Leo dissaperance act?

This topic was created in the Leo forum by Stars on Sunday, November 29, 2015 and has 4 replies.

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@Stars
11 Years

So yesterday he was loving With me he's my online male bestfriend . He was loving with me telling me I'm the best telling me he loves more than twice telling me he's super close to me thanking me for all I do for him like being there for him . I guess he said that cause he felt motivated that day I guess when you get a motivated happy Leo you get a loving Leo but anyways today he barely talked to me so why was he so loving yesterday but not today like we had 5 messages today that's all and he hasn't responded to me . So why was he like that and now isn't ? Did he not mean it . I mean he's usually nice to me but he was really loving yesterday

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@Shaniajam
10 Years1,000+ Posts

He meant it... They blow hot and cold. I realize once they pour their hearts out like that they need a break to access and to reflect. Leos typically don't say what they don't mean. I give mines a break every other day. He always call by nightfall though... And we are long distance so I'm still trying to figure out where this is going.

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@Stars
11 Years

Posted by Shaniajam
He meant it... They blow hot and cold. I realize once they pour their hearts out like that they need a break to access and to reflect. Leos typically don't say what they don't mean. I give mines a break every other day. He always call by nightfall though... And we are long distance so I'm still trying to figure out where this is going.

I know right he always texts me back by night time but um he Doesn't ever text me first and I don't know why ....? . We talk In the afternoon and night most days I don't ever take a break from texting him we talk everyday so I guess I should give him breaks ? How many days should I not contact him ?

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@Shaniajam
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Stars

Posted by Shaniajam
He meant it... They blow hot and cold. I realize once they pour their hearts out like that they need a break to access and to reflect. Leos typically don't say what they don't mean. I give mines a break every other day. He always call by nightfall though... And we are long distance so I'm still trying to figure out where this is going.

I know right he always texts me back by night time but um he Doesn't ever text me first and I don't know why ....? . We talk In the afternoon and night most days I don't ever take a break from texting him we talk everyday so I guess I should give him breaks ? How many days should I not contact him ?

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Yes that's too much texting. If you want him to lead...back off. I give mines a day, by day two if I hear nothing I start to move on lol get active on social media get busy with life lol. Trust me they'll sense it and return. Everyone needs a break. And if they don't? It'll prove you were more interested than them. Friendship and relationship alike.

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@PancakeFace
11 Years

They really do blow hot and cold. Sometimes backing off helps. Although I know the women like to be chased. Maybe give him space, be confident. He will be back before you know it.