Rejected by Leo man

Been hanging out with this Leo man for quite some times. And decided to tell him what I feel. Basiacally just told him I like him and ask whether he is on the same page with me or not. And the answer is no.

But I still don't feel like giving him up yet. I wonder should I still chase after him but just act like a normal friend first. I realise I wasn't being myself when am with him. Trying hard to approach to him, that's why.

We hold hands we made out last time. He brought me to meet his sister and good friend. And even that night. He told me saying that all his friend were asking him whether am his gf or not, cause they can tell from how we act to each other.

What does this means ? Why do he ask me things like this but give me an answer no. Should I still go after him ? Am so lost. Appreciate if someone could give me some advices. He is 28yo btw.

Posted by yw
Been hanging out with this Leo man for quite some times. And decided to tell him what I feel. Basiacally just told him I like him and ask whether he is on the same page with me or not. And the answer is no.

But I still don't feel like giving him up yet. I wonder should I still chase after him but just act like a normal friend first. I realise I wasn't being myself when am with him. Trying hard to approach to him, that's why.

We hold hands we made out last time. He brought me to meet his sister and good friend. And even that night. He told me saying that all his friend were asking him whether am his gf or not, cause they can tell from how we act to each other.

What does this means ? Why do he ask me things like this but give me an answer no. Should I still go after him ? Am so lost. Appreciate if someone could give me some advices. He is 28yo btw.

No...Do not chase him...Let him come to you on his own...In the meantime, live your life, and look fabulous...That will reel him in..If not, set your sights on someone new😉 By the way, what is your sign?

He already said no.

Believe him.

Posted by yw
Been hanging out with this Leo man for quite some times. And decided to tell him what I feel. Basiacally just told him I like him and ask whether he is on the same page with me or not. And the answer is no.

But I still don't feel like giving him up yet. I wonder should I still chase after him but just act like a normal friend first. I realise I wasn't being myself when am with him. Trying hard to approach to him, that's why.

We hold hands we made out last time. He brought me to meet his sister and good friend. And even that night. He told me saying that all his friend were asking him whether am his gf or not, cause they can tell from how we act to each other.

What does this means ? Why do he ask me things like this but give me an answer no. Should I still go after him ? Am so lost. Appreciate if someone could give me some advices. He is 28yo btw.

This story makes zero sense, without further detail.

1) When did you tell him you had feelings for him, and he told you no.

2) Depending on answer to 1, the question can be answered properly.

If the time frame is awhile apart, then I can see him developing romantic feelings after been told. However, if he told you no, and made out with you later that night, he may be just trying to get it in cause he knows he can.

Without the additional details, it just sounds like he is fucking with you.

Posted by yw
Been hanging out with this Leo man for quite some times. And decided to tell him what I feel. Basiacally just told him I like him and ask whether he is on the same page with me or not. And the answer is no.

But I still don't feel like giving him up yet. I wonder should I still chase after him but just act like a normal friend first. I realise I wasn't being myself when am with him. Trying hard to approach to him, that's why.

We hold hands we made out last time. He brought me to meet his sister and good friend. And even that night. He told me saying that all his friend were asking him whether am his gf or not, cause they can tell from how we act to each other.

What does this means ? Why do he ask me things like this but give me an answer no. Should I still go after him ? Am so lost. Appreciate if someone could give me some advices. He is 28yo btw.

There is no point chasing a guy who told you that he isn't into you. Think about it, how does that make sense?

Posted by DMV
He already said no.

Believe him.

Yeah, move on. plenty of fish in the sea darling.

He makes out with you, holds hands with you, but doesn't like you eh?.

Posted by Kityyyyyyy
He makes out with you, holds hands with you, but doesn't like you eh?.

I know right. And he asked me question like that.

When I ignore his texts, he will double text me. After all, I thought these was all the signs.

He even still do the same ( double text, ask me where am I who am with ) after he said no to me.

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Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by yw
Been hanging out with this Leo man for quite some times. And decided to tell him what I feel. Basiacally just told him I like him and ask whether he is on the same page with me or not. And the answer is no.

But I still don't feel like giving him up yet. I wonder should I still chase after him but just act like a normal friend first. I realise I wasn't being myself when am with him. Trying hard to approach to him, that's why.

We hold hands we made out last time. He brought me to meet his sister and good friend. And even that night. He told me saying that all his friend were asking him whether am his gf or not, cause they can tell from how we act to each other.

What does this means ? Why do he ask me things like this but give me an answer no. Should I still go after him ? Am so lost. Appreciate if someone could give me some advices. He is 28yo btw.

There is no point chasing a guy who told you that he isn't into you. Think about it, how does that make sense?

Because she has hope that maybe he'll fall for her one day

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He said, "No" though. She's disrespecting herself by chasing this guy.

Take solace in Chuckems wise counsel, he is a Leo. You can do better.

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Posted by yw
Been hanging out with this Leo man for quite some times. And decided to tell him what I feel. Basiacally just told him I like him and ask whether he is on the same page with me or not. And the answer is no.

But I still don't feel like giving him up yet. I wonder should I still chase after him but just act like a normal friend first. I realise I wasn't being myself when am with him. Trying hard to approach to him, that's why.

We hold hands we made out last time. He brought me to meet his sister and good friend. And even that night. He told me saying that all his friend were asking him whether am his gf or not, cause they can tell from how we act to each other.

What does this means ? Why do he ask me things like this but give me an answer no. Should I still go after him ? Am so lost. Appreciate if someone could give me some advices. He is 28yo btw.

This story makes zero sense, without further detail.

1) When did you tell him you had feelings for him, and he told you no.

2) Depending on answer to 1, the question can be answered properly.

If the time frame is awhile apart, then I can see him developing romantic feelings after been told. However, if he told you no, and made out with you later that night, he may be just trying to get it in cause he knows he can.

Without the additional details, it just sounds like he is fucking with you.

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He made out with me before I told him how I feels. We out for movies, golfing lessons, drinks.

If I didn't text him, he will send me a msg later at night like " how's my day going " and telling me how his days went. And then a goodnight text.

And now after I got the answer, he will still ask me where am I or who am I with. If I ignore his texts, he will still double text me ( ask me if am still drinking, and tell me not to drink much cause he knows am on a diet program )

Just like today. He replied me a " ok ". So I just no more replying him. Then he will start a conversation again.

Just curious why would he act like that. This is not good friend or coach as what he says where he see himself in our relationship.

Posted by Gob_Shite
His ego's being stroked, with boundary lines blurred. Basically, he's being self-centred and knows what he's doing, but you've fallen for his Leo charm.

And, no, didn't hold out any hope because it'll always be that way until he grows up (if ever). With a Leo, that could take years or even decades...

Hmm but why would you say his ego s being stroked ? Just wondering.

So there is anything I can do now ? We still chit chat like normal now, he even still double text me. I just don't feel like he is just being good friend to me. ?