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Leo friend seems very unhappy
I know a Leo and sag couple who want a baby but are unable to have one. Some issues with the sag’s fertility. The Leo works very hard and she works seasonally a couple of months out of the year. He looooooves her so much and would do anything to keep her happy. She is very demanding, rarely satisfied with his efforts.
My adopted Leo father and his aqua wife have a very similar relationship. Except the aqua works and saves her money, while the Leo takes care of the household expenses and still buys her lavish gifts.
I think it’s the Leo’s ego and pride that won’t allow them to ask their wives/SO for help. They want to be the head of the house. These men are great providers and demand very little in return.
My adopted Leo father and his aqua wife have a very similar relationship. Except the aqua works and saves her money, while the Leo takes care of the household expenses and still buys her lavish gifts.
I think it’s the Leo’s ego and pride that won’t allow them to ask their wives/SO for help. They want to be the head of the house. These men are great providers and demand very little in return.
Posted by greylaternTrue North Node 1°07' Я Scorpio, in House XINorth Node
So yes cancer in Venus, a child request would set him off. Her Venus is in Scorpio she loves his devotion. She is setting off his 8th house. So obsession will happen. A perfect storm.
He is correct, he is lining up the dominos for his own death. Working himself to death. It isn't set in stone though, he is choosing this path. Self filling prophecy.
Something doesn't add up though. Her Libra moon. Libra requires companionship. With 2 jobs and a baby that isn't going to happen from him at least. That maybe the source of unhappiness for her.
What is his north node and in what house?
he has suicidal thoughts he says he sounds really despressed
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A better question. What or how would you like to change this. Though her or him?
through him he needs to work on himself i think first he has 2 children he is already not allowed to see his 1st child
Posted by dewiklaessen26he doesn't sound very strong against her.Posted by greylaternTrue North Node 1°07' Я Scorpio, in House XINorth Node
So yes cancer in Venus, a child request would set him off. Her Venus is in Scorpio she loves his devotion. She is setting off his 8th house. So obsession will happen. A perfect storm.
He is correct, he is lining up the dominos for his own death. Working himself to death. It isn't set in stone though, he is choosing this path. Self filling prophecy.
Something doesn't add up though. Her Libra moon. Libra requires companionship. With 2 jobs and a baby that isn't going to happen from him at least. That maybe the source of unhappiness for her.
What is his north node and in what house?
he has suicidal thoughts he says he sounds really despressed
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he needs to put his foot down.
some men are too tame. and the women tame them too much. poor guy.
Having a child at that age when clearly neither of them are financially ready to support one will obviously put strain on the relationship. Relationships don't just magically get better when children are introduced. If he's working two jobs to make ends meet and she's still unhappy, then there's a bigger underlying issue.
Does the Sag also work? From how it sounds, she complain because she doesn't respect the Leo. She doesn't respect the Leo because he doesn't stand up to her. The Leo basically giving the Sag whatever she wants and probably hasn't figured out how to say "No". As a result she continues to be on bad behavior because internally she doesn't trust him as a man.
I'd imagine that this issue goes well into their relationship. The Leo is probably a nice guy and good to her, but she can't see it. To her he may be too nice, letting her get whatever she wants. If the Leo hasn't set any real boundaries, this could be the source of the issue. He needs to start putting his foot down and saying, "No" when necessary. Otherwise she'll continue complaining and testing him.
Does the Sag also work? From how it sounds, she complain because she doesn't respect the Leo. She doesn't respect the Leo because he doesn't stand up to her. The Leo basically giving the Sag whatever she wants and probably hasn't figured out how to say "No". As a result she continues to be on bad behavior because internally she doesn't trust him as a man.
I'd imagine that this issue goes well into their relationship. The Leo is probably a nice guy and good to her, but she can't see it. To her he may be too nice, letting her get whatever she wants. If the Leo hasn't set any real boundaries, this could be the source of the issue. He needs to start putting his foot down and saying, "No" when necessary. Otherwise she'll continue complaining and testing him.
