Leo man: mixed signals? Going slow? or confused?

I am a libra woman who seems to be getting entangled with her first leo man & I am clueless!! I met this man a few weeks ago & since he has called me almost every day. We have gotten together 6 or 7 times mostly just talking & getting to know one another. Right from the start he was asking me questions like if I had been married, have kids, what my family was like, how many siblings...etc. He also made it a point to talk about how he has never been married. This was all in the first few days we met which seemed a little strange to me, but I was okay with it. He also has been very complimentary on my appearance and whatnot again from the get go. Then on our 5 or 6 "date" he springs on me immediately how he never wants to get married (we had barely kissed goodnight at this point). Later in the same evening he brings up that if he ever decides to get married &/ or have kids.... blah, blah, blah. We did end up kissing for awhile that night (I initiated) & he made a big statement about how he wants to take things slow & he thinks I am really cool & he doesn't want to screw up a potential great friendship. He said he has learned from his past that things are just better when you go really slow. I agreed with him & said that maybe we should just pursue a friendship & quit this nonsense. He then said he would not be the one to make that call. In the middle of all this we discussed our length of being single - he says he broke up w/ a girl who he was in a (what sounded like an on again-off again) relationship of 7 years just 6 months ago but he said they should have broken up a year earlier - she left him bc she wanted to get married & he didn't. I myself have been pretty much single for 3 years. We did not go any further than making out & he left giving me a passionate kiss goodnight. I was left feeling confused thinking about the yellow flags presented. 3 days later we got together again, it took him awhile to warm up to touching me & I had to initiate the first kiss. Last night we went on a bike ride & wound up going to see some friends of his & then he ended the evening w/ just a hug no kiss. 30 minutes later he calls to say goodnight. He isn't asking me out for weekend dates yet or really dates in advance. I really like this guy, but I don't get it. Going slow is where I am at, but this feels like mixed signals. Is this typical Leo behavior if he is really interested? Or is he just playing w/me? I am confused.

Wow... I am had and am having the same experience except, he told me that he has a child, is 32 years old and never been married. He told me he proposed to two women. He proposed to his baby's mother and she said no. Turned out she had another man. He said the last female burned him for his heart and money. He told me that he doesn't think he is going to propose to anyone anymore. He just told me that he is afraid that we have different life style s. He also kept pressing the importance of a sexual relationship. And yes, I initiated the physical contact because you could look at him and tell that was what he wanted. I pissed this Leo man off though lol *snickers*. He came up to me at a Hip Hop event though. So... Im confused.

I don't know what to tell you. I am not good at Leo men myself. They want something and then they don't. Virgos let you know if we want you and we don't often play games. We want you to know how great we are and how great we feel you are. Leos... I don't know if I will ever figure them out. It is hard not to be attracted to certain ones. Leo men are strong, often articulate, sexy, strong, artistic however, they are insensative and cannot take criticism well. They don't want to work for anything... Many feel that you owe them. I might give it a try next week. I need to weigh the positives and the negatives first.

I forgot to mention that he told me that he was celibate at first. What a liar... Lol... "I'm celibate so, I am not going to give it away tonight." Then after kissing he said, "You are winning for not trying to get me in bed on the first night."

I just spent a couple of hours w/ him on a long walk talking. He asked me what I was doing later & truth be known, I have a date w/ someone else... I didn't tell him that, I just told him I had plans w/ a friend. This time he hugged me for a long time and then kissed me on the neck as he departed. I told him I really like getting to know him this way - you know slowly w/out diving into bed together. So I keep trying to give him praise and encouragement. And slow is one thing, but this hot-cold behavior is screwing with me.

As a libra, we are all about romance and enjoying moments... this is enjoyable most of the time but sometimes I feel like there might be some sort of alterior motive 'cause I cannot think of any other man who has pursued me so sheepishly before. It just down right confusing the heck out of me. I just don't know what to do to step it up a bit without killing it. I think if we had sex right now, it would mess it up - but I feel it needs to move out of the friend twighlight zone soon or I'm gonna move on.

MsVirgo - I think you should back off as I can say that when I initiate contact w/ my Leo he is reluctantly responsive... but when he comes calling, I can miss a call and he will call again and again until he gets me... I'm not playing hard to get, but I'm not being really easy either... What I am starting to do is fill up my schedule w/ other people and things so that I really am busy when he calls last minute in hopes that he will get that my time is valuable and he better get on my schedule or miss out. Make him think you have other options (as I am sure you do).