I want my Leo man back

My Leo man broke up with me after Christmas. I was devastated because I wanted to work things out but he said that our relationship will only get worse if we continue and he said he doesn't want to ever resent me for not being on his own, being single, independent, and doing what he feels whenever where ever without worrying about someone else. He said it wouldn't be fair to me. We were together for 4 years. He broke up with me several times before and for the same reasons but we ended back together soon after.

I was his first serious girlfriend. When we first met he just turned 21. We hit it off fast! He was saying "I love you" very very early and wanted me to be his girlfriend so badly. Even his closest friends say that he wanted me so bad. Our first date was with his closest friends and family. He would sacrifice hanging out with his friend and going on tour with a band to be with me. As our relationship progressed I started to become extremely emotional because I would always give and he would take. It use to be 50/50 but I guess he just got really comfortable in the relationship and LAZY! I would want to hang out during the day...he would want to sleep all day.

The past 6 months I felt he was distancing himself from me and towards the end he told me he was unhappy. I asked him how long he felt this way and he said 1-2 years! I was so hurt. So after a week in our break up he use to call every night talking about his day...mainly talking about himself. We did hook up for sex, some days I was okay with being in contact with him and other days it hurt. I've been telling him that I still miss him and ask if we will ever reconcile and get back together I've said this through text and he would NEVER give me an answer, just ignore it and would text me about other random things. When I talk to him in person about it he doesn't know what to say and gets frustrated. So in the past 2 weeks he stopped calling me like he use to. I end up calling him and initiating contact. I hung out with him a few days ago in person telling him I miss him and want us to get back together. He said he is happy right now and said that he can only imagine himself being with me...but wants to enjoy his freedom. I do want to be with him, I love him, and want to do things with him. What can I do to get him back? I feel he is set on his plan and don't know if Leo men move on to the next girl, or if they stick with a plan they will stick with it for a long time?

If not now I want to eventually be with him. I just don't know what to do. I'm thinking of not contacting him anymore but that could backfire. Any suggestions on what I should do to get my Leo man back?

Thanks Seraph. Yeah we are still in contact a lot (me the one initiating it) and I do need to stop. He doesn't ignore my calls and when he misses it he calls back. We did have good times and I guess that is all I am thinking about right now. I am intense and deep when it comes to my feelings and he is all about the NOW...wants to have fun etc. I just deleted him from my contacts...I guess I need to get into the reality that it is OVER. Even though I want to be with him, its not what he wants right now. He called me three times yesterday, I didn't answer. Saw him today at school driving, he saw me and stopped his car...looked like he wanted to wave/say hi but I looked at him very briefly and kept on driving I didn't mean to but I ended up calling him a few hours after regarding his calls last night and he said "oh I forgot what I was going to say..." and I didn't ask any further and since he was sick I told him to get better soon. That was it. I really need to focus on me rather than trying to get him back lol I'm just torturing myself! It just sucks because one minute he was planning for us to go to Maui and New York this year and now its like he totally turned around and dropped everything. I realized that he was trying to stay committed but couldn't do it anymore. I try to understand his point of view as I was in the same situation as him when I dumped my ex before him. But reading about myself...being a Scorpio girl we tend to be very emotional and in tune with our emotions. I just wish I can turn it off and move on.

Posted by Scorpio87
Thanks Seraph. Yeah we are still in contact a lot (me the one initiating it) and I do need to stop. He doesn't ignore my calls and when he misses it he calls back. We did have good times and I guess that is all I am thinking about right now. I am intense and deep when it comes to my feelings and he is all about the NOW...wants to have fun etc. I just deleted him from my contacts...I guess I need to get into the reality that it is OVER. Even though I want to be with him, its not what he wants right now. He called me three times yesterday, I didn't answer. Saw him today at school driving, he saw me and stopped his car...looked like he wanted to wave/say hi but I looked at him very briefly and kept on driving I didn't mean to but I ended up calling him a few hours after regarding his calls last night and he said "oh I forgot what I was going to say..." and I didn't ask any further and since he was sick I told him to get better soon. That was it. I really need to focus on me rather than trying to get him back lol I'm just torturing myself! It just sucks because one minute he was planning for us to go to Maui and New York this year and now its like he totally turned around and dropped everything. I realized that he was trying to stay committed but couldn't do it anymore. I try to understand his point of view as I was in the same situation as him when I dumped my ex before him. But reading about myself...being a Scorpio girl we tend to be very emotional and in tune with our emotions. I just wish I can turn it off and move on.

Please move on! He's not worth it! Trust me!