Posted by Chuckcemyeah, OP's friend sounds like a real sweet guy.
Having a child at that age when clearly neither of them are financially ready to support one will obviously put strain on the relationship. Relationships don't just magically get better when children are introduced. If he's working two jobs to make ends meet and she's still unhappy, then there's a bigger underlying issue.
Does the Sag also work? From how it sounds, she complain because she doesn't respect the Leo. She doesn't respect the Leo because he doesn't stand up to her. The Leo basically giving the Sag whatever she wants and probably hasn't figured out how to say "No". As a result she continues to be on bad behavior because internally she doesn't trust him as a man.
I'd imagine that this issue goes well into their relationship. The Leo is probably a nice guy and good to her, but she can't see it. To her he may be too nice, letting her get whatever she wants. If the Leo hasn't set any real boundaries, this could be the source of the issue. He needs to start putting his foot down and saying, "No" when necessary. Otherwise she'll continue complaining and testing him.
and the girl is very demanding. the type that needs a man to tell her to stfu. and make her cry. and they fight. and she will run away and crying to her momma and poppa that he is soooo mean!!!
and realize later that men like him are rare and she should cherish it.
Posted by lisabethur8Yep, sounds about right.Posted by Chuckcemyeah, OP's friend sounds like a real sweet guy.
Having a child at that age when clearly neither of them are financially ready to support one will obviously put strain on the relationship. Relationships don't just magically get better when children are introduced. If he's working two jobs to make ends meet and she's still unhappy, then there's a bigger underlying issue.
Does the Sag also work? From how it sounds, she complain because she doesn't respect the Leo. She doesn't respect the Leo because he doesn't stand up to her. The Leo basically giving the Sag whatever she wants and probably hasn't figured out how to say "No". As a result she continues to be on bad behavior because internally she doesn't trust him as a man.
I'd imagine that this issue goes well into their relationship. The Leo is probably a nice guy and good to her, but she can't see it. To her he may be too nice, letting her get whatever she wants. If the Leo hasn't set any real boundaries, this could be the source of the issue. He needs to start putting his foot down and saying, "No" when necessary. Otherwise she'll continue complaining and testing him.
and the girl is very demanding. the type that needs a man to tell her to stfu. and make her cry. and they fight. and she will run away and crying to her momma and poppa that he is soooo mean!!!
and realize later that men like him are rare and she should cherish it.click to expand
Posted by Chuckcemthat's exactly what i told him and all he said is i will try he also didn't mention to her that he had suicidal thoughts.
Having a child at that age when clearly neither of them are financially ready to support one will obviously put strain on the relationship. Relationships don't just magically get better when children are introduced. If he's working two jobs to make ends meet and she's still unhappy, then there's a bigger underlying issue.
Does the Sag also work? From how it sounds, she complain because she doesn't respect the Leo. She doesn't respect the Leo because he doesn't stand up to her. The Leo basically giving the Sag whatever she wants and probably hasn't figured out how to say "No". As a result she continues to be on bad behavior because internally she doesn't trust him as a man.
I'd imagine that this issue goes well into their relationship. The Leo is probably a nice guy and good to her, but she can't see it. To her he may be too nice, letting her get whatever she wants. If the Leo hasn't set any real boundaries, this could be the source of the issue. He needs to start putting his foot down and saying, "No" when necessary. Otherwise she'll continue complaining and testing him.
I knew a leo and sagg couple. He was the leo and she was the sagg. She demanded he do everythinggg for her, he was miserable. He was never good enough for her, there was always something wrong. The sagg lived with my friend and when i would visit sometimes the leo would be coming over trying to sneak in her window because she wasn't responding to him. She made him cra-zy. It was so sad to watch because he was the most lovable guy and just couldn't have her be mad at him, he would of done anything for her.
They recently broke up and i hear the sagg is trying to get back together with him but i think the leo finally realized he could do better.
They recently broke up and i hear the sagg is trying to get back together with him but i think the leo finally realized he could do better.
