Long Distance Leo Man...

Hello- I am very new to this but thought I would get the opinion of people that know Leo men THE BEST! Where do I begin?

In February of this year I went to Vegas and met a very outgoing Leo man. We were very drunk and hung out most of the night partying the night away. He ended up staying the night in my hotel room. (What happens in Vegas stays there right?) I thought it was just going to be a "One-night" Vegas affair but he wanted to go to breakfast the next day and hang out for the rest of the day. Then asked to meet up later for another night of fun. I agreed but was very confused by him. When we hung out he mentioned that he has never been to my part of the country and wanted to visit. He lived in Houston and I was in Portland, Oregon. I said he was more than welcome to visit and I'll show him the town. Well, he kept in contact. Calling/texting EVERYDAY and numerous times a day.

I was attracted to his wittiness , sense of adventure, confidence and how into me he seemed. Even though he didn't really express it. The daily calls/texts were enough confirmation at that point.

3 weeks after we met in Vegas. He purchased a non-stop flight to Portland to visit. He stayed at my home and we had a great time. I showed him the best sights of my hometown and he asked if he could come back. I agreed. But I did ask when he was visiting , "Why are you here? To visit Portland, to get to know me better, for the sex" He said I was looking too much into it and he wanted to have a good time. When chatting again before his second visit, I asked him again what his intentions were. He said, "You just need to relax. Take things slow" Of course after hearing that ...it was embarassing and I never brought it up again during our many conversations throughout the days/weeks.

He visited a second time and it was fun. Not as great as the first trip...but still fun. There were some things I started to really notice about my Leo. A- He didn't show me much affection. We never kissed, rarely hugged but we did have sex. That seemed off to me. I even brought that up to him and he said that he had his mind on other things like work and he'll work on it. (He didn't) B- I am very well known in the area. When people I knew approached me (mostly men) to say "Hi" it seemed like he got jealous and then would try to in turn make me jealous by saying "That girl tried hitting on me" etc etc. I don't get jealous that way...knowing that was his intention.

A few weeks later he spent

A few weeks later he spent another $ 600 on a ticket to visit AGAIN. This time things got interesting. I was tired of talking to him EVERYDAY and not showing me much affection but still wanting to be physical. Were these 3 trips to visit REALLY a out of town expensive booty call? I mean he's an attractive man with a great job. Why would you need to travel outside of Houston to find sex?

We went out the night he arrived. I got drunk...like really really drunk. I decided to make him jealous by flirting with a guy at the bar. ALMOST kissing him. We were very close. He freaked out...of course. We came back to my house, he packed up his things and called for a cab to take him to the airport. I begged and pleaded for him to come in. He finally did at 4 a.m. For the rest of the weekend he was LIVID and so upset. After 3 days of apologies (and paying for him throughout the weekend) he finally accepted and said he would never bring it up again.

During his "visits" to the Northwest, I would often pay for his stay. We would go to breakfast...I would pay. Out for drinks..he'd buy a round, I'd buy a round. I guess I felt obligated since he spent so much money on flights coming out. Was that wrong? Some say yes...I don't know. I bought a trip to finally see his world in Texas. I was excited to see if he was "hiding" things there or what he was all about. Most of the time we'd communicate it would be on his watch. He'd call me. I'd rarely call him. But when I did... he was answer only about 50% of the time.

Meanwhile... the UNTHINKABLE happened. I got pregnant. My Leo lived all the way across the country and I was now with his child. The man that still didn't show me much affection but made an effort to call/text and communicate with me daily. I couldn't keep it. He was fine with that. I didn't want to have a child with a man whom I really didn't know well and couldn't even kiss me without asking for it. Not to mention that he lived so far away. So, the procedure cost $ 500. He was joking with me and saying he wasn't going to pay half. I told him to do the math on child support and let me know which one seems more appealing. He thought that was funny...I didn't. That was a very rough month in our long distance friendship. He tried to come up...but couldn't get away from work. So I went through everything myself but he called me every two hours or so to check up on me. I did appreciate that. When I did call..he answered 100% .

So after that whole situation.

So after that whole situation...two weeks later I was supposed to go visit him. He called a week prior and was very depressed saying his grandfather was in the hospital. He was 95 years old and lived a very long life. During that time his grandfather was in the hospital he never called me or text me. I only called and text once for that 3-4 days. THen he passed. We both agreed it was best if I didn't go down. So I cancled my trip. He was telling me about his family, how upset they were etc etc and I was still VERY emotional about what I had gone through a few weeks ago. I mentioned to him that he owed me money $ 250 for my procedure. He asked if I need it RIGHT now or if I could wait. I said..."Whenever, just reminding you". That's when he flipped out saying he was dealing with my shit for the past month and then I have the nerve to ask him for money after his grandfather just passed. I too was very emotional. I apologized and said it was wrong. But he couldn't let it go. He hung up on me twice. Then I had it. I said... "Forget about the money.. I'm sick of your shit. I don't wanna be friends anymore"

After a very long weekend and the funeral was over... I called to apologize again. I knew what I asked was wrong. I called...no answer. I left a VM asking him to call me back. He didn't. I then text him the next day apologizing. Telling him how much he meant to me. I adored him and didn't mean to hurt his feelings. No response. 5 days later..I called him. He answered. I asked if he accepted my apology. He said "100% absouloutly NOT" and that I need to learn that the world doesn't always revolve around me. He put me on hold to take a business call. After two mins, I hung up and tried calling back 20 mins later and he never answered. Then 5days later, I called him drunk on 4th of July. We talked for an hour...sadly, I was drunk and don't remember hardly any of it. I do remember him saying that he's not mad at me anymore about it. He hasn't been in the mood to talk to anyone. I asked him to meet me in Vegas and he said he was broke. I said to come up and visit...he said he was broke. I said I'll come down there and he said he was broke. I told him I missed him and asked if he missed me. I don't remember the answer.

I tried calling him July 5th...the next morning. He didn't answer. I left a voicemail, no call in return. It's been almost 10 days and no communication. We've been through a lot.
What do you think? Leave him be and let it go? Should I attempt

I tried calling him July 5th...the next morning. He didn't answer. I left a voicemail, no call in return. It's been almost 10 days and no communication. We've been through a lot.
What do you think? Leave him be and let it go? Should I attempt to contact him again? Or am I showing a sign of weakness?

If it matters at all... I'm 32 year old Sagittarius and he's about to be 30 at the end of the month.

@JustALeo- Thanks so much for your feedback.