Leo boyfriend

Anyone whos had any long term relationships with leo men? I'm currently only been dating him for 5 months, and its easy to say that his attitude has changed quite a bit compared to before. He gets much more impatient and his apologies are usually a mix of overly sincere at times or not sincere at all (almost has like a passive-aggressive tone). But I've also looked into the fact that Leo's are just stubborn and has too big of an ego in certain areas especially during arguments. I'm honestly stressed and confused. (im a saggie).

My ex has leo placements, he wants what he can’t have. Being so available to him doesn’t work.

Posted by Tenpxd

My ex has leo placements, he wants what he can’t have. Being so available to him doesn’t work.

She's a Sag, the most unavailable sign in the Zodiac 🤷

Posted by Enfant-Terrible-II

Posted by Tenpxd

My ex has leo placements, he wants what he can’t have. Being so available to him doesn’t work.

She's a Sag, the most unavailable sign in the Zodiac 🤷

click to expand

idk sometimes I don't feel like a sag yet sometimes I have the tendencies to want to just be free of drama yaknow lol

What are you two arguing about?

From the way you write of his apologies, it sounds like he’s doing it a lot. Seems exhausting.

I’m a Sag woman dating a Leo for 6 months now.

Posted by saggurl88

What are you two arguing about?

From the way you write of his apologies, it sounds like he’s doing it a lot. Seems exhausting.

I’m a Sag woman dating a Leo for 6 months now.

I honestly don't get it myself, it all seems like useless arguing to me since its always about small matters. Even if it were bigger issues it always just leads to more misunderstandings. Leo's stubbornness makes it impossible for me to say or comment on anything even if the reasoning is logical. He makes a fuss over small stuff and when I actually get mad I tend to make space for myself and hold my emotions in in case i blow up at him (is this illogical to do so?), however, he starts to get mad over me ignoring him? Sag's are known to be free and my choice to have space is the only time I could breath. When he apologizes, I have never blamed him or is forcing him to say it even if I may come off as harsh when I'm actually mad ( he blows back at me with even more hurtful words). It may seem exhausting for him to "put himself" in the spot to apologize for making himself feel better, but its more tiring for me to always receive a half-heartedly "sorry" I never wanted. I might be ranting a lot, but its frustrating yaknow?

I dated a Leo for 3 years and then the judge broke us up.

He was very abusive and it didn’t start out that way.

He still tries to reach out to me every once n awhile. But I don’t respond. It confuses him.

One time, his girlfriend reached out to me wanting to ask me questions about him and I ignored her 2.

Posted by fx

Posted by saggurl88

What are you two arguing about?

From the way you write of his apologies, it sounds like he’s doing it a lot. Seems exhausting.

I’m a Sag woman dating a Leo for 6 months now.

I honestly don't get it myself, it all seems like useless arguing to me since its always about small matters. Even if it were bigger issues it always just leads to more misunderstandings. Leo's stubbornness makes it impossible for me to say or comment on anything even if the reasoning is logical. He makes a fuss over small stuff and when I actually get mad I tend to make space for myself and hold my emotions in in case i blow up at him (is this illogical to do so?), however, he starts to get mad over me ignoring him? Sag's are known to be free and my choice to have space is the only time I could breath. When he apologizes, I have never blamed him or is forcing him to say it even if I may come off as harsh when I'm actually mad ( he blows back at me with even more hurtful words). It may seem exhausting for him to "put himself" in the spot to apologize for making himself feel better, but its more tiring for me to always receive a half-heartedly "sorry" I never wanted. I might be ranting a lot, but its frustrating yaknow?

click to expand

I haven’t had an argument with my Leo yet. I was just wondering. I’ve heard Leo’s can be argumentative.

I’m still waiting. I think I’m as boring to him as he is to me without them. There’s no drama at all 😟 He says I don’t leave any stone unturned, so there’s not much to argue about. If I’m upset or wondering about anything. I ask right away and want to know what he has to say. But it’s not small stuff. We don’t bicker about anything.

Why are you holding back what you want to say if he doesn’t listen anyways? Might as well get everything out. Especially since he wants to hear it, instead of you going into hiding and ignoring him.

Could things be resolved easier if you try it that way?

Blow up and let him have it, without being mean. Just blunt and truthful.

I don’t know the dynamics of your relationship, so my advice about not holding back could be bad. If it’s an abusive relationship and he is shutting you down, that’s a problem.

Yeah, fighting with a Leo is not pretty along with any couples who fight. At first its usually just a small one and both sides got more patience, but the level of this patience and attitude changes rapidly once it goes on longer and the mindset switches from the lovey climax period to a period where issues began to arise and u need to get used to each other's habits and life style in a relationship. (though it differs for every couple ofc). I guess I should actually confront him that I don't appreciate it when he avoids the problem and moves on as if everything's fine even if nothings been solved. Its not a abusive relationship but more so the fact that he acts like a gemini at times where he's like a different person and blurts out mean things, but literally randomly switches back to the affectionate Leo a few hours or a day later. When I dont reply him its usually after fighting for a while, and I guess I was just too emotionally tired to have the energy to continue the topic while communicating with someone whos too angry to get through and just chill down.