Posted by dewiklaessen26It's because he doesn't know what that means. It may not hit him until he's in a REALLY bad place (worse than he is now) or she decides to leave him for another man (or just in general). He may be depressed now, but he'll feel much worse if she ups and leave him with their kid.Posted by Chuckcemthat's exactly what i told him and all he said is i will try he also didn't mention to her that he had suicidal thoughts.
Having a child at that age when clearly neither of them are financially ready to support one will obviously put strain on the relationship. Relationships don't just magically get better when children are introduced. If he's working two jobs to make ends meet and she's still unhappy, then there's a bigger underlying issue.
Does the Sag also work? From how it sounds, she complain because she doesn't respect the Leo. She doesn't respect the Leo because he doesn't stand up to her. The Leo basically giving the Sag whatever she wants and probably hasn't figured out how to say "No". As a result she continues to be on bad behavior because internally she doesn't trust him as a man.
I'd imagine that this issue goes well into their relationship. The Leo is probably a nice guy and good to her, but she can't see it. To her he may be too nice, letting her get whatever she wants. If the Leo hasn't set any real boundaries, this could be the source of the issue. He needs to start putting his foot down and saying, "No" when necessary. Otherwise she'll continue complaining and testing him.
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He needs to start making moves now to rectify this situation. The unfortunate thing is the male mindset doesn't always absorb advice regarding masculinity when it comes from a woman (even if it's a friend, family member, etc).
Posted by Chuckcemto answer your question she doesn't work and this is his 2th child he's not allowed to see his first child from his Leo ex and he told me he feels empty and has done with life luckily I managed to make him laugh yesterday but I do feel like he's really hanging by a thread.Posted by dewiklaessen26It's because he doesn't know what that means. It may not hit him until he's in a REALLY bad place (worse than he is now) or she decides to leave him for another man (or just in general). He may be depressed now, but he'll feel much worse if she ups and leave him with their kid.Posted by Chuckcemthat's exactly what i told him and all he said is i will try he also didn't mention to her that he had suicidal thoughts.
Having a child at that age when clearly neither of them are financially ready to support one will obviously put strain on the relationship. Relationships don't just magically get better when children are introduced. If he's working two jobs to make ends meet and she's still unhappy, then there's a bigger underlying issue.
Does the Sag also work? From how it sounds, she complain because she doesn't respect the Leo. She doesn't respect the Leo because he doesn't stand up to her. The Leo basically giving the Sag whatever she wants and probably hasn't figured out how to say "No". As a result she continues to be on bad behavior because internally she doesn't trust him as a man.
I'd imagine that this issue goes well into their relationship. The Leo is probably a nice guy and good to her, but she can't see it. To her he may be too nice, letting her get whatever she wants. If the Leo hasn't set any real boundaries, this could be the source of the issue. He needs to start putting his foot down and saying, "No" when necessary. Otherwise she'll continue complaining and testing him.
He needs to start making moves now to rectify this situation. The unfortunate thing is the male mindset doesn't always absorb advice regarding masculinity when it comes from a woman (even if it's a friend, family member, etc).click to expand
he says the fact that I told you means a lot only you and another girl know about this.
not even my girlfriend. he was upset because his also got robbed and had a broken arm he wanted to kill the person who did that to her but I tried to keep him calm he said I don't care anymore if I do or go to jail I will do it. So I said no you need to think how selfish that would be you have a child a girlfriend that loves you and your mom and brother and then he sound very unsure and said 'I hope they do' so I said ofcourse they do
Posted by greylaternI don't talk bad about her I even told him if you don't tell her everything don't expect her to not say anything either. I told him women know more then you think and that he needs to be open and clear with his girlfriend to make things easier for himself. I have a boyfriend btw he's just a very good friend that I care about the thing is I have seen this happen before and another friend is mine committed suicide 3 years ago with a similar situation I tried to contact me the same day he died and I felt guilty that I didn't that maybe could have saved him. I feel the same with him but also because I can see he's such a caring loving person and helps his family alot.Posted by ChuckcemPosted by dewiklaessen26It's because he doesn't know what that means. It may not hit him until he's in a REALLY bad place (worse than he is now) or she decides to leave him for another man (or just in general). He may be depressed now, but he'll feel much worse if she ups and leave him with their kid.Posted by Chuckcemthat's exactly what i told him and all he said is i will try he also didn't mention to her that he had suicidal thoughts.
