I met a Leo guy awhile back and pretty much instantly we connected. I could tell he was into me when we had only known eachother for a little bit. After a week or so he told me how much he liked me and wanted to see if we could start dating and get serious. I was a little iffy, even though i liked him too. So i told him maybe it'd be better to stay friends a little while longer before any of that, and he said that was alright, he was willing to wait. I ended up telling him i liked him too though. He bought me tons of cute little gifts, and did plenty of things to show he cared about me, which i of course thought was sweet. When we werent together he'd text me and say how much he missed me and wanted to see me. But one day he suddenly told me he had to take care of some things, and that he wasnt ignoring me or anything. So i said okay, thats understandable. But the thing is, he hasnt talked to me for about two months now. I didnt want to bother him if he was busy taking care of things, cause i know how much that can bug people (including myself), so i waited to see if he would just text or call me when everything is taken care of. But a few weeks after that, i ended up texting him asking if everythings alright and things along those lines, but he didnt respond. He hasnt talked to me for two months now. . .im more confused than anything, about the situation. So im asking you Leo's, is this common behavior? I doubt it is, but i thought i'd ask. Also, should i text him asking if he ever plans on talking to me again? I've been wanting to do that, but i dont want him to think im annoying or something.
I agree, leo males don't up and disappear unless his pride has been wounded in some way.
It could be and its just a speculation, all that giving he was doing turned him off in some way, possibly he felt that he was doing too much and not getting what he desired in return so he decided to cut that connection. You slowing things down could have been a turn off as well and he felt he was wasting his time.
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Thanks.