Help me understand what you leos are thinking? I am a Satig w/aqu rising, I've been should you say seeing a leo for about a year now. It been on and off several times. When things start getting to the next step in our relationship out of the blue this other girl he see's is calling my place cusing me out and he is gone for a couple of weeks and then he is back starting all over again with me. The other girl is a Libra. I am about 6 years older than the leo and she is 9 years younger than him. So what is going on? The thing that gets me is that I never call him he is the one that comes to me. He tells me the truth that he is still seeing her if I ask. But he keeps me a secert to her?
I've been through this one, and it isn't really a whole lot of just leo, but it probably is a bit more common of a scenario. This would be the ego-crushing backlash, I believe. Leos like their friends very much, and once an attatchment is formed it is difficult to break off. He could love both of you, he could simply care for both of you, or he could care for both and love one. Frankly, it's probably not wanting to hurt either of you by telling you he doesn't want to be with you but also not being able to be with both of you. My best advice would be to give him an ultimatum, but try to be friends with him if he chooses the other woman, if it would be emotionally sound for you.