Having a child at that age when clearly neither of them are financially ready to support one will obviously put strain on the relationship. Relationships don't just magically get better when children are introduced. If he's working two jobs to make ends meet and she's still unhappy, then there's a bigger underlying issue.
Does the Sag also work? From how it sounds, she complain because she doesn't respect the Leo. She doesn't respect the Leo because he doesn't stand up to her. The Leo basically giving the Sag whatever she wants and probably hasn't figured out how to say "No". As a result she continues to be on bad behavior because internally she doesn't trust him as a man.
I'd imagine that this issue goes well into their relationship. The Leo is probably a nice guy and good to her, but she can't see it. To her he may be too nice, letting her get whatever she wants. If the Leo hasn't set any real boundaries, this could be the source of the issue. He needs to start putting his foot down and saying, "No" when necessary. Otherwise she'll continue complaining and testing him.
He needs to start making moves now to rectify this situation. The unfortunate thing is the male mindset doesn't always absorb advice regarding masculinity when it comes from a woman (even if it's a friend, family member, etc).
Which is why you needed to relate to him in masculine terms. So again. Bad mouthing her isn't going to fix the situation just put more stress on him and he is going to push away, wall up, or she is going to find out take you as a threat and force you out of the picture.
I went though something very similar to his situation. So I'm giving you advice to be delivered in away that I wish someone had for me. He is sacrificing himself for his family because that is the kind of guy he is and what he thinks he should do period. So undermine/question that logic. If he does this and burns himself out who will take care of his baby and family when he can not anymore?? All that effort will be wasted. With 2 jobs and a baby, were is the time with her to maintain and reestablish that connection a relationship needs? With that Libra moon placement that is really important. Seriously you don't even need astrology for this. It's basic relationship and psychology 101 stuff. Relate to him from his shoes and point of view not yours. That way he sees you understand and your words will carry more weight.
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he needs to take time together with his girlfriend I did tell him he just tells me that the jobs don't earn that much that's why he has 2 but every day he comes home he's tired and she starts to complain. Same for another Sagittarius who had an aquarius with Libra moon he said she was never satisfied always wanted more and because of that he was done because she didn't want to put an effort in things or work
Posted by greylaternTruth.Posted by ChuckcemPosted by dewiklaessen26It's because he doesn't know what that means. It may not hit him until he's in a REALLY bad place (worse than he is now) or she decides to leave him for another man (or just in general). He may be depressed now, but he'll feel much worse if she ups and leave him with their kid.Posted by Chuckcemthat's exactly what i told him and all he said is i will try he also didn't mention to her that he had suicidal thoughts.
Having a child at that age when clearly neither of them are financially ready to support one will obviously put strain on the relationship. Relationships don't just magically get better when children are introduced. If he's working two jobs to make ends meet and she's still unhappy, then there's a bigger underlying issue.
Does the Sag also work? From how it sounds, she complain because she doesn't respect the Leo. She doesn't respect the Leo because he doesn't stand up to her. The Leo basically giving the Sag whatever she wants and probably hasn't figured out how to say "No". As a result she continues to be on bad behavior because internally she doesn't trust him as a man.
I'd imagine that this issue goes well into their relationship. The Leo is probably a nice guy and good to her, but she can't see it. To her he may be too nice, letting her get whatever she wants. If the Leo hasn't set any real boundaries, this could be the source of the issue. He needs to start putting his foot down and saying, "No" when necessary. Otherwise she'll continue complaining and testing him.
