Scandalous Leo's

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Kesha
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So I've had these bad experiences with two Leo and not to be fucking awful to you guys but are y'all like players?

They both lead me on and I thought things were going well and then bam next fucking thing I know they pop up with girlfriends like how awful of a thing to do to a person!

Now this is just two different Leo's so I don't want to be too biased, I'm just curious why that would happen twice. One's birthday is the 18th of August 1997and the other is August 3rd 1990.
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Sorry to hear that Leos are giving you the run around. Sometimes I feel that Cancer women may be too sweet for younger Leo guys to appreciate. One Leo is 20 and the other is 27 correct? You are probably much too young for the 27 year old Leo (player or not), since you are 18. I personally wouldn't consider dating someone so young at the age of 27. Also Leos need women to be very direct with us, which can be tricky for Cancers at times.

The Cancer women I've known tend to connect initially on an emotional and cerebral level. This can sometimes go over a Leo's head since we are also very physical people. Also any sun sign can be a player, Leo is no exception. While we do have a reputation for being attention whores, Leos will often focus intently on the person they love and be extremely loyal to them.

Understand though that due to our nature, we do get a lot of attention from members of the opposite sex. That's not to say that we'll entertain those other people, but know that Leos do attract attention constistently. We are very much like Libras in that our charm can confuse people into believing we are more invested than we are at times.

One thing to remember is that Cancers may be prone to over-analyzing. You may find that you emotionally build up situations in your head, only to be disappointed in the reality later. Also it's best to watch a Leo's actions towards you. Here's a response I sent to someone a while back about how to tell if a Leo is actually interested in you:

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/leo-in-love-vs-a-leo-who-likes-you-8478533/
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Kesha
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Posted by Chuckcem
Sorry to hear that Leos are giving you the run around. Sometimes I feel that Cancer women may be too sweet for younger Leo guys to appreciate. One Leo is 20 and the other is 27 correct? You are probably much too young for the 27 year old Leo (player or not), since you are 18. I personally wouldn't consider dating someone so young at the age of 27. Also Leos need women to be very direct with us, which can be tricky for Cancers at times.

The Cancer women I've known tend to connect initially on an emotional and cerebral level. This can sometimes go over a Leo's head since we are also very physical people. Also any sun sign can be a player, Leo is no exception. While we do have a reputation for being attention whores, Leos will often focus intently on the person they love and be extremely loyal to them.

Understand though that due to our nature, we do get a lot of attention from members of the opposite sex. That's not to say that we'll entertain those other people, but know that Leos do attract attention constistently. We are very much like Libras in that our charm can confuse people into believing we are more invested than we are at times.

One thing to remember is that Cancers may be prone to over-analyzing. You may find that you emotionally build up situations in your head, only to be disappointed in the reality later. Also it's best to watch a Leo's actions towards you. Here's a response I sent to someone a while back about how to tell if a Leo is actually interested in you:

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/leo-in-love-vs-a-leo-who-likes-you-8478533/
I suppose you are right about my over analyzing. I just really felt like we where connecting because the 27 year old he was always so helpful towards me and the 27 year old would always rush out to see me right after work and he never even mentioned any other girls or brought them around. Even yesterday I walked past the front of his house around down the alley and here he comes with some girl driving down the street then when I get back around to my house they come walking down the street and it's so tortuous to see. The other Leo was years ago just an experience I had. Thanks for the other link too, very good things to keep in mind since Leo's tend to catch my attention.
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Kesha
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When you spend time with dudes you ask them if they are married/engaged/gf-ed up right? Always assume dudes are running game...always.
Here's a little vent apologisy. Not to sound slutty but I feel like if you where right minded I shouldn't have to ask whether you have a gf, wife or any of that and this girl came out of the fucking blue!! I've known him over a year and he's dated 2 girls, and I can't remember if this is one of the girls or not she kind of looks familiar. He likes walks down the alley and gets on the phone giving her directions and flagging her down then she comes down the alley and I glimpse her through her car and she parks in his drive way and he takes his merry jolly time going back to his house so I go in and I stalk from the window and he keeps taking his time then I walk a way come back and he's just getting past my house. So I finally open the door to go and walk my dog and he turns around and stares then walks away and then they come driving down the alley in his truck. Like he seems to shy to run game!!
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Posted by CrabNextDoor
Posted by LadyNeptune
When you spend time with dudes you ask them if they are married/engaged/gf-ed up right? Always assume dudes are running game...always.
Here's a little vent apologisy. Not to sound slutty but I feel like if you where right minded I shouldn't have to ask whether you have a gf, wife or any of that and this girl came out of the fucking blue!! I've known him over a year and he's dated 2 girls, and I can't remember if this is one of the girls or not she kind of looks familiar. He likes walks down the alley and gets on the phone giving her directions and flagging her down then she comes down the alley and I glimpse her through her car and she parks in his drive way and he takes his merry jolly time going back to his house so I go in and I stalk from the window and he keeps taking his time then I walk a way come back and he's just getting past my house. So I finally open the door to go and walk my dog and he turns around and stares then walks away and then they come driving down the alley in his truck. Like he seems to shy to run game!!
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Trust me on this one, people are not transparent. Not everyone has good intentions.

