently has said she’s attracted to me and has feelings for me but she is not in a place to be overcoming challenges right now. Why does she have to say it like that? Why can’t she just say oh I just don’t want you. Like, I don’t even understand what “not in a place to be overcoming challenges” means…?
Leo women… insight please…