He needs to start making moves now to rectify this situation. The unfortunate thing is the male mindset doesn't always absorb advice regarding masculinity when it comes from a woman (even if it's a friend, family member, etc).
Which is why you needed to relate to him in masculine terms. So again. Bad mouthing her isn't going to fix the situation just put more stress on him and he is going to push away, wall up, or she is going to find out take you as a threat and force you out of the picture.
I went though something very similar to his situation. So I'm giving you advice to be delivered in away that I wish someone had for me. He is sacrificing himself for his family because that is the kind of guy he is and what he thinks he should do period. So undermine/question that logic. If he does this and burns himself out who will take care of his baby and family when he can not anymore?? All that effort will be wasted. With 2 jobs and a baby, were is the time with her to maintain and reestablish that connection a relationship needs? With that Libra moon placement that is really important. Seriously you don't even need astrology for this. It's basic relationship and psychology 101 stuff. Relate to him from his shoes and point of view not yours. That way he sees you understand and your words will carry more weight.
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Posted by dewiklaessen26I'm going to have to agree with @greylantern, try communicating with him in a way that he'll understand. If he winds up killing himself or doing something stupid, where will that leave his child if he's the current bread winner? He needs to see that his current situation is a drain on him, which is bad for everyone if he goes down.Posted by Chuckcemto answer your question she doesn't work and this is his 2th child he's not allowed to see his first child from his Leo ex and he told me he feels empty and has done with life luckily I managed to make him laugh yesterday but I do feel like he's really hanging by a thread.Posted by dewiklaessen26It's because he doesn't know what that means. It may not hit him until he's in a REALLY bad place (worse than he is now) or she decides to leave him for another man (or just in general). He may be depressed now, but he'll feel much worse if she ups and leave him with their kid.Posted by Chuckcemthat's exactly what i told him and all he said is i will try he also didn't mention to her that he had suicidal thoughts.
Having a child at that age when clearly neither of them are financially ready to support one will obviously put strain on the relationship. Relationships don't just magically get better when children are introduced. If he's working two jobs to make ends meet and she's still unhappy, then there's a bigger underlying issue.
Does the Sag also work? From how it sounds, she complain because she doesn't respect the Leo. She doesn't respect the Leo because he doesn't stand up to her. The Leo basically giving the Sag whatever she wants and probably hasn't figured out how to say "No". As a result she continues to be on bad behavior because internally she doesn't trust him as a man.
I'd imagine that this issue goes well into their relationship. The Leo is probably a nice guy and good to her, but she can't see it. To her he may be too nice, letting her get whatever she wants. If the Leo hasn't set any real boundaries, this could be the source of the issue. He needs to start putting his foot down and saying, "No" when necessary. Otherwise she'll continue complaining and testing him.
He needs to start making moves now to rectify this situation. The unfortunate thing is the male mindset doesn't always absorb advice regarding masculinity when it comes from a woman (even if it's a friend, family member, etc).
he says the fact that I told you means a lot only you and another girl know about this.
not even my girlfriend. he was upset because his also got robbed and had a broken arm he wanted to kill the person who did that to her but I tried to keep him calm he said I don't care anymore if I do or go to jail I will do it. So I said no you need to think how selfish that would be you have a child a girlfriend that loves you and your mom and brother and then he sound very unsure and said 'I hope they do' so I said ofcourse they do
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He should definitely talk to someone about these issues, preferably a professional. You can't fix this situation for him. Unfortunately he's dug himself into a hole and only he can pull himself out of it.
Posted by dewiklaessen26she doesn't work and she wants to have a child? well, she doesn't have to work to have a child, but if he's not rich, it doesn't look good. 😢Posted by Chuckcemto answer your question she doesn't work and this is his 2th child he's not allowed to see his first child from his Leo ex and he told me he feels empty and has done with life luckily I managed to make him laugh yesterday but I do feel like he's really hanging by a thread.Posted by dewiklaessen26It's because he doesn't know what that means. It may not hit him until he's in a REALLY bad place (worse than he is now) or she decides to leave him for another man (or just in general). He may be depressed now, but he'll feel much worse if she ups and leave him with their kid.Posted by Chuckcemthat's exactly what i told him and all he said is i will try he also didn't mention to her that he had suicidal thoughts.
