I think it's true that waiting for a man to come to you is total bull. It'll NEVER happen. And I'll agree that most men are afraid of strong women but you know what? That's too bad. There's is nothing wrong with being a strong woman, hell, we need more strong women nowadays!! If most men can't handle a strong, confident, assertive, magnetic woman, well it's their damn loss. The 1880's are way over guys. we got out of that freakin' kitchen a LONG TIME AGO.