Hello, im new to the forum but have been looking on here regulary and its a great board. Thought id post something at last!
I am a Leo woman (30/07/88) and my boyfriend of 2 months is also a Leo (21/08/83) we met and straight away hit it off, we laugh at each others jokes, are affectionate and have spent alot of time together from day one. Now the problem is, he has now gone a bit off with me, he went away for a week with the lads and i only heard from him twice which i was a little annoyed with but accepted as he was having a good time iwth his friends, i saw him last night when he got back and although he was giving me cuddles and saying he missed me, i sensed something was wrong, being a man when i asked him he said "everythings fine, stop worrying." I havent heard from him today, and apart from the week he was away we were constiently texting each other. Im not sure whats wrong, everything seemed perfect and we both said we'd been hurt in the past and his been cheated on and i promised him i would never hurt him. He said he thought the world of me after a few weeks of knowing him and i told him likewise. We havent said the L word yet and i was starting to let my guard down and let him into my heart but that guards now gone up again. Being Leo's i guess we're both too proud.
Anyway not sure what im asking, but i guess is this common for a leo man, to get so close then pull back? Or has he just all of a sudden gone off me? Confused!
it's hard to say really. not enough info for me to make an informed guess.
sounds to me like his mind is still on vacation with his friends. i know i get a bit more detached when my life gets a little more exciting and i'm having more fun than usual. also, if i'm experiencing an increase in admirers and/or attention then it tends to inflate the ego a bit. it doesn't mean i'm cheating, nor do i intend to do so, but it kind of gives me a ''high'' and it can take a little while to ''come down''. maybe while he was off with the boys, and especially if most or all are of the bachelor variety, they encountered many women. now, don't get all stressed out about it. i'm a fellow leo and i realize this knowledge can hit that insecure spot invoking jealousy and possessiveness. the truth is that it is a fact we must accept. others will be attracted to our mates just as we are attracted to others as well. it's the choices we make. do u trust him? that's what it boils down to.
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I am a Leo woman (30/07/88) and my boyfriend of 2 months is also a Leo (21/08/83) we met and straight away hit it off, we laugh at each others jokes, are affectionate and have spent alot of time together from day one. Now the problem is, he has now gone a bit off with me, he went away for a week with the lads and i only heard from him twice which i was a little annoyed with but accepted as he was having a good time iwth his friends, i saw him last night when he got back and although he was giving me cuddles and saying he missed me, i sensed something was wrong, being a man when i asked him he said "everythings fine, stop worrying." I havent heard from him today, and apart from the week he was away we were constiently texting each other. Im not sure whats wrong, everything seemed perfect and we both said we'd been hurt in the past and his been cheated on and i promised him i would never hurt him. He said he thought the world of me after a few weeks of knowing him and i told him likewise. We havent said the L word yet and i was starting to let my guard down and let him into my heart but that guards now gone up again. Being Leo's i guess we're both too proud.
Anyway not sure what im asking, but i guess is this common for a leo man, to get so close then pull back? Or has he just all of a sudden gone off me? Confused!