Having a child at that age when clearly neither of them are financially ready to support one will obviously put strain on the relationship. Relationships don't just magically get better when children are introduced. If he's working two jobs to make ends meet and she's still unhappy, then there's a bigger underlying issue.
Does the Sag also work? From how it sounds, she complain because she doesn't respect the Leo. She doesn't respect the Leo because he doesn't stand up to her. The Leo basically giving the Sag whatever she wants and probably hasn't figured out how to say "No". As a result she continues to be on bad behavior because internally she doesn't trust him as a man.
I'd imagine that this issue goes well into their relationship. The Leo is probably a nice guy and good to her, but she can't see it. To her he may be too nice, letting her get whatever she wants. If the Leo hasn't set any real boundaries, this could be the source of the issue. He needs to start putting his foot down and saying, "No" when necessary. Otherwise she'll continue complaining and testing him.
He needs to start making moves now to rectify this situation. The unfortunate thing is the male mindset doesn't always absorb advice regarding masculinity when it comes from a woman (even if it's a friend, family member, etc).
he says the fact that I told you means a lot only you and another girl know about this.
not even my girlfriend. he was upset because his also got robbed and had a broken arm he wanted to kill the person who did that to her but I tried to keep him calm he said I don't care anymore if I do or go to jail I will do it. So I said no you need to think how selfish that would be you have a child a girlfriend that loves you and your mom and brother and then he sound very unsure and said 'I hope they do' so I said ofcourse they do
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let us know what's up with him and her cause they are gonna go through alot of hardship. maybe advise him to get some government assistant ....extra money for baby food and food for them, and plus some money assistance. government helps with supplements.
Posted by greylaternhello greylantern.. i sent you inbox message. i hope you read it. thank you
A better question. What or how would you like to change this. Though her or him?
Posted by UnicornSagHis ex did him wrong this child he has now is with his current girlfriend, i don't talk bad about her i also said he should understand that he is not straight enough to her
Sags can be demanding and disrespectful to partners who are too good to them. It stems from simple lack of emotions for the person in question and for not knowing how bad people can be. Once you get mistreated you learn to respect a lot more a good person. But honestly when you don't love someone you won't ever get to respect them the way they deserve and ti sounds like that situation to me at least. What you can do in this situation is to be a moral support to him and keep him from falling apart and reaching to his suicidal thoughts. Don't do it by talking bad about her tho, it can only put him away from you as well and it will do more bad to him, so if you mean him good try to keep him around. Why isn't he allowed to see his children? That part I didn't get really. If he's such good guy how come he can't see his children?
Posted by lisabethur8He has enough money but she is never satisfied i'm gonna talk to him todayPosted by dewiklaessen26she doesn't work and she wants to have a child? well, she doesn't have to work to have a child, but if he's not rich, it doesn't look good. 😢Posted by Chuckcemto answer your question she doesn't work and this is his 2th child he's not allowed to see his first child from his Leo ex and he told me he feels empty and has done with life luckily I managed to make him laugh yesterday but I do feel like he's really hanging by a thread.Posted by dewiklaessen26It's because he doesn't know what that means. It may not hit him until he's in a REALLY bad place (worse than he is now) or she decides to leave him for another man (or just in general). He may be depressed now, but he'll feel much worse if she ups and leave him with their kid.Posted by Chuckcemthat's exactly what i told him and all he said is i will try he also didn't mention to her that he had suicidal thoughts.
Having a child at that age when clearly neither of them are financially ready to support one will obviously put strain on the relationship. Relationships don't just magically get better when children are introduced. If he's working two jobs to make ends meet and she's still unhappy, then there's a bigger underlying issue.
