Is it possible that he still thinks of me?

Me and this leo guy met 4 years ago when we were students , right when we looked at each others eyes we fell in love and it was actually love at first sight , the problem was that he had never spoken before and it was very awkward for both of us to introduce to one another . Day after day he would stare at me and give me all his attention and try to impress me . For fear of getting hurt I would always ignore him which made him really sad . Each day of the year he would try to get my attention and so a year passed by and we hadn't spoken to each other not even one time. Summer came and I knew that the following year he would change
school and that I wouldn't be able to see him but still was to shy to do the first move.

The following year , the first day of school his friends came and talked to me and told me that he was really depressed because he was really in love with me and I was his first real love and that he talked about me all the time and that he used to cut himself because of me . I felt really really bad because I felt the same way but at that time I couldn't contact him because of some personal issues.

Time passed and I thought it would be best to move on , as I did with every other guy , but this time was different. It has been 4 years and I still can get him out of my mind and every single day I think of him and how much I love him . Although I have been in many relationships since then
and so does he , I still can get over him. Is it possible that he still thinks of me too?? If I try to contact him after all these years will he care at all?

Wow reminds me of my first love at high school. So in love I was with him that I chased and he bailed away to another state or something so yeh I ended up hurt, broken hearted and just plain depressed coz he went away but in hindsight though I still love him nowadays and consider him a friend despite all that we have been through(me chasing him) I realise that this was the best thing that ever had happened to me. Its hard to explain but when you look back on past loves you realise just how much you were missing out on other people whilst thinking abput your 'loves' but you cant help who you fall in love with so for me it was a hard lesson in loving and letting go and now I have done that I find it is easier to get on with my life and also having a marriage that was built on lies helps to get on with it too.

I think if he truly loved you he would still think of you from time to time but dont let this equate with being interested in you. Just coz you think of someone from time to time doesnt mean you are in love with them or love them at all. I think of many people all the time and I am not in love with them.

It is possible that he would still think of you and care for you after all the years although I am not sure if he would love you like before.

Posted by mfwb55
It is possible that he would still think of you and care for you after all the years although I am not sure if he would love you like before.

I don't actually expect him to love me like before , but I would love to have him as a friend and I don't know how to do that and if it's possible 😢
(*thanks for your answers btw:*)