Need your advice for Leo + Aqua

Please bear with me because I need to let it out ? to you gals and guys. I found your advice of great help before, but with this individual thing of mine I can?t seem to see clearly. Please help!

I met my lovely Leo on internet three years ago (he is from USA and he?s 34, I?m in Europe and I?m 36). We had passionate thing going on, discussing a meeting but with his difficulties arising out of everywhere he just couldn?t handle it and he obviously thought it?s better to disappear than to hurt me (but this exact thing ? disappearing, hurt me even more than it would if he told me he can?t go on).

Three years later, him - another wife/ another bad choice of partner, another child and me - just came out of another dysfunctional relationship (it seems I attract one type of men) well, we met again. We both believe that our meeting wasn?t just coincidence as well as our personal stories over this years.
He declared his love to me a month later, he found new place to live, he filled for divorce (wife had same ideas, so it wasn?t because of me as I would not let him) and he kept his word till now to write me at least once a week. My feeling went from friendly to hot burning for him. I miss him, I adore him, we both are very creative, passionate, deep, and I truly feel he is the One as I believe him when he says I am the One for him. We both went through very tough life experiences and our souls feel very much connected. We discussed a meeting this September.

Two months later one week-mail was not nearly enough for me. I asked for his pictures (which he would take just for me), I asked for more small affections (card, sms), I asked for him to call me and to give me his phone when he moves to a new place (it?s been two weeks and I still don?t have his phone), I asked if he would send me something (like t shirt or other small meaningful gift). I asked him this passionately, nicely, kindly a few times. Lat Saturday I had enough. I wrote him a letter to tell him how I feel when he did nothing of mentioned.

Sure, I expected a call right away! Nothing. Now, two full days after he ignores me and I feel sick. I feel scared that he will just disappear again, or that he will ignore my needs. I?m scared and angry at myself that I put my trust in him again just to be fooled again. I?m angry and disappointed at him for not giving me what I need.

I simply don?t know what to do. I feel cut off. Hurt more and more with his silence which I don?t understand. I feel I have a right to tell what I need and how I feel and I deserve to get what I need. If not I can only understand he doesn?t want to give me that or can?t (which is ridiculous.. who can?t pick up a phone and call—)
What to do? How to understand him and protect myself? How to believe in this Love?

Thanks in advance for your thoughts.

Lost in East

Of course you deserve to get what you need. You have a right to know what's going on. And who's going to pick up the pieces to your broken heart?
I think that maybe you should just give it some time. (I know you're thinking like, "What? I already gave him two weeks!") But let it set out for a while. In the meantime, maybe you can find time to connect with yourself and try to find what you really want and really need. If he still doesn't call back, then don't be hurt. I know it's going to hurt but sometimes you just have to pick up the pieces and move on. And if he so enters your life for a third time, set the record straight. 'Cause you don't want to get your heart broken again and you deserve and need to know some answers.

That's all I can say.

Crimson

LEO's need sex. I can't picture a leo being in love with someone they have never had sex with. If the mental connection is there, you need to have sex to seal the deal. I know it sounds shallow, but leos need sex to show their love. Until then, he will be in love with the person he is having sex with.

ok, i'm a full fledged leo and i'm tellin you it is not always sex that a leo needs to seal a deal!...i have fallen in love with a man w/out havin sex with them until later on down the road...a leo is not all about sex..a leo likes (well me anyway)..a conversation, someone to keep their interest mentally..good conversation is what i am trying to say...we also love affection and the lil things is what counts the most...i don't show my love with jus sex..i show my love in other ways too...communication, trust and loyality is very important...and never lie to a leo....we hate that...

so leo breezy not to b mean or anything..you need to look in urself and make sure you have the right perceptive of a leo .....crystal_tears