Leo Man, keeps dissapearing

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Soooo Im engaged to this wonderful leo man, (we haven't been together that long) and I am crazy for him. We were living together at one point, then a few weeks ago he moved out of state, for a job opportunity, so we decided to give the long distance thing a try. Plan was, for either me to move with him once he settled in (im a single mother to a 7 year old boy) so i cant just up and leave. Or, if things dint work out for him, he would come back. A few weeks ago, he proposed, and we plan on marrying around October. Anyways, this man, has taken it upon himself, to be a father figure for my son, we help each other out both emotionally, financially in every way possible. But every so often he dissapears. Hes done this many times before. Last time I confronted him, he told me that this is his way of coping. He works many hours, and the way he copes with it all, is taking some time where his mind can be blank. Im not sure what to do at this point. I need some tips lol. I love this man, but at the same time, when is it enough? BTW im a scorpio woman and hes a Leo man.
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Posted by veronik01

Soooo Im engaged to this wonderful leo man, (we haven't been together that long) and I am crazy for him. We were living together at one point, then a few weeks ago he moved out of state, for a job opportunity, so we decided to give the long distance thing a try. Plan was, for either me to move with him once he settled in (im a single mother to a 7 year old boy) so i cant just up and leave. Or, if things dint work out for him, he would come back. A few weeks ago, he proposed, and we plan on marrying around October. Anyways, this man, has taken it upon himself, to be a father figure for my son, we help each other out both emotionally, financially in every way possible. But every so often he dissapears. Hes done this many times before. Last time I confronted him, he told me that this is his way of coping. He works many hours, and the way he copes with it all, is taking some time where his mind can be blank. Im not sure what to do at this point. I need some tips lol. I love this man, but at the same time, when is it enough? BTW im a scorpio woman and hes a Leo man.


My question is about helping each other financially. How does this go?
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Posted by veronik01
Posted by LadyNeptune

If he’s gonna be a father figure to your kid and marry you, he can’t just check out from the relationship and being a dad. Make sure he understands this before you commit to a life with him.

Yes, thank you. We really need to talk before i make any type of decision.
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I think it also depends on what kind of disappearance.

If its one of these things where he lets you know AHEAD OF TIME, like babe am super exhausted from deadlines all week. Gonna crash out hard tonight and take tomorrow as a personal day. Will call you sunday.

Then thats fine. He communicated with you and didn't you ghost you and come back with an apology tour. But if he is disappearing without pre-warning you, yeah thats not fun.
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Ok just read about the gambling problem. When you say "we help each other out both emotionally, financially in every way possible".... I hope that doesn't mean your financing his gambling addiction.

did someone i blocked quote this

cause ummmm i didn't nothing about gambling
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He is shady. Honestly these days you should not show a man you love them more than they love you. It gets to their heads or some shit. You deserve a more consistent man in your and your kid's life. This is probably why parents get more along with other parents, there's usually that mutual understanding that you just can't checkout for a while whenever you want without warning.