Does the Sag also work? From how it sounds, she complain because she doesn't respect the Leo. She doesn't respect the Leo because he doesn't stand up to her. The Leo basically giving the Sag whatever she wants and probably hasn't figured out how to say "No". As a result she continues to be on bad behavior because internally she doesn't trust him as a man.
I'd imagine that this issue goes well into their relationship. The Leo is probably a nice guy and good to her, but she can't see it. To her he may be too nice, letting her get whatever she wants. If the Leo hasn't set any real boundaries, this could be the source of the issue. He needs to start putting his foot down and saying, "No" when necessary. Otherwise she'll continue complaining and testing him.
He needs to start making moves now to rectify this situation. The unfortunate thing is the male mindset doesn't always absorb advice regarding masculinity when it comes from a woman (even if it's a friend, family member, etc).
he says the fact that I told you means a lot only you and another girl know about this.
not even my girlfriend. he was upset because his also got robbed and had a broken arm he wanted to kill the person who did that to her but I tried to keep him calm he said I don't care anymore if I do or go to jail I will do it. So I said no you need to think how selfish that would be you have a child a girlfriend that loves you and your mom and brother and then he sound very unsure and said 'I hope they do' so I said ofcourse they do
let us know what's up with him and her cause they are gonna go through alot of hardship. maybe advise him to get some government assistant ....extra money for baby food and food for them, and plus some money assistance. government helps with supplements.click to expand
Posted by dewiklaessen26she needs to get a job/career to make her satisfied.Posted by lisabethur8He has enough money but she is never satisfied i'm gonna talk to him todayPosted by dewiklaessen26she doesn't work and she wants to have a child? well, she doesn't have to work to have a child, but if he's not rich, it doesn't look good. 😢Posted by Chuckcemto answer your question she doesn't work and this is his 2th child he's not allowed to see his first child from his Leo ex and he told me he feels empty and has done with life luckily I managed to make him laugh yesterday but I do feel like he's really hanging by a thread.Posted by dewiklaessen26It's because he doesn't know what that means. It may not hit him until he's in a REALLY bad place (worse than he is now) or she decides to leave him for another man (or just in general). He may be depressed now, but he'll feel much worse if she ups and leave him with their kid.Posted by Chuckcemthat's exactly what i told him and all he said is i will try he also didn't mention to her that he had suicidal thoughts.
Having a child at that age when clearly neither of them are financially ready to support one will obviously put strain on the relationship. Relationships don't just magically get better when children are introduced. If he's working two jobs to make ends meet and she's still unhappy, then there's a bigger underlying issue.
Does the Sag also work? From how it sounds, she complain because she doesn't respect the Leo. She doesn't respect the Leo because he doesn't stand up to her. The Leo basically giving the Sag whatever she wants and probably hasn't figured out how to say "No". As a result she continues to be on bad behavior because internally she doesn't trust him as a man.
I'd imagine that this issue goes well into their relationship. The Leo is probably a nice guy and good to her, but she can't see it. To her he may be too nice, letting her get whatever she wants. If the Leo hasn't set any real boundaries, this could be the source of the issue. He needs to start putting his foot down and saying, "No" when necessary. Otherwise she'll continue complaining and testing him.
He needs to start making moves now to rectify this situation. The unfortunate thing is the male mindset doesn't always absorb advice regarding masculinity when it comes from a woman (even if it's a friend, family member, etc).
he says the fact that I told you means a lot only you and another girl know about this.
not even my girlfriend. he was upset because his also got robbed and had a broken arm he wanted to kill the person who did that to her but I tried to keep him calm he said I don't care anymore if I do or go to jail I will do it. So I said no you need to think how selfish that would be you have a child a girlfriend that loves you and your mom and brother and then he sound very unsure and said 'I hope they do' so I said ofcourse they do
let us know what's up with him and her cause they are gonna go through alot of hardship. maybe advise him to get some government assistant ....extra money for baby food and food for them, and plus some money assistance. government helps with supplements.
