Rejected a Leo Woman.

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LunarMaiden
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Posted by dannmann1992
She told me she liked me and waned to see where this goes with us but I rejected her. She knows I like her, I'm just confused. I call her after two weeks and asked to hang out she tells me no and to stop calling her.

1.Why would she do that? 2. What do I do now?



This is my take and feel free to correct me if I am wrong.
Because I am working with limited information.

You didn't reject, you repositioned the roles.

It appears you turned her down because she was acting in the masculine, which put you in the feminine.
Or you were already in the feminine which initiated her masculine.
Either way, she was pursuing you in the masculine and you ran.

You felt vulnerable and uncomfortable in this role, so after a few weeks of finding your footing you felt more comfortable pursuing her as a masculine.

Now she is in the feminine and running which should ignite your masculine instinct to pursue and conquer. Don't revert back to the feminine by confusing yourself.

DO NOT ignore and wait for her to contact you.
And if she is still in the masculine she will contact you soon.
Don't let her. You must be the masculine or this will not work.
You must pursue so she can run, let her run, build up her trust.
She's running because you hurt her pride and she's feeling vulnerable also.
Pursue her, woo her and win her.

And if she asks why you turned her down, tell her you wanted to court her properly.

If she doesn't respond, she doesn't get it and you are better off finding a feminine belle who will ignite your protective instincts.
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Montgomery
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Posted by 037
Taurus, you have a Leo moon, Aries Venus, Aries Mercury?

Because, I've seen this push and pull before. Instead of chasing him though, I stayed put.

Three years after a beautiful relationship, he went coconuts on me.

So, what's your plan.




I can see that-- Taurean men can be odd creatures, at times.

Oddly entitled, anyway.



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Probably her pride was hurt, she feels vulnerable, is wounded and tries to protect herself from being hurt again.
It is true that for a leo if smthng is done, it's really done. But they don't let go so easily. It really takes time to make that decision. Leo people have a very generous heart and that's why they give people second or third or more chances.
I would say be honest with her. Honesty is extremely important to a leo. And tell her how you feel. Tell her about your feelings.
Leo's only chase in the beginning. Once they fall for you, they go for you and they don't chase anymore. Don't make the mistake of ignoring her. This will hurt her much more. Just show her what she means to you.
I hope you'll get her back.
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bullbullgirl
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Why are you feeling confused?

I mean she tells you she likes you but you rejected her, and out of sudden, after 2 weeks (i assume no contact for 2 weeks), you ask her to hang out..

Most likely she's the one feeling hurt and confused, and doesnt want to be in this state trying to figure out what you want when you have rejected her but still asked her out. And you might have hurt her pride and ego because she tells you she likes you but is being rejected.

I suggest if you really like her and want to take it slow. Tell her that, because i think she took it as a rejection.
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Ego is too often seen as the Leo culprit, when it's much simpler:

She had feelings. She knew what she wanted and went for it as a Leo does. She put herself out there, made herself vulnerable, took a risk. And she was rejected. Her feelings were hurt and her vulnerability was wasted.

Leos are direct and often balls-to-the-wall honest; what you see is what you get, and we tend to take people the same way. So running after her after rejecting her reads as a typical immature game of hot-and-cold-push-and-pull, and a Leo who knows what they want has no time or tolerance for that nonsense.

So why would a Leo woman reconsider someone who carelessly hurt her feelings because of their own insecurity? Why would she risk making herself vulnerable again when the red flag is up that mind games are afoot?


The answer is simple: if she had any sense or self-respect, she -wouldn't-.