Leo chick really don't want to take B.S. Virgo guy

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So, my Virguy just called me an hour and half ago, on his way to work common thing between us.. It was going all well, He has a son from a previous relationship, I often ask my virguy how he's doing.. Out of nowhere, he decides to be all aggressive " I told you! already, why are you asking again?" Me, being a Leo female I would have lashed out but didn't have the energy and I calmly said to him "Hey! whats wrong? Relax, I was only asking? Him he continues to yell but noticed my tone of authority came on he lowered his voice... I told him well, I have to go we'll talk later.. His reply is "Whateverr... and something else but I've already disconnected... It's not his first time he's spoken to me aggressively I usually ignore it, but tonight I wasn't yelling or raising my voice whatsover just give him a tone to relax.. I'm not upset, it's just I don't want this to be a habit thinking he can talk like that to me... I'm just giving him his space to realize what he did and also for myself... So, after I disconnected our convo I've decided to turn off my phone, I'm a very mellow calm type of Leo.. I'm a very observant person if I noticed somethings wrong I often try to tell the person upfront, Hey! I'm not taking this!! Check urself LOL!!! please any advice on Leo female with Virgo man... He's my first virgo man, my dad is a Virgo so I kind of have alot of insights
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So, my Virguy just called me an hour and half ago, on his way to work common thing between us.. It was going all well, He has a son from a previous relationship, I often ask my virguy how he's doing.. Out of nowhere, he decides to be all aggressive " I told you! already, why are you asking again?" Me, being a Leo female I would have lashed out but didn't have the energy and I calmly said to him "Hey! whats wrong? Relax, I was only asking? Him he continues to yell but noticed my tone of authority came on he lowered his voice... I told him well, I have to go we'll talk later.. His reply is "Whateverr... and something else but I've already disconnected... It's not his first time he's spoken to me aggressively I usually ignore it, but tonight I wasn't yelling or raising my voice whatsover just give him a tone to relax.. I'm not upset, it's just I don't want this to be a habit thinking he can talk like that to me... I'm just giving him his space to realize what he did and also for myself... So, after I disconnected our convo I've decided to turn off my phone, I'm a very mellow calm type of Leo.. I'm a very observant person if I noticed somethings wrong I often try to tell the person upfront, Hey! I'm not taking this!! Check urself LOL!!! please any advice on Leo female with Virgo man... He's my first virgo man, my dad is a Virgo so I kind of have alot of insights



Because some Virgos are fucking weird, that's why.

I found myself saying 'don't talk to me like that' too much with my last Virgo-- and he could be 'sweet' but he was a selfish bastard, at the end of the day.

And bitch, bitch, bitch... it doesn't go away. I'm guessing that's why you asked him again HOW he was doing?

Because he couldn't stop telling you how persecuted he was-- am I right?

Ugh.

My other Virgo ex, whom I still speak to, has a Leo moon-- and seemed more like a Libra, but still- he was convinced everyone was out to get him.
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my son's a virgo. he's 17. when he's got shit on his mind he can be quite hateful towards me. i leave him to stew in his own juice and sometimes he apologises, sometimes he doesn't but nearly always, his anger is less to do with me and more to do with something completely unconnected that's bothering him. he responds badly to being questioned when he's in this kind of mood and so i don't bother.

my dad and older brother are also virgos and the same can be said of them. if they're in a bad mood, EVERYONE gets it in the neck. i think the main reason is that they just can't express what the real source of anger is...perhaps they're not even sure themselves. PLUS they are male and therefore inherently selfish.