Leo Man Problems

Short story...

I am an Aries woman dating/fwb relationship with a older leo man who is 8 years my senior and it was beautiful at first. He did all the chasing( gifts, breakfast in bed, full body massages and etc.) and waited 4 months until I was ready to take the next step, as I only slept with one other person. We continued to go out once or twice a week and talked daily. But last week while I was at his house, he asked if I was catching any feelings for him. I got defensive so I said no, why would you ask that? He mentioned something about my body language is showing differently? I asked what did he want from me, he said he didn't know how to answer that question. I started to leave, but he kinda begged me to stay. That night, he texted me an aries/leo compatible site stating aries was suppose to be his perfect match? Couple days after he mentions something about meeting my friends, I said I didn't think you wanted to meet my friends. He said he was just joking & if we so happen to be at the same place then he would meet them? But for the past four days I haven't heard from him. I texted him yesterday "hey, just thinking of you" and nothing? I'm so confused on what I've done? Did I lose him for good? I hope not because I do really like him... Help please

This might be your clue:

.....he asked if I was catching any feelings for him. ......... I said no.....

Why in the world you didn't just answer honestly is beyond me. Drama!

i agree with lunarmaiden.. Him asking you if you were catching feelings for him should have been a good indication that he wanted more with you. The fact that he even showed you an aries/leo compatibility article was the icing on the cake that he wants to actually be with you. I think he got the feeling that you were rejecting him and so hes probably trying to move on or something.

The reason why I didn't say yes was because of his tone when he asked the question... I felt as if he didnt feel the same so I denied my feelings for him... I tend to over analyze every situation to keep from getting hurt and/or feeling foolish

Posted by Ariessoul3
The reason why I didn't say yes was because of his tone when he asked the question... I felt as if he didnt feel the same so I denied my feelings for him... I tend to over analyze every situation to keep from getting hurt and/or feeling foolish

You should always go by your gut feelings. People can say anything. I noticed that sometimes Leos can get emotionally manipulative. Once they know that you have feelings for them then they know that you can be played with. So, don't feel that bad about it.

No I definitely don't think you lost him for good but I do think he feels rejected and you may have hurt his pride a little bit. He'll come back around and when he does, you should tell him how you really feel. Good luck. 🙂