Leo's and disappearing act?

This topic was created in the Leo forum by AL4813 on Tuesday, March 31, 2015 and has 11 replies.

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@AL4813
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Good afternoon ladies and gentlemen. I wanted to talk about the disappearing act Leo's are known for. I've read countless stories about how Leo's just vanish into thin air, like they're magicians or some shit.

But I've heard it more with Leo men. We start off all romantic and what not, really romancing the girl with our charm, getting them sweet sugar walls all nice and moist and the we just disappear. Now I will admit that I have pulled the disappearing act before, I had my reasons for it. I feel our disappearing act is a little similar to that of pisces in the sense that we need to "recharge" for a bit.

But this disappearing act can give our loved ones a headache as well.

Have any you Leo's pulled the disappearing act or been accused of?

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@safire
12 Years

A leo man just pulled it on me.. We've been together for some months and had really nice time together last week, he felt more loving and caring than ever before. Suddenly nothing from him for many days. Called him too but it felt like he was forcing himself to talk to me so I haven't since :/ Offered to listen to his worries today because there is clearly something bothering him, but instead I got a reply: "I need to think about this by myself first and then see what and how it affects things, thanks though". Gahh, now I'm just waiting for the "we need to break up" -talk 😢

If you need space just tell me you need space, I need mine as well and it's fine. Feels unfair that I'm being left hanging imagining every possible scenario in my head.. sigh. I have no clue what's going on or when he's gonna let me in on the secret, but I don't want to pressure him either.

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@woodenmeow
13 Years

I am a pisces myself and I do disappear for a bit but not for too long. Only like 3 - 5 days. My friends calling going into deep waters.
My leo has been gone longer than that.

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@woodenmeow
13 Years

SAFire... Sorry you are going through this. I just went through it about 2 months ago. My Leo did the same thing. No reason.. for the break up. Other than him saying that he feels like he should have more feelings for me than he does. He took me on a 2 month emotional roller coaster, then broke it off with me.
Very confusing stuff.

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@woodenmeow
13 Years

@AL4813 -

I agree. As a pisces I understand going into "deep waters" from time to time.
It is really bothering me that I haven't heard from him in 7 weeks.
Previous to our romantic relationship, we had been friends for almost 20 years.
So I lost the boyfriend and my friend. My heart hasn't been able to heal.

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@biosynthesis
11 Years1,000+ PostsAries

Idk..I have never had a leo walk away from me...I think when the feel overwhelmed or smothered, they tend to walk away. I think you guys like it when the other person is independent no? I don't think they do it without reason.

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@safire
12 Years

Looks like in my case I was reading too much into his words. I initiated a conversation with him last night and turns out it was something completely unrelated to me that he was mulling over. He told me it's about work and I offered him some advice and opinions. Today I was invited over for dinner and he seems to be on a great mood, looks like he's back and we're all good, I'm so glad 🙂 This guy's also my good friend, it pains me so much if I see him struggle or disappear.

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@AL4813
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by safire
Looks like in my case I was reading too much into his words. I initiated a conversation with him last night and turns out it was something completely unrelated to me that he was mulling over. He told me it's about work and I offered him some advice and opinions. Today I was invited over for dinner and he seems to be on a great mood, looks like he's back and we're all good, I'm so glad 🙂 This guy's also my good friend, it pains me so much if I see him struggle or disappear.

Im very glad to hear this... Yea sometimes Leo's can be caught up in work related stuff and get a little stressed.. they just don't like to show it.