Leo asking for help! (this is difficult)...

Im a Leo and Im in love with a Virgo woman. I know that some of you may think Im crazy seeing that we big cats need adoration and Virgos are probably one of the last signs one should persue for that. But this happens to be my situation-we cannot choose who we love right? Well here it is: she seems distant at times and uncertain of how she feels about me (in her head though, not in her heart) we are better than excellent in the bedroom together-a perfect match(she has Venus in Leo). But outside the bedroom she overworks and overschedules herself. The time we spend together is minimal and quite seperated from everything else in her life and I wish it were more integrated. It is a very rare moment that she, her friends and I all do something together. I feel like I am kept in a special box on the side. She likes me (may even love me), she talks about me to all her friends (who all think Im great by the way and that she is crazy for not being with me)I make her feel good but she is suspicious and full of doubt. Her body will budge, her heart will swoon but her mind is like and armored fortress. I want to win her heart and her mind but I am stumped. I dont want to play clever games with her but thats what my female friends suggest-jealousy and making her hunt me are useful tools.
I dont want to stoop to this level of "game playing". Please help...
Lovelorned Leo

I think she is just using you as a boy toy. she hasn't the time for a real relationship so she uses you for sex and bussies her self with her life of work. until something better comes along.

yeah i think shes just using u. i think u probably enjoy the challenge of winning her time also.

Hi Tealeafhunter,

I'm not sure if you're checking this board, it's been awhile since the last post but, here's something. Thanks old Jake and cj7 for your paupers of wisdom, but I think he was looking for something a little more concrete. He cares for her, whether he's a boy toy or not is moot. He's asking how to proceed beyond this point.

Tealeaf, Virgo woman can be enigmas (coming from a Virgo male LOL). The only thing that's coming to mind is she's ruled by Mercury. The master of communication. Talk to her. Have the adult conversation. You need to know where you stand. Are you a boy toy like old jake says or is there a potential for more. The only way you're going to find this out is by bring it up.

As for mind games, the hunting you thing. I'm not digging that. Even if she want to, I don't know her, but I can't see a female Virgo putting herself in that vulnerable position. You said in your post her head wins out over her heart. You feel she cares, and in the moment, I'm sure you have sway, but at a distance. The head is going to win hands down. I can't see remoteness helping you here. At least that's how I see it, 6.347 percent of the time I'm wrong (LOL), this could be one of them.
Simply put. Just talk to her.

VirgoSquared

Well V.Sq- yes it has been a while. I have been conversing with my virgo sweetie. difficult because she does not express her heart easily. but things are going well as she is learning to explore her emotions with me and trust that i will not stomp on them. The adventure changes up week by week, day by day, sometimes hour by hour. but i wouldnt pass it up for the world...

Hey Leo boy

I am a leo girl and i would say ditch the virgo you need more excitement than they can give you unfortunately. Go for an aries, it'll be romantic, caring, good in the sack and fun-luvin, ditch the virgos' sorry workaholic ass. Virgos are too critical, boring and anal...no offence virgos!! 🙂