Leo woman is confusing me a lot and I'm lost

So I've been seeing this leo woman for a while now. We get along great. I'm an aries and she's a leo. Good combination. Now we talk a lot whether it's texting or hanging out. She knows I want her and I do sent her semi naughty messages. She sends me sweet cute messages everyday. She's in her mid 30s and had 4 kids yep she's divorced. I'm in my mid 20s. I do compliment her a lot and all the stuff Leo's like. The problem is that since we've met like 2 weeks ago every weekend she goes to see this other dude like 40 miles down who's in the navy. I don't get it. She likes my compliments and I've initiated a kiss twice. I mean whats going on here? Is she playing the both of us dudes or am I playing myself. She's going down to San Diego again to see him. I like her a lot. I mean she's hot ya I get it but it's her personality that I like. Why is she keep on seeing him everyweek end yet when we hangout she doesn't every mention him. I tried bringing up her divorce and her husband a couple days ago and after like 10 minutes she started another topic. I went with the flow. I don't know whats going on. She calls me mr ram I call her my tigress, and diva and all these names. But within proper context she's not a young girl but a grown woman so I do my best to be a gentleman. She knows I want her bad and I'm a thin line of thread. Leo's please help. I'm lost and cofused and at this point I'm gonna be torn apart.

Bright lights it may be funny but I need a serious answer. It maybe funny to you but to me it's a serious matter. I wish you were in my were in my situation. Perhaps you will be the you'll be asking the same question.

Actually I can't you don't know how bitch women get in Orange County. Where I live. I fret over this because we have such good long conversations and good time when we are together. I don't have a good time with younger women they are not good at having a normal conversation with.

I have game sweety I don't whore myself around.

Posted by BrightLights
I am way older too, but no kids.

I still wouldn't date a man 10 years younger. Maybe just for short term fun.
Men mature slower...

The question is:what can you offer her? And what can she offer you?

^This. You need to realize she has children. They come before you, and always will. If things were to become serious what kind of life could you offer her and her children?

If she's seeing you AND some one else, she's probably weighing her options, or she has no desire to commit to either. Maybe she doesn't want to bring a man into her kids lives. Why not just ask her? You need to think about this from her point of view. Just ask her if she wants a relationship, or where things are going. I generally don't express these things to people, however if they ask I'll usually give them an answer. Even if it's one I know they won't like.