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that'll keep her busy. FULL time too, extra shifts...so she has no time to sulk and get unsatisfied.
the most unsatisfied peeps need FULL Time, with extra overtime to keep them busy so they dont get cray cray
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Just wondering how Leos cope with traumatic events as children. Did you internalize hurt and pain? And did it make you have emotional issues? What could your parents have done differently?
He comes home one Sunday (about a month ago) and says I have to talk to you later. When later comes around he tells me he will tell me on my birthday.
What do you think it may be
Will update you guys on March 26
He sends me texts messages with music just about every 2 weeks. When I respond, he vanishes... replies "I'm still working non-stop". (if you recall... that is why he said we couldn't see each other anymore)
Like, why message me and then leave me on r
Hello Astrology lovers!
I'am new in this site and I really need help. I'am a Leo Sun and Cancer Rising, Moon, Venus, Mars also Virgo Mercury and I have a crush on two guys at the same time. The first one is Leo Sun, Pisces Moon, Leo Venus, Aquarius Mars
what do you expect from your partner in terms of loyalty ,
can they remain friends with their exes?
if you find out that your partner or someone u r dating exclusively is talking and still being close friends to their ex...
how would you ta
My Leo used to say he was weird looking for someone weird also.. Of course he’s called me weird and said he liked it 😂 but he’s not? What makes you Leo’s weird? I don’t get it?
Is this his way of marking territory—? lol. Ok well he said yes when I asked him... and He did it again tonight hah! And it was massive . Tempted to post a photo... the thing is, he lets me go out and dance ... n yes potentially with other men ( Latino)
? Do you tell them it won’t work out? Do you silent treatment them. Do you create some stories? Insights would be much appreciated esp on this Valentine’s Day..Y_Y
yeah i need to know this because at first i was out partying every night and ive now realised that didn't really help the scenario at all since when im alone i feel terribly empty.
i don't know, this is annoying i hate this feeling and it's the reason wh
..so we been dating for nearly a couple of months
i know its short but he's the giver type...def a giver type...things. spending, etc etc
so now its valentines day coming up. we have not talked about it at all.
what should i do for him?
we are
First, how is the lunar eclipse affecting you? Where is Leo in your chart??
Are you feeling better or worse?
Also if you have any leo placement, is it easy for you to SEE things? Is it easy for you to shed light on everything? Do you audomatically
Do u need drama to keep the fire burning! ? What kind of things ignite your passion?
And if you do, how do you deal with it? Do you voice out your feelings or become cold. Or shut down? Or do you cause a scene ? ....
Every damn time I am drawn to someone, whether romantic or not, they end up being a Leo. I don't understand why but I love them.
Just can't quite put my finger on why they are so freaking irresistible! Can someone explain the Leo charm?! Lol
I got to thinking about this due this interview, I was watching this and think what sign could be so selfless, so brave, so generous and it turns out she was a leo! of course :D :D
crab and leo, the sun and moon baby
https://youtu.be/V3AeBWJujg8
So I’ve been broken up with my ex aqua guy for 3 months. His fault. During this time we’ve tried to work on it and I’ll give him another chance and he’ll do something to fuck it up again. We argued off and on all this time. For the past month was bad and
When I was younger I would burn bridges with those I felt took me for granted. As I've aged I've tried not to do that (especially in terms of business) because I choose to not take people too seriously. However I have found that some people are simply tox
Are we roaming the free wild?
I'm getting vanilla chai tea from Starbucks first and foremost!
He brought me to his best friend bday celebration last weekend and the next day he said am super clumsy when am drunk, touchy to almost everyone ( I guess am hugging or stay too close to his friends ). I did said sorry and promises not to do it anymore bu
I know this post has already been put up credits to @Chuckcem, I thought I'd do one on the female perspective of things. So, feel free to ask anything and I'll try my best to be as articulate as possible. I'm quite bored so... haha 🙋🏻
She is venus in scorpio and mars in leo he has mars in libra and venus in cancer.
he has his moon in the 8th house and venus and mercury i says he will be dead by 26 so i tell hem don't be crazy stop talking like that and then he says. No it's the truth i just know