In order to protect yourself you NEED to ask these questions. That way when a dude lies to you or leads you on and you later find out you can walk away and cut ties without remorse.
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Posted by CrabNextDoor
Posted by LadyNeptune
When you spend time with dudes you ask them if they are married/engaged/gf-ed up right? Always assume dudes are running game...always.
Here's a little vent apologisy. Not to sound slutty but I feel like if you where right minded I shouldn't have to ask whether you have a gf, wife or any of that and this girl came out of the fucking blue!! I've known him over a year and he's dated 2 girls, and I can't remember if this is one of the girls or not she kind of looks familiar. He likes walks down the alley and gets on the phone giving her directions and flagging her down then she comes down the alley and I glimpse her through her car and she parks in his drive way and he takes his merry jolly time going back to his house so I go in and I stalk from the window and he keeps taking his time then I walk a way come back and he's just getting past my house. So I finally open the door to go and walk my dog and he turns around and stares then walks away and then they come driving down the alley in his truck. Like he seems to shy to run game!!
Trust me on this one, people are not transparent. Not everyone has good intentions.

In order to protect yourself you NEED to ask these questions. That way when a dude lies to you or leads you on and you later find out you can walk away and cut ties without remorse.
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@CrabNextDoor - i knew a Leo who pulled the same move. Leos can make you feel extra special which

can really disarm a Cancer.

You have to always ask which may not be what a Cancer is used to. You cannot assume someone is

available.

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Kesha
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by CrabNextDoor
Posted by LadyNeptune
When you spend time with dudes you ask them if they are married/engaged/gf-ed up right? Always assume dudes are running game...always.
Here's a little vent apologisy. Not to sound slutty but I feel like if you where right minded I shouldn't have to ask whether you have a gf, wife or any of that and this girl came out of the fucking blue!! I've known him over a year and he's dated 2 girls, and I can't remember if this is one of the girls or not she kind of looks familiar. He likes walks down the alley and gets on the phone giving her directions and flagging her down then she comes down the alley and I glimpse her through her car and she parks in his drive way and he takes his merry jolly time going back to his house so I go in and I stalk from the window and he keeps taking his time then I walk a way come back and he's just getting past my house. So I finally open the door to go and walk my dog and he turns around and stares then walks away and then they come driving down the alley in his truck. Like he seems to shy to run game!!
Trust me on this one, people are not transparent. Not everyone has good intentions.

In order to protect yourself you NEED to ask these questions. That way when a dude lies to you or leads you on and you later find out you can walk away and cut ties without remorse.
+1

@CrabNextDoor - i knew a Leo who pulled the same move. Leos can make you feel extra special which

can really disarm a Cancer.

You have to always ask which may not be what a Cancer is used to. You cannot assume someone is

available.



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Thanks for the advice I will keep that in mind! I guess I went into the situation blindly and assumed since Leo's are all courageous lions and what not that they would be straight forward like Virgos.