Leo woman and Libra man break up

Hey guys,

I am new here and I need a couple of advice on my breakup with this libra.

We met on Tinder and talked for a few weeks before meeting. On our first date we clicked and decided to keep on knowing each other. The next week, we started dating. Everything was good until I saw that he was wishy-washy about us. I gave him space and we eventually went back together. I introduced him to my mother and he was happy about it, he talked to his parents about me and I met his friends, everything was fine.

Fast forward, this week, he was stressed out because we had to have an STD test and he was really annoying. Thursday he was at my house, Friday we went to do the test, and we had an argument in the hospital. Initially my question is was :" do you want to be with me" but he took it as a "do you love me?" Now, we have been together for over a month, I know it's not about love but about being in the relationship. So he said he did not know. So I got angry and stoped talking for 3 hours during which he was trying to get me to talk or to kiss me...

We went back home and he said he thought it was best for us to end here because he needed some space, he needed 0 complication and although he cared about me, he was scared of the future and thought everything would be harder if we stayed in the relationship. I begged and pleaded and he did not budge. I stayed over and next morning he said he would never look back even though he knew the decision was unfair.

During that time, he was either looking at me or looking for elsewhere. He kept saying that I was the nicest girl he has ever been with (he has been with a girl prior to me and that's it), that I was touching...

I don't know what to do or what to think. I know I should move on but it's fresh. I wonder how libra men act, I wonder if he could comeback. I don't know, I am just confused

Posted by CharmGame5
sounds like you two moved too fast imo. He may come back when he's bored.

Co-sign, unfortunately.

I love this match, but it's one of those relationship dances that can really end well, or burn out quite quickly.

Hopefully you get some clarity soon hun, but I think whatever happens just slow it down a tad, and let him come to you.

(If he does come back...which he probably will)...

Maybe you are right. It's fresh I guess and maybe it was that he was not into me. I don't know but I guess it is what it is

Wow, what a jerk. In the future, when you see he is testy, step back and give him some space.

Air signs needs a lot of space.

Next, if in the future he says he needs to end it, be quiet and leave. All the begging gave him the fuel and strength he doesn't typically have to stay away.

Now how to get him back. Go absolutely positively quiet. NO Facebook likes, instagram, calls, texts, nothing disappear.

Thanks! I would not say he is a jerk but I feel like he is cold blooded. I would not have been able to be with somebody even for a second if I did not want to be in a relationship. I see him today and I will give him a letter and try and be pretty for him and try and have a positive conversation as last week I was being tripolar. The situation for the best of me

The situation got the best of me and I am not a crybaby. I am chill like snoop and friends with all of my exes! I even help them with their love lives even though most of them cheated. I don't know why it always happens to me