This is like a rollercoaster ride for me 😟 Hopefully things get better and have better control of his attitude.. Feels like I've endured just as much and even more (being depressed 24/7) when it comes to the emotional section in our relationship.

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by fx

Posted by saggurl88

What are you two arguing about?

From the way you write of his apologies, it sounds like he’s doing it a lot. Seems exhausting.

I’m a Sag woman dating a Leo for 6 months now.

I honestly don't get it myself, it all seems like useless arguing to me since its always about small matters. Even if it were bigger issues it always just leads to more misunderstandings. Leo's stubbornness makes it impossible for me to say or comment on anything even if the reasoning is logical. He makes a fuss over small stuff and when I actually get mad I tend to make space for myself and hold my emotions in in case i blow up at him (is this illogical to do so?), however, he starts to get mad over me ignoring him? Sag's are known to be free and my choice to have space is the only time I could breath. When he apologizes, I have never blamed him or is forcing him to say it even if I may come off as harsh when I'm actually mad ( he blows back at me with even more hurtful words). It may seem exhausting for him to "put himself" in the spot to apologize for making himself feel better, but its more tiring for me to always receive a half-heartedly "sorry" I never wanted. I might be ranting a lot, but its frustrating yaknow?

I haven’t had an argument with my Leo yet. I was just wondering. I’ve heard Leo’s can be argumentative.

I’m still waiting. I think I’m as boring to him as he is to me without them. There’s no drama at all 😟 He says I don’t leave any stone unturned, so there’s not much to argue about. If I’m upset or wondering about anything. I ask right away and want to know what he has to say. But it’s not small stuff. We don’t bicker about anything.

Why are you holding back what you want to say if he doesn’t listen anyways? Might as well get everything out. Especially since he wants to hear it, instead of you going into hiding and ignoring him.

Could things be resolved easier if you try it that way?

Blow up and let him have it, without being mean. Just blunt and truthful.

I don’t know the dynamics of your relationship, so my advice about not holding back could be bad. If it’s an abusive relationship and he is shutting you down, that’s a problem.

click to expand

You figured out something that most people seem to have trouble learning. Stick with the person who does right by you, cut loose those who do not.

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by fx

Posted by saggurl88

What are you two arguing about?

From the way you write of his apologies, it sounds like he’s doing it a lot. Seems exhausting.

I’m a Sag woman dating a Leo for 6 months now.

I honestly don't get it myself, it all seems like useless arguing to me since its always about small matters. Even if it were bigger issues it always just leads to more misunderstandings. Leo's stubbornness makes it impossible for me to say or comment on anything even if the reasoning is logical. He makes a fuss over small stuff and when I actually get mad I tend to make space for myself and hold my emotions in in case i blow up at him (is this illogical to do so?), however, he starts to get mad over me ignoring him? Sag's are known to be free and my choice to have space is the only time I could breath. When he apologizes, I have never blamed him or is forcing him to say it even if I may come off as harsh when I'm actually mad ( he blows back at me with even more hurtful words). It may seem exhausting for him to "put himself" in the spot to apologize for making himself feel better, but its more tiring for me to always receive a half-heartedly "sorry" I never wanted. I might be ranting a lot, but its frustrating yaknow?

I haven’t had an argument with my Leo yet. I was just wondering. I’ve heard Leo’s can be argumentative.

I’m still waiting. I think I’m as boring to him as he is to me without them. There’s no drama at all 😟 He says I don’t leave any stone unturned, so there’s not much to argue about. If I’m upset or wondering about anything. I ask right away and want to know what he has to say. But it’s not small stuff. We don’t bicker about anything.

Why are you holding back what you want to say if he doesn’t listen anyways? Might as well get everything out. Especially since he wants to hear it, instead of you going into hiding and ignoring him.

Could things be resolved easier if you try it that way?

Blow up and let him have it, without being mean. Just blunt and truthful.

I don’t know the dynamics of your relationship, so my advice about not holding back could be bad. If it’s an abusive relationship and he is shutting you down, that’s a problem.

You figured out something that most people seem to have trouble learning. Stick with the person who does right by you, cut loose those who do not.

click to expand

I sure did.

I’ve always liked nice guys who are consistent, respectful and treat me right.

I try to be the same way towards them.

As easy as it seems, it’s still hard to find 🥴

My longest relationship was with a Leo .. only for 1.5 yrs though lol

Arguments we had were either

- Him working too much and me wanting to meet up more often

- His bruised ego (happened once non intentionally)

- Me being jealous

He also liked to get back at me if we had an argument that he's still mad about.. by being passive aggressive and stubborn

Posted by TxOgal

My longest relationship was with a Leo .. only for 1.5 yrs though lol

Arguments we had were either

- Him working too much and me wanting to meet up more often

- His bruised ego (happened once non intentionally)

- Me being jealous

He also liked to get back at me if we had an argument that he's still mad about.. by being passive aggressive and stubborn

Yes, thats sorta like how my Leo would be like if he's mad about something..stubborn